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Trust is more than feelings and it's something that we built over time with people around us. If either one party has lost the trust, it's very hard to gain it back... well, it'll never be the same...

My experience... it's not about who's right and/or who's wrong... accept the fact that your methodologies are not working and make changes. It's easier to make changes to yourself than changing...

My experience... the boundary of sharing in any relationship is broaden over time with mutual trust and respect and understanding... not just about your own likes and dislikes.

Was it really because of the arguments that he's breaking up with you? If so, what were the arguments about?

This is very tricky. I'd just keep it this way if you really don't like to hang out with him because he doesn't seems to get the message. Not unless you are genuinely like to be his friends and not...

You are so right DMBacoustic.
You can't force him to love you regardless of how much you love him. Force = Push. The more you force the further he will be pushed away. You have just gained some...

Someone told me, the opposite of love is hatred. Is that right?

This reminds me of why my boyfriend and I fight all the time bcoz we re-act to each others words and actions. As we learnt our lessons - it hurts every time we fight, now we pause a bit and think...

Thanks Jolienoire and wizzlet

He did it again to me. Just like I expected. Texted to say he couldn't see me tonight with a lame excuse. He could make time for most of his friends but when it comes to me, there's always something...

I was on NC for a while; he called and texted me recently to catch up as he just got back from overseas. I tried to ignore/avoid him but we met last night. As usual, he gave me hope again. My heart...

Could be he respects you and the relationship, and might leave sex until after marriage.

I had similar experience. If you give in, he won't change and will only get worsen. Would be good if you could distant yourself from him, better still if you could free yourself from him, best if you...

Have fun with her and at the same time, make sure you are having fun and happy too.

I've learnt from experience - you can't "make believe" your happiness. Face the reality and deal with it now. The longer you wait, the more you suffer. If he's not ready to commit now or ever, what...

Yes! Do it. He/she will do the same anyway...

NO to all. Definitely it's time for me to let go and move on...

Care is a very subtle thing. If your care comes from your sincere heart, it's natural and he'll feel it sooner or laterbut if you care because you want to or you need to, it's not natural and he can...

What goes around comes around... I'll leave to karma. I'll deal with mine, and he has to deal with his...

I have similar experience. The worst thing is, after he said all the nasty words, he still have the guts to say "no hard feelings!". He threatened me, and even said if it's not because I helped him a...

I had similar experience. The more I think of him, the harder I get to move on. It's that emptiness without him that really hurts. Then I started to think, the pain that he gave me, and I don't want...

Have you promised her anything before? Such as you never hold any grudges, you are OK every time she apologized to you... etc. She might not get the idea that there is a limit to everything, no...

I'd rather hear the truth from someone close like a close friend. If that's what really going on, just talk to him and let him decide. He might be upset and might not act immediately but it'll slowly...

Smoking is hard to give up. If he's trying, I'd say give him a chance but if he's just saying it to win your heart and not going to do it, just forget about him else you'd end up in pain if you give...

Does he know how you feel? Being together 7 years doesn't mean that he knows exactly how you feel especially in this situation. If you have decided what you want, go talk to him, and let him decide.

There's nothing wrong to be friends, and if you didn't do anything that no one shouldn't know, what are you afraid of?

Yeah, letting go is the best way. Come to think of it, I didn't even want him in the first place. Literally, he's not supposed to be there, just did... like a stain...

It's time to call/text her. You won't know what's exactly going on if there's no communication. Personally, I don't like to guess as it might plant unnecessary seeds in my head.

She might felt...

I have similar experience. He just want to get what he wants to make himself feels good/better, and he'll walk that extra mile... In actual fact, he has nothing...

Coz you let go, and eventually you return to who you originally are... it's that "you" that people like... not someone you changed to please them...

I've heard that archery could help improve a person's balancing. Not sure if this is right and if it is, how so?

Yes, Twinkiedooter, it's much much more than $100 and he's paying me monthly. Well, I'm kind of on the top of his list of loan repayment (he has a lot of loans). I've got a feeling that he's going to...

I'm with this guy for over 1 year. He treats me very differently compared to his friends. Generally, I'm not totally happy because he treats more like a tool than a friend. He only treats me well...