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Definitely do not write her this letter. I think she just wants to see if you will do it just to boost her ego. It sounds like she already cheated with you (by kissing). Do you really want to have...

NO YOU DO NOT HAVE TO TELL HIM!!! WHY? BECAUSE YOU ARE NO LONGER A COUPLE!!! He is not entitled to know what you're doing 24/7 and vice versa... that is the part about breaking up. He has broken up...

I have to agree w/ the majority of people here. You need to stop hanging out with him - PERIOD. He's never going to figure out what he wants if you are always there. And you are never going to...

Busted! Nice catch Tal. You're married and wanting to flirt and hook up with some restaurant hostess? Has Tiger Woods joined Ask Me Help Desk!!

Why should you need an apology from her? I would say thank you for showing me your true deceitful colors! But seriously, I wouldn't even waste the time talking to her. She's history, and from what...

The question you should ask yourself is: does his frugality change the way you feel about him?

It's hard to read your post. You said first that stuff should be split 50/50, then you say that a...

I would say dump her before she dumps you. Because it is eventually going to happen, she has been testing the waters and keeping you around just in case she can't find anything better. You deserve...

There are tons of attractive girls out there. It's a little bit harder to find an attractive personality to match the looks. That's more or less my philosophy right now with getting back into the...

So much of this rings true with the situation I had with my ex-girlfriend. Her parents were far-out-there religious, and constantly said they didn't see her with me, didn't think I was right for...

Is it possible? Yes. Is it possible right now? HEELLLL NO! Disappear and start re-building your life as an individual.

Yeah it was an up and down roller coaster at times. She would occasionally have these "flare ups" about not wanting to have sex due to religious reasons (most likely from pressure from her parents)....

Congratulations! *High Fives* But seriously... is this a question or are you just gloating? ;)

Were you not enough for him? Absolutely not. Don't blame yourself for this scumbag. He obviously lacks any sort of resemblance of what I call "ethics" and "morales." You've become nothing more...

I'd stay away. You don't go into too much detail about how deeply you two were involved, but the fact that she went from dating you to your best friend is a fairly big warning flag. Without knowing...

Slowly but surely continuing to heal. I've managed to avoid seeing her and have ignored all of her calls at work for a good amount of time now. I've gotten to the point where I can go hours on end...

Yep you've done quite well. Get it all out of your system now, because you don't want to turn into a dumb sh*t like that other guy who goes into places and starts fights with exes, yadda yadda. As...

Don't walk, RUN out the door. You shouldn't have to 'fight' for anybody's affection, that's bullcrap and she just wanted that to feed her ego to have two guys coming after her. Lose this girl fast.

She's full of crap is why she's saying this, there's nothing confusing about it. If you were "the one" she would drop everything and be with you. The fact that she "needs" to date other people is...

Somebody who TRULY LOVES you would never say such a thing. She would accept you for who you are, and not condescendingly refer to you as "the woman" of the relationship. Jee... I'm not really sure...

Please... immature skanks go after "bad boys." Women go after REAL men. Rest assured that one day this guy is going to act like a tough guy and start something up with somebody who won't take that...

Ok first of all, you need to stop reading her Facebook messages and email accounts, etc... I'm not going to tell you it's illegal because that's just silly, but it is not a good thing. First of...

First of all, I can see why this a-hole had two girlfriends leave him, he sounds like a hot-headed jerk. It's a shame he didn't get his head kicked in by the other guy (I like to see jerks get what...

Until she sincerely says that she wants to get back together with you none of it matters. After my ex was telling me how she has let me go, she didn't see a future with me, there's no passion in...

Good, give her all the space she needs by DISAPPEARING FROM HER LIFE. She will want to have you hanging around just in case the FNG (freakin' new guy :) ) doesn't work out. This is why she is...

I think I would be. Age I think is irrelevant, I don't stay with people for longer if my heart is not in it. After two or two and a half years of being with a person I should know enough about them...

This more or less proves my theory that you can never ever let yourself become comfortable in a relationship with a girl. Even if they say they that they love you and all that stuff, the second that...

Haha, I wish girls thought like us guys. My ex broke up with me because I wasn't ready for marriage totally based on I wasn't sure if I was ready to financially provide and take care of her. She...

I wouldn't talk to her. Nothing good will come out of it for either one of you. If anything, she just wants to talk to you to make herself feel less guilty for hurting you. I would avoid talking...

So if you're a child for having feelings for her, does that make her pedophile? ;) This girl sounds extremely immature. People show you who they really are in a breakup, no more breaking NC as it...

But like I am saying, why can't she go out and be social with people and have fun with her friends while still BEING TOGETHER WITH YOU? It's not like you tie her up in the basement or don't allow...

In all honesty, I think she is playing you for a fool. I don't mean that to be condescending towards you, because I've been this same fool because I was wearing rose colored glasses because I was...

Having gone through the whole dealing with a Christian ex girlfriend with my last situation I have a few comments to offer. My situation was not me an atheist, her a Christian. I am a Christian,...

Just giving my monthly update. I definitely only come here now to stop other people from making stupid mistakes and falling for ex's antics. :D

Gymnasion has been on. I've switched gears and am...

That's good to hear. It will get easier and easier day by day. I swear my ex was in my dreams and / or the first thing I thought about when waking up for a good solid 2+ plus months after going NC....

Yep as the others have said just stay busy and do your own thing. It sucks, but feelings can change just like that, and others are most likely right that is something that she was mulling over for a...

NO CONTACT, NO CONTACT, NO CONTACT for the win! Whatever you do, do not talk to this girl. If she still loved you and wanted to be with you SHE WOULD BE. She is trying to play you for a fool, and...

Emo, I'm a little over 5 months since my break up, well that being around time NC was implemented when she stopped being wishy/washy and didn't want me as anything anymore. I still think about my ex...

No more emailing. She knows you want to get back together with her. Continuing to talk to her will only delay your healing more. You're getting dangerously close to putting her on a pedestal. It...

Let me get this straight, she ignores you until you're going to take her shopping and buy her things? This girl sounds like she's using you. Kick her to the curb, and definitely don't buy anything...

FaceBook is irrelevant, I only use that site to post random funny stuff to get laughs out of people. I never consider it serious for relationship type stuff. Neither should you. He threw you a...

You're not alone in this endeavor. I had just turned 24 when I started dating my now ex-girlfriend, and she is what I would consider my first long-term girlfriend. It's not because there is...

I'm with Rome on this one, you must be one of the most forgiving people in the world. He cheated on you, not with just anybody, WITH YOUR SISTER. AND GOT HER PREGNANT! This is not healthy at all,...

This may be hard for you to hear, because you obviously have feelings for her. But kick this slut to the curb. I am all about trust in a relationship, and she has shown that you can not trust her. ...

That sucks my friend, as in most cases where an ex "wants space" it's because they want to pursue other options. I went through the whole "I want a break" type thing with my ex, and that eventually...

You are right, we are all going to tell you to do NC. You have your answer on whether contacting her is a good idea... she refused to talk to you, and now you're just becoming annoying to her. Any...

Do what you think is best, but I think you should do NC with both of them. You have got to get your mind off your ex. I feel that trying to work out the situation with your friend is just going to...

To be quite honest I think that you are better off without both of them. It is my view that if he was truly your best friend he would not have kissed your girlfriend in the first place. I know who...

There are six BILLION people on this planet! To think that this one girl was absolute perfection is not only non-sense, it's mathematically highly impossible! Nobody is perfect, NOBODY. I was...

So why did you ask for advice in the first place then if you were just going to ignore it and follow your original intentions? We are not trying to rain on your parade, just trying to give you a...

Imissher,

I'm speaking from experience here. My ex's progression went from:
1.) We're done forever
2.) Let's just be friends
3.) Friends with benefits - us basically hanging out like we were...