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    One final note of thanks. I appeared in court on...

    One final note of thanks. I appeared in court on Dec 23 and she didn't, not even by phone. So the judge read my stipulation into the record (since my ex never signed it) and gave me everything I...
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    Hahahahahahahahahaha, I genuinely laughed out...

    Hahahahahahahahahaha, I genuinely laughed out loud!! Thanks again. You are a life saver!:)
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    Update: I wrote up a Stipulation and Order which...

    Update: I wrote up a Stipulation and Order which said we agreed to:
    1. Terminate all spousal support payments. 2. Forgive any arrears. 3. Vacate the motion and cancel the hearing. 4. Rescind...
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    One more thing, the I & E nor the Responsive...

    One more thing, the I & E nor the Responsive Declaration are not stamped. Does this mean I have to file them with the court?

    It's always something!

    PMM
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    I answered too soon. I just received by UPS her...

    I answered too soon. I just received by UPS her responsive declaration. In it she AGREES TO TERMINATION OF SPOUSAL SUPPORT!!

    I am so happy I could S**T! You have helped me to win the battle...
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    Dear Mr. Cadillac59, today I may have won a...

    Dear Mr. Cadillac59, today I may have won a battle, although I am not certain as yet. I just received a Substitution of Attorney MC-050. As of now, my ex is representing herself. Which means she...
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    Yes, I was thinking that might be the case, it's...

    Yes, I was thinking that might be the case, it's too old. She is definitely healthier now, she is holding down a full time job. An update VOC EVAL is going to cost me but it may be well worth it.
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    Got it. Set support to zero, without prejudice. ...

    Got it. Set support to zero, without prejudice. So the sanctions are just about attorney fees and court costs or a public scolding, not about chunks of cash being paid by one side to the other?
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    Ok, I will ask the judge to set support to zero. ...

    Ok, I will ask the judge to set support to zero. You say she can't set the retroactive date to before the motion was filed but she can certainly sanction my ex for hiding the cohabitation for...
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    That would be about Dec 10. I am on pins and...

    That would be about Dec 10. I am on pins and needles until then. If the judge just sets the evidentiary hearing I expect she will not suspend alimony and I will still be paying alimony until next...
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    New question: I am getting nervous because OPC...

    New question: I am getting nervous because OPC has not responded to my motion yet. Last time he responded within a week. I filed on Nov 7. We have a court date on Dec 23, how long can he wait to...
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    As for attempted murder, Thanks for the tip, I...

    As for attempted murder, Thanks for the tip, I will keep that in mind, LOL.

    As for the fancy argument, I will make it simple, I will move out. I already have a friend with a room. Should I be...
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    I don't know if it is proper to name drop but: ...

    I don't know if it is proper to name drop but:

    My judge is a young woman, Santa Clara Superior Court, who was slipped in after my first judge, another woman, was promoted. In hindsight, I don't...
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    No permits and not separate.

    No permits and not separate.
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    Thanks for your response. I am not worried about...

    Thanks for your response. I am not worried about doing my taxes. The IRS I can deal with. It is the family law judge that is a problem.

    I agree it is not a long term solution to have a negative...
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    I think I am getting it. If she got her first...

    I think I am getting it. If she got her first and only degree-related job within 10 years of separation then the community did not substantially benefit from the education and she may be liable for...
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    Justwantfair, I have been known to resist...

    Justwantfair,

    I have been known to resist authority. But that's not always a bad thing. Look at the ground swell for Obama against the tide (albeit ebbing) of the current administration. ...
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    Well, I was actually responding (sarcastically)...

    Well, I was actually responding (sarcastically) to someone who was directing personal insults toward me. But I see that person's post has been deleted as well. You have a very efficient system...
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    I agree. The system is, by law, adversarial. ...

    I agree. The system is, by law, adversarial. Attorneys have to be aggressive complicating everything. In California there are efforts being made to make divorce more mediate-able. But some people...
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    JudyKayTee said, "Would you go on line for...

    JudyKayTee said, "Would you go on line for information and then perform surgery on yourself? If not, don't go on line and prepare your own divorce papers."

    The risks and obstacles are hardly in...
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    LOL! No no no, keep it coming. This is very...

    LOL! No no no, keep it coming. This is very interesting to me. Kind of wish I had a degree in law instead of chemistry. Thank you for the instruction on filing.

    Now if I may get more...
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    So just to get this entirely clear, I just need...

    So just to get this entirely clear, I just need the "Memorandum in support of" (that's what the books called it) and POS' and I go to the clerk?

    Oh, I found a case that might help me but it is...
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    So, if I understand you correctly, I fill out my...

    So, if I understand you correctly, I fill out my P and A's and simply mail it to the judge and have it served to the OPC? Since I have already filed my motion, there is no clerk filing, is that...
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    Yes, I was asking about after the motion has been...

    Yes, I was asking about after the motion has been filed. My hearing is the 23rd of Dec so I have some time. Sounds like what I need to do is visit a law library. Many thanks.

    PMM
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    Is the format the same as a declaration? Just...

    Is the format the same as a declaration? Just remove the wording and replace it with Points and Authorities? Or is it much more complicated. Is there a place that I can look at one for some...
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    Wow, you have given me more information in one...

    Wow, you have given me more information in one paragraph than two attorneys did in three years. Thanks so much. Every time I walk into that courtroom I feel like a walking target. Of course they...
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    Btw: What is the difference between a trial and...

    Btw: What is the difference between a trial and a hearing? I have been doing research on the PLOL site and all the appellate cases I have studied derived from a trial. And yet I have never had a...
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    The marriage was 24 years. It took 3 years to...

    The marriage was 24 years. It took 3 years to get a judgement, aided and abetted by both sides attorneys. Why end the gravy train when daddy's paying the fare? I kept asking for a trial, over and...
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    Thanks for your response. She didn't actually...

    Thanks for your response. She didn't actually admit being supported by Boyfriend. Her Income Expense Declaration says her ACTUAL Expenses are $3900 per month (on at least three FL-150's). Her only...
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    Cal Support Modification- in pro per

    Hello all,

    I have filed a motion to modify support based on changes in circumstance, 1. cohabitation of my ex-wife, 2. based on her income and expense declaration he is supporting her big time 3....
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