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Hey guys, I haven't posted in a few weeks, so here's an update... I have recovered a lot, I don't think about her nearly as much and am beginning to move on, she IMed me about 3 weeks ago and we...

This sums up how a lot of us are feeling... but there's hope and a good message!
Not one of Chicago's best songs (I've never heard it before today) but still good...
I couldn't find it on YouTube...

No updates... just wondering if anyone has any advice for me, I feel like I need it

So NC was broken twice for me in the past few days, over AIM... I had deleted her from my buddy list for my sanity. (we had broken up 5 weeks before and I hadn't talked to her in almost 3 weeks), I...

I'm happy things are working out for you rome... it's so crazy to think before coming here me and a lot of people I'm sure have as their initial gut reaction to call/text/contact your ex as much as...

Bigbird and Brian, the same thing happened to me too. She needed space, I was her first boyfriend, and she needed time to think things out and be single... she wanted to date other guys and see...

The place I'm staying at for 4 months is actually in Old Town... so I'm sure I'll be there at least a few times :D

Thanks sneezy, I started working out a few weeks ago but then got lazy but I'm thinking of starting up again, maybe tomorrow actually... im leaving to study abroad in Prague in a month so I'm sure...

If you go on Facebook a lot and find it hard to stay off and don't want to defriend her... u can go to the feed settings and make it so that nothing about her pops up on your home page, and then just...

1. Yea I've been doing that for the past few weeks and it has helped a ton so far

2. nicely done

3. I can imagine that sneeze and it sounds hilarious

Yea I agree, it seems as if you know things won't work out with you too... you've tried but they just won't but yet you're still hurting which is natural. The best thing for your sake is to go to NC...

Hey Sneezy, I've been reading through your thread for the past 1-1.5 hrs, and its been very entertaining but besides that I'm glad to see that you've recovered so well. I'm only on day 16 of no...

I found out today that whoever's in charge is scrapping the idea of letting frosh and soph girls living in the same house I will be in next year... yay! I'll still see her pretty often but not all...

Man I really really really hate dreams sometimes... I literally dreamed about my ex the entire night... I know that because I woke up a few times and remembered my dreams vividly, I thought I was...

Thanks kevin, that actually puts a lot of things in perspective

Haha, I've seen it twice... amazing movie!

And back to the original poster... ive been broken up with my ex for about a month and the same stuff has been going through my mind this whole time but...

Thanks guys... I just want to know though if anyone personally has been in or knows someone that has been in the same situation as me where there is pretty much no contact for a while after the...

Fyi, for any Facebook users out there, if you don't want anybody seeing changes in your relationship status, you can go to privacy and make sure it doesn't show up on the feeds when you change it......

When we broke up, it was veryyyy emotional for both of us and she made it pretty clear that she wanted to maintain a pretty good friendship. I understand that this is often a way to make things end...

I got some kind of troubling news today... my girlfriend and I have been broken up for 3 weeks and we haven't talked in more than a week... we're both in the same scholarship organization and go to...

yea same here, I had a bunch saved to look at whenever I wanted but I immediately deleted them, I didn't want to accidentally look at them again... I still got some random stuff stashed away in my...

Yea in my dream we got back together and everything was pretty much back to normal, I don't remember all the details just that I felt really good... and when I woke up and realized it wasn't real, I...

Know what sucks? When you have a dream about your ex, a good dream... and then u wake up and it seemed so real that its disappointing, just happened to me and a flood of memories just came back to...

So this is my 3rd day of no contact... before the breakup if we weren't together, we would talk on AIM a lot... now we both still go on it on some nights, seeing her online frustrates me sometimes...

Yea I know, the way things ended, she seemed really confused about her decision to break it up and said she doesn't know what she wants right now... I go to study abroad in about a month and ill be...

My girlfriend broke up with me about 2.5 weeks ago, I hadn't talked to her in 12 days but on Monday I IMed her, it was tough seeing her online all the time and I wanted to know how she was doing......

Well even so that can't happen and I don't want it to happen... we're essentially in the same group of friends at school and same scholarship organization so it's more than just a cordial business...

The thing is that's impossible, after I study abroad this fall I go back to school in the winter and I'll see her all the time whether I like it or not... at least a few times a week. I hope by that...

So I caved in and broke the no contact and IMed my ex this afternoon... we talked for a good 5-10 minutes pretty steadily but after that it was mostly one-sided, me asking questions about her and...

Yeah I figured that waiting is best but even though you say 10 days isn't that much and I know you're right, it's seemed like forever because we used to talk everyday all the time about everything. ...

I'll try to keep this as short as I can but 2 weeks ago today my girlfriend broke up with me. We had been dating for almost 8 months and everything seemed pretty much all right up until that week...