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Went to see the therapist last night and she says their policy is to always leave communication lines open. Not sure if we have done that? We sent him an e mail last week to say the door is open if...

Oh and yes as posted I do work and do other things but this worry is always with me.

Thank you - am back to see the therapist this evening. I really need this help right now please continue with this much needed and appreciated help.

Please don't leave me

Yes he has some promo work about 3/4 days each week but the employment situation in our area is not good. I just find it do hard. He did have a drug problem about 5 years ago but we got him sorted...

Even worse day to day so worried apparently he has about reached his overdraft limit. I am worried out if my mind?

Not a good night last night. My youngest son said he had seen Luke and he is really struggling for money for rent and food. Luke told him not to tell me but he did. This really upset me and I wanted...

Thanks for those lovely words also

Oh and only has one counselling session another one next week

What lovely advice thanks very much for that

I have been thinking about this it's not a case really of letting him go is it? I happily let him go abroad to various places because I knew he was happy and wanted to do that. In this case it's...

No I am not neglecting the other children I promise. This worry I have is really not for me it's for him honestly. I don't depend on him at all but I know he can be very vulnerable and the thought of...

I can't bear to talk about Christmas as the moment. I just don't sang him to feel alone or a afraid I'm rubbish aren't I ?

Am 58 work in a beautiful clothes shop. Friends good and other family...

I have seen doc am on anti depressants also having counselling. I have always been there for all my children and just feel I am letting him down not being there for him even though I know it's the...

I can honestly say yes to all if those questions and if he is honest he should yes yes to then all.

I am having a real wobble this morning feel like I'm a bad mum please help with some more encouragement I am crying while writing this

But I am doing the right thing stepping away right ? I don't in all honesty think I have any other option as I have tried everything else xxx

Thanks for that I was feeling bad this morning and it's given me a kick up the bottom . I have left him to it and not been in touch but it's a massive transition for me and I find it very hard.

Thanks so much for your help I just need to keep getting confirmation that what I am doing is right. I find it very hard so I think will have to keep coming back for help with this.

Would you come back to me with your expanded thoughts please

Did you mean continuing the mothering? You nay be right but feel it might just help me to be stronger knowing that I have told him I live him and when he is ready to change and come and speak to me...

Sorry not sure what you mean by say continuing it? Sorry could you expand on that please ?

Thanks for your response anyone else got any thoughts in this just frightened of making a mistake by doing this but yes do feel it might help me to just send it to him

Why cN I not continue this thread?

Oh it's OK now I have got up this morning felling weak and I'll again you all gave me so much strength yesterday . I am tempted to email him to tell him the door...

Hi guys really appreciate thus help in all honesty not sure what he would do if I didn't contact him or did anything?

Well for instance if he can't get enough work to support himself and he ends up on the streets

In all honesty I suppose I have

Also when I say come back home my husband won't let him visit until he is ready to change and now my son has cut me off because I was strong with him the other day. What if he ends up in a mess I...

Do you really think and believe this? What if I lose him forever ?

No he has no children and us not currently in a relationship

I know you are right but it is really hard for me any tips on trying to make it any easier or anymore thoughts and advice would be very much appreciated. It has come between myself and my husband...

I have two children from a previous marriage and one from my current marriage they are aged 29,27 and 21 I am having problems with the 29 year old? I have been married to my current husband for over...