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    Seriously debating a peregrine falcon tattoo

    So for some background, peregrine falcons are far and away my favorite animal. I love birds of prey but for numerous reasons I identify with them and think they're simply the coolest animals out...
  2. I never get what I want, and what I do get I don't want

    It's a funny paradox but I'm sure it's not something unique to me. Basically for all the girls that I'm attracted to enough to ask them out, it never works out for some reason or another (they're...
  3. Sticky: It's made with bits of real panther, so you know...

    It's made with bits of real panther, so you know it's good

    Also, I completely agree. Confidence is worth more than its weight in gold. Looks get you noticed, but confidence makes them remember you.
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    Hey, so kind of an update. We tried to meet up in...

    Hey, so kind of an update. We tried to meet up in may but she had to cancel last minute (she had a legit reason), but then I asked her to a concert in my hometown in August which is 2 hrs from ny and...
  5. I agree, the best relationships are the ones you...

    I agree, the best relationships are the ones you never saw coming. You can't be actively looking for a "official relationship". Just go out, hang out with guys, date casually. If it doesn't work out,...
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    Whatever your hobbies are, you need to go and do...

    Whatever your hobbies are, you need to go and do them with other people. I'm not sure what you're into and what you do for fun, but find other people like that. You're never going to meet someone...
  7. I'm in college still and I've seen this a million...

    I'm in college still and I've seen this a million times. I'm not saying this is you at all, but even currently I have some friends who keep saying "why do all the guys in college suck and never want...
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    We haven't really had a conversation since mid...

    We haven't really had a conversation since mid January. We're about half an hour apart now. I was incredibly busy last semester, and I also got involved with someone else briefly for a few months....
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    Would this be too forward?

    All right, so back on New Year's I was at a party and met an amazing girl. Beautiful, smart, ambitious, interested in the same things I am, and completely different from anyone I've ever known. We...
  10. Question: Guys answer!

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    Here's my list for what would really turn me onto...

    Here's my list for what would really turn me onto a woman personality-wise:
    1) Intelligence (even more so if she's smarter than me haha)
    2) Confidence/Independence (she knows what she wants to do /...
  11. To trust a mutual friend or not? Still not sure how she feels about me.

    All right, so here's the deal. I'm crushing hardcore on a girl I know (E) who's basically amazing. She's extremely cute, has an awesome personality and we have a lot of the same interests. She's kind...
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    You have 4 threads going right now that all seem...

    You have 4 threads going right now that all seem to be about the same thing. I think you need to take a step back and relax... big time. Take the advice that people give (the mature advice) and give...
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    That is absolutely the best that could have come...

    That is absolutely the best that could have come out of it. She didn't mean to be hurting you, and she didn't realize it. She is truly sorry. Don't even think of trying to milk this for anything...
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    I went out with a girl for 2.5 years and she was...

    I went out with a girl for 2.5 years and she was a very big flirt. It all depends on your relationship with each other. We really were in love, so while it bothered me sometimes, I knew it didn't...
  15. Good point, thanks. I think I'll ask her to lunch...

    Good point, thanks. I think I'll ask her to lunch again and see how that goes. If she says yes and it seems to go well, then I'll bring up the fact that I like her. If she says no then there's no...
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    I'll admit I've done it and I kind of use it as a...

    I'll admit I've done it and I kind of use it as a way to feel things out. If they don't respond or follow-up then I take it that they aren't interested. If they are interested, then I try to make it...
  17. Should I be blunt and say it or feel it out?

    All right, so there's a girl I had a crush on last year, and we went to lunch a couple times, but things got awkward when she simply didn't respond when I asked her to dinner. She later said she...
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    What have you learned?

    I guess this is more of a personal question for everybody, but what was the most significant thing that you learned from a past relationship that has helped you mature? I'm just curious to see what...
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    Workout before breakfast

    I've heard that if you work out before eating breakfast you burn fat rather than the calories you ate during the day. From what I've tried I haven't seen a huge difference except it makes me kind of...
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    I was cheated on twice, but after about six...

    I was cheated on twice, but after about six months I've resumed talking with my ex on and off. It's very cut and dry though. I'm only doing it so as not to create a serious rift in our group of...
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    I feel like maybe you missing him may be two...

    I feel like maybe you missing him may be two things. I'm sure you had feelings for him and that's never easy to let go of, and it might also be loneliness in general. He was your last point of...
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    Someone who knows who they are and what they...

    Someone who knows who they are and what they want. Basically someone who's confident. The second most important thing is that they know how to have fun, goof around, be silly or whatever. Third for...
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    I was in a relationship that ended exactly 6...

    I was in a relationship that ended exactly 6 months ago tomorrow and it sucks. A lot. It will get better though. Before, I confided in one person only: the girl I loved. But since we broke up, the...
  24. It may be that way in high school, but as people...

    It may be that way in high school, but as people grow older they'll mature and look at personalities. People looking for a fling look at the superficial qualities in a person. Someone looking for a...
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    I wouldn't wait until he's at the airport. Yeah,...

    I wouldn't wait until he's at the airport. Yeah, it may be the cutest thing imaginable, but I think it will only confuse him. I have a best friend who I've known for almost 7 years and the whole time...
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    NC is not a tool to get someone back. It is...

    NC is not a tool to get someone back. It is supposed to be something to help you get over them YOURSELF. It is not supposed to be used to inflict guilt. Maybe she realized she missed you, but don't...
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    I agree. I think the worst thing you can do after...

    I agree. I think the worst thing you can do after a break up is hold off for them to come back. Not talking to the person should be something to help you move on, and is not a tool to bring the other...
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    Video is choppy

    Hi all, quick question. So I ripped a DVD using Xilisoft but the video combined is over 1GB. Whenever I try to play it, the audio is fine, but the video is choppy. I tried playing around with the...
  29. Question: For the women

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    For the women

    Ok, I have a question. I was recently out with my sports team to dinner, and I met this cute girl and we flirted for a bit, but she goes to another school and we didn't end up exchanging numbers or...
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    I think it depends on what stuff you do around...

    I think it depends on what stuff you do around him. If you do a lot of cute things then I'm sure he'll get the message that you like him. You can say it without saying it.
  31. I already did ask her... kinda. I told her I...

    I already did ask her... kinda. I told her I liked her, and she said she liked me back, but that she wasn't ready for a relationship right now because she is unsure of a bunch of things right now,...
  32. We'll see how it turns out. I'm hoping I haven't...

    We'll see how it turns out. I'm hoping I haven't fallen into the trap of friend, of which I know there is no way out, but we'll see how it goes. I'm not ready to make a final judgement on this just...
  33. That's true about the 2 girls at once, and I...

    That's true about the 2 girls at once, and I would never do that. However, I'm not sure if sending a card would seem kind of pushy or not. I'm trying to take a very pressure-less approach to this, so...
  34. They know who they are as a person, they are...

    They know who they are as a person, they are confident, independent, good sense of humor and outgoing.
  35. I have no problem with being friends, that's not...

    I have no problem with being friends, that's not my issue really. What I'm unsure about is how to handle this grey area. I was planning on just staying as a friend, but I'm not sure what the dos and...
  36. I can't stop thinking of her

    All right, I posted a couple weeks back about a girl I've known for 7 years and been very close friends with. I was getting mixed signals from her so I decided to just ask what the deal was. I...
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    I think that a woman who knows what she wants is...

    I think that a woman who knows what she wants is a big turn on. That doesn't mean dominatrix or whatever, but someone who is outgoing is comfortable with themselves and isn't afraid to express...
  38. Well I think I have my answer now. I don't think...

    Well I think I have my answer now. I don't think there's anything there. That maybe she sensed me reading too much into it and now she's trying to distance herself.

    Some friends and I are...
  39. Repost: What do I do and what does it mean?

    I already posted this in another section, but this one seems to have more attention and exposure so please don't hate me for posting it here again.

    Ok my situation is about this friend and I. We...
  40. Congrats on surviving my novel lol. I didn't...

    Congrats on surviving my novel lol.

    I didn't call every day, it was at most every other day. I didn't want to come acorss as obsessive, needy and pushy. You make a good point about saying...
  41. So many mixed signals! I can't choose what to do!

    Ok my situation is about this friend and I. We both go to school in boston, but to different schools. We went to the same high school, but she moved away this past summer so California so we only see...
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