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I agree with this to a point, but just because I drop him off at point A doesn't mean he's going to stay there. Not that I've had a lot of problem with that. He's excellent with checking in on a...

Thanks for your response! And a good point about it depending on where you were going to be, etc. When there's an event, like a dance or concert or if he's at a friend's house, I let him stay out a...

I believe that is it. Thank you! Now to find out where I can watch it. :)

What curfew have you given to your children and why? I'm particularly interested in knowing what an appropriate curfew should be for a 15 year old. Right now, it's 8 on schoolnights and 10 for...

A mother and father for whatever reason didn't want to be parents anymore, so they stopped at an amusement park (I think it was closed?) to let their kids go to the bathroom and when they came out of...

I agree with Synnen. While I hate to encourage divorce, it's clear that this man is more interested in having a party than a marriage--a party you've made it clear that you don't want to attend.
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Have you talked to him about it? Sex and talking go hand in hand. Why is it important that you both orgasm at the same time? If you are both enjoying it and are both committed to the idea of...

Cheating NEVER helps. If you aren't happy in this relationship, move and then find someone else to be with. But before you do that, have you talked to him about this? What does he say about it?

Is porn the issue, or is the real problem that he's been hiding something from you? No matter what your interests, you should be able to be open and honest with your partner about everything. It...

Yes, you can grieve and share your feelings here. And you are absolutely NOT an idiot or a fool. This just simply wasn't the right girl for you. That's all there was to it. There's nothing you...

Don't be so hard on yourself. You've learned lots! But putting it into action is a whole lot harder than words on a screen. You will get through this.

Your problem is you keep focusing on getting her back. The idea of no contact isn't to give her space. It's to give you space so you can learn to move on with your life. Talking to her isn't...

Since you would so easily drop things like studying, maybe she feels that you don't take life seriously enough. I can understand changing plans with friends now and then in order to be with her, or...

Of course you have rights, but you really need to speak to a lawyer, and the sooner the better!

You have a lot of serious issues in this marriage that, if not addressed soon, will destroy your relationship. Your marriage completely lacks any balance. You don't agree about money, you don't...

Then just tell him exactly that. Tell him he's your soulmate and you feel so lucky to have him and that you love him with all your heart. The words don't have to be fancy--you just have to mean...

I'm only going by a small amount of information you've provided, but you've mentioned how she spends her time. She works, goes to school, tries to make time to spend with friends... sounds as though...

It's very likely that he really does feel connected to you and is missing you. Because there is a child, he will forever have a connection to this woman. And because of the child, he will always...

Good for you! We often tend to think with our hearts at times like this, but it sounds like you've got a good head on your shoulders and are thinking very clearly. You are well on your way to...

Wanting something doesn't mean you should have it. I wand to eat chocolate all day long. But I know how bad it's going to make me feel if I do. You just have to be strong. I will agree with one...

You're treating her in an innappropriate manner? And she feels she's been treating you appropriately? She needs a good hard look in the mirror.

A child involved turns it into a much more urgent situation. You need to get out NOW. By staying, you are risking your child being hurt and even losing your child due to being in a dangerous...

You need more help than you can be given in a forum. Guys like this tend to be very manipulative and even though you know it's best for you to leave, he will talk you into staying. You need...

She no longer feels like an equal partner in your relationship, so she has backed out of it. She's feeling down on herself, and maybe even ashamed. Maybe she can't understand how you can love her...

Asking strangers to speculate on what someone they've never met is doing isn't going to get you any answers. You need to talk to HIM.

Why do you associate having confidence with having men in your life? And what does spending time with men other than your partner have to do with whether your relationship with your partner is good?...

But he has had his second chance already. And it sounds like several more besides. Regardless, YOU can't help him. His parents can't help him. Nobody can help him except for himself. And you...

What makes you think this is happening? What did your partner say when you discussed it? Anyway, two wrongs don't make a right. If your partner is sneaking around and cheating, it doesn't mean...

Ask yourself the following questions:

1. If she gets pregnant, what will you do? How will you know whether it's yours?

2. How many diseases can you possibly come into contact with by...

Sounds to me like you already have a pretty good handle on what happened. I also think that the contact with the other guy was always there. Just seems suspicious. Regardless, at least she had the...

All she is doing is trying to excuse her behaviour. If it was true that she knows she wants to marry you, she wouldn't need to test drive the other cars. Period.

We know that you love this girl. And you will for a while. What you keep forgetting is that she does not love you. If she really did love you, she wouldn't even consider treating you this way. ...

The thing with marriage is that if 2 people aren't willing to commit to each other forever, should they even be having a child? A child means a lifelong commitment for them regardless of whether...

You've been through something very traumatic, and the only thing that's going to help is time. Are you still in counselling? If not, perhaps you should go back and explain what is going on with you...

A 50 year old man is so experienced in so many ways... not just with sex, but how to treat a woman, how to talk to a woman, what lines work and which ones don't... I bet you love the way he looks at...

It's not time yet to think about finding someone else, and it will never be time to find someone else like her. I don't mean this to sound harsh, but if you were so perfect for each other, you would...

And it's okay to feel that way. You SHOULD feel that way, at least for a while! After all, you did love her. I can almost guarantee for you though that the next girl who enters your life will be...

You're putting too much effort into trying to keep a relationship with her, whether it be as boyfriend/girlfriend or as friends. Right now, you cannot be friends. You can't sit back and watch her...

Do you really want to be with the kind of girl who is ready to jump into bed on the first date (I wonder how many guys she has slept with!)? The kind of girl who showed no respect for your feelings...

If he's falling asleep, it's because he is tired, plain and simple. It has nothing to do with you or how romantic you are or how good in bed you are. As for him "getting it up" is there a reason it...

You first have to realize that there is nothing wrong with you. It sounds to me like it is an issue he's having within himself. Is he on any medications? Is he particularly tired? Maybe he's just...

I'm a day late, but here's a suggestion I put in another thread. Set up a picnic on the floor in the living room (or the bedroom!). If you have a fireplace, even better! If not, buy one of those...

I've heard that some guys are nervous about having sex with a pregnant woman. Could this be the case here? The date night is a great idea. Unfortunately for many, babysitters are expensive and an...