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  1. Now this guy really deserves an award. He got all...

    Now this guy really deserves an award. He got all of it in so less time. That is what is called "Being a man and stand up for yourself!"

    Well done pal.

    We all hate btiching, games, and...
  2. Definitely

    Definitely
  3. Im not sure he should accept her back, really....

    Im not sure he should accept her back, really. She can't go and come back when she comes back. In way, that's called spoiling her. In the end, she didn't even gave him a real reason for the break. He...
  4. 1. Trying to keep my mouth shut, but I cant. This...

    1. Trying to keep my mouth shut, but I cant. This is your side of the story. So...

    2. You were being a wussy. Learn how to react around your woman. Try not to win her approval with such things...
  5. Its no good from trying to justify your actions,...

    Its no good from trying to justify your actions, you better stop it.



    You are trying to find a reason to hate your husband. Well, I can say you probably think it wasn't your fault at all, for...
  6. Im afraid Talaniman. Afraid she will give the...

    Im afraid Talaniman. Afraid she will give the child for adoption. She admitted (not to me) if she could abort the child, she would, but now its too late.
  7. That's right, during these 3 months, and even...

    That's right, during these 3 months, and even before, I saw this lack of cooperation in any kind of situations. She was the type of person who only thought "Black or white". Once one gets blacklisted...
  8. Sorry

    Sorry
  9. But I know she is lying, and I don't know why. ...

    But I know she is lying, and I don't know why.



    Good point.



    I have no basis to believe I'm the father, but there were signs of pregnancy, as well she denies it to me that she is...
  10. I think I have found a solution to this problem....

    I think I have found a solution to this problem. I asked her to send me documents of her pregnancy test, signed from a doctor, as well what month the child is. After the child is born, she will have...
  11. I don't know my friend, she told me she has no...

    I don't know my friend, she told me she has no reason to lie, she told me there is no baby, and that it was only a joke of 1st April, and than on the other side, she tells the other guy, that she is...
  12. Which is my will as well. I don't want to have...

    Which is my will as well. I don't want to have anything to do with her, and when I got the info about the child, I said, damn it, now I will have to do with my ex the whole life.
  13. Can you believe how immature she is?? She laughts...

    Can you believe how immature she is?? She laughts at it, and she says it was just a 1st April joke, and she is sorry to dissapoint me, but there is no baby. And that she has no reason to lie to me. I...
  14. Well, I just wrote her that I know about the...

    Well, I just wrote her that I know about the baby. And I asked her to let me be a father to the child, and that when time comes, allow her to know that she has a father who loves her and will be...
  15. That was my first thought either, and what people...

    That was my first thought either, and what people suggested me to do. But, thinking again, I feel like she will deny it, as she denied me. She made it clear through her actions that I don't exist for...
  16. Matteus is back again. Difficult Situation, Dramatic Marriage

    Hi everybody.

    Here I'm back again, after some more drama in my life. Its like I can't help myself, but always find myself in difficult situations.
    I was married for a short time (kind of 8-9...
  17. Tabbarat, I didn't wrote since long time ago, but...

    Tabbarat, I didn't wrote since long time ago, but that doesn't mean I didn't read everything what has been said in here. For every word you say, all these bullsh!t of "i can handle it with less...
  18. 1. After 400 posts, you tell us, you never had...

    1. After 400 posts, you tell us, you never had sex? Yeah, your 3rd base of my a5s.

    2. and what is ridiculous, I guess you already forgot why you came here in this forum, and what were your first...
  19. I suggest to try pressing the F8 key during the...

    I suggest to try pressing the F8 key during the boot of windows XP. It will show you a menu where you can choose to load the windows in Safe Mode. Normally, after the windows starts up, there will be...
  20. Its not your situation that makes us laugh. Its...

    Its not your situation that makes us laugh. Its you. You keep telling us how great you are, being proud about your "good job", feel great and like winning a prize about the messages others sent to...
  21. Only tiesto, the others never heard about :) but...

    Only tiesto, the others never heard about :) but I'm more of a rock guy, although sometimes I need some explosives made by tiesto :)
  22. Dear Chery and others... Im sorry to say this,...

    Dear Chery and others... Im sorry to say this, but this time I really don't understand you. This guy its obviously going his way, you like it or not! We all have said our word here, and he made it...
  23. Several posts here are based on same schema: 1....

    Several posts here are based on same schema:
    1. Somebody gets dumped.
    2. He founds it is not so straightforward to arrange such a situation, due to his lack of experience, etc.
    3. He even does not...
  24. Why don't you two just sit back for a minute,...

    Why don't you two just sit back for a minute, relax, and have a serious talk about everything happened, is happening, and will happen? There are a lot of "whats" from your part, and I guess from her...
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    Sometimes we need to change as well. Who can say...

    Sometimes we need to change as well. Who can say that those habits, that behaviour we have built during our life, is OK? The facts are that mostly nice and too nice people do have such problems with...
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    We have not so much information about you, but it...

    We have not so much information about you, but it could be. Mostly it happens to the nice guys. Or as I like to say: to the sheeps. And the sheeps need some kind of toss to become wolfs.
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    No, in this case you have saved yourself the pain...

    No, in this case you have saved yourself the pain of being dumped. Cause as I see, the girl just lost any interest in you, and being dumped from her was to be expected. It was not about the time you...
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    That was only one of those questions that...

    That was only one of those questions that shouldn't be asked! Logically, its pointless, because you can't know her real answer through her words, but her actions. In the moment you do feel like your...
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    Why did you asked? Expecting for a NO? Or just a...

    Why did you asked? Expecting for a NO? Or just a provocation? If they don't love you, they would just leave. Don't make those kind of questions next time! Do not wait for approval! It shows only...
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    I know that some of people in here, mostly girls...

    I know that some of people in here, mostly girls will disagree with me, but in the end, they know they want challenge! Im sorry to say that, but it was your fault. You were not a challenge anymore...
  31. Maybe.although I hate being a sneaker......

    Maybe.although I hate being a sneaker... sometimes it is useful.
  32. Who said she is going to turkey, anyway?

    Who said she is going to turkey, anyway?
  33. I have to disagree. Stop being the good and nice...

    I have to disagree. Stop being the good and nice guy for a moment. Remember, you came here because it was stressful for you too! Mostly for YOU. She should be the one to tell you "Sorry for putting...
  34. I really hope you are not going to have another...

    I really hope you are not going to have another relationship problem, but if that will happen, still I hope we won't agree 100%, cause than who will be the "black sheep between the white ones" :)? I...
  35. Its all about consequences, my man, and your...

    Its all about consequences, my man, and your image in her eyes. You only had a 4 months relations, what to expect in the future. She already knows your weakness. I really hope the best, and that she...
  36. Do I sound mean? Yes. That's the effect my words...

    Do I sound mean? Yes. That's the effect my words give to people after they hear my opinion. We, members of this site (sorry for talking in the name of them too), might sound harsh and aggressive, but...
  37. Look at the way you reply to our posts. Does it...

    Look at the way you reply to our posts. Does it sound serious? No. Are you being serious? I doubt.



    No, we aren't together in this. You are alone.



    As you see, no one is being with you....
  38. He was not the one who said "Do you like me...

    He was not the one who said "Do you like me back?". So at this point, leave it like that, like nothing happened. Don't put yourself under stress. Just take it easy and calm down. Otherwise, we might...
  39. You texted him if he liked you? Why? Second, he...

    You texted him if he liked you? Why? Second, he didn't told you he likes you, he only said he is going to beat his friend. No one was talking about hurt feelings. Why do you bother, cause I don't...
  40. Its not about confidence, its not about proud,...

    Its not about confidence, its not about proud, its not about love. Its about stalking, its about self ego. A man with proud, a man with confidence, in your shoes, would be running miles away from...
  41. Do you know the meaning of "have the cake and eat...

    Do you know the meaning of "have the cake and eat it too"? I guess
  42. No, you didn't said. Your actions/reactions did....

    No, you didn't said. Your actions/reactions did.



    Your so-called "strategy", for me is nothing but a NEED of yours to stay in contact with her.


    1. Because of her ex, you had to know each...
  43. That is what people in here have to offer. Not...

    That is what people in here have to offer. Not just some theoretical phrases, be it "NC" or not, be it "move on" or not. Not any pieces of the content of a "How to get your ex back" e-book. Its our...
  44. You want your girl back, and I really wish you...

    You want your girl back, and I really wish you can get her back. But may I ask you this:

    Do you call it a "success" if you get your girl back by influencing her thoughts, by being manipulative,...
  45. First, you said she told you she didn't told her...

    First, you said she told you she didn't told her ex about you, don't you ?



    We aren't going to discuss about addiction in here, but tell me, what does addiction means to you, and how you build...
  46. She told you what she thought its enough for you...

    She told you what she thought its enough for you to know.



    Once upon a time... when you were "everything" for her. In that time, the girl was under "drugs", under the effects of the addiction,...
  47. Why she didn't? Ask yourself. In my opinion, she...

    Why she didn't? Ask yourself. In my opinion, she didn't told him anything about you, just because she felt like hurting him, and making him feel bad. She was not ready to tell him. But she will do...
  48. Friendly reactions. My ex messaged me, 3 months...

    Friendly reactions. My ex messaged me, 3 months later after the last contact. And I replied in a friendly mode. She even asked me for a favor, 1 year after the breakup. And I helped her. I wasn't...
  49. It sounds contradictory, doesn't it? She told you...

    It sounds contradictory, doesn't it? She told you "she called him bc of pressure at work" and than she told you "She likes you, but she loves him". The lady doesn't seem confused. She feels guilty....
  50. Question: He is avoiding me

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    I just got a look at some of your old posts, and...

    I just got a look at some of your old posts, and I can say you this (for someone this is called harsh, but at your position, I don't think you have anything to lose):

    1. Your marriage is near the...
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