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It has come to an end. I was right she was stringing me along and messing with my head. I was just a fool to go along with everything she was saying not knowing that she didn't mean a single word of...

It's a mess. I do have my own problem, I have a good social life, lots of friends and work is going OK at the minute. The problem is her. We've met up, discussed about the relationship. And she wants...

Ever thought that she might be busy?

Ever thought of talking and communicating with her to find out?

She said she wants to take things slow and see how we get on. She wants to keep in touch daily, keeping it pleasant etc. and she wants to meet up with me next week after the weekend. She says she...

*Update*

So the "meet" happened, about 3 weeks ago, she asked me to drop off some stuff that I had of hers which wasn't a problem as I was passing her way anyway. She had my stuff in a bag ready...

Don't get me wrong, I was healing well and moving on. The agreement feels like a mistake now. Part of me wants to tell her exactly what you've said.. No need to meet up, I'm healing, feeling better...

Update - I have left her alone, been 3 weeks now. I miss her dearly every day. We agreed to meet up for a proper talk face to face to speak about the future. I don't have good feelings about it. She...

I am going through a similar situation, I have also set a 'deadline' date for a decision. I don't know if this is the way forward because the feeling I have got is that the ex girlfriend tries to...

That's right tal, the circle has come round from that post. Who would have thought I'd be back here? But here I am.

How long do I wait for answers? I have a few things at her house, clothes etc....

I forgot to add probably the most important point of all. We work in the same work place but luckily not in the same office. Obviously word will get round sooner or later but I am still confused and...

Firsty we are both 26 years old and have been with each other for 18 months. My girlfriend has recently been suffering with stress and depression at work. Her job is basically killing her. Working...

Sorry if I confused you. I meant Boxing Day as in the 26th December. (so last Sunday) was when I asked her for another meet this week.

To be honest I am thinking about just leaving it now until I...

Hi Tal,

I'm just looking for a bit of advice if that's OK.

I've got myself into a bit of a messy situation, I know that. With her being a co worker etc. I'm trying not to make that get in the...

Hiya

Me & the girl went on a 'date' Thursday night. Well.. not really a proper date as such, more of a meet up in a quiet bar and a drink. It was her suggestion to meet up and obviously, I was...

I don't know her that well, but would like the chance to get to know her properly.

The problem I have is people who I speak too everyday at work ask the same question over and over " so what's...

I know what you mean, I'd be devastated, but I don't know how her last relationship went or how it was going exactly at the time she was messaging me. She would text me saying how she wishes she had...

Hello everyone, been a while since I posted on here. I would just like to share my current feelings and thoughts that I am currently going through. And hope for your views.

Ok, a girl moved into...

I still find myself snooping too. It'll stop one day no doubt. I had to ask my ex why she left me and then a month later is secretly seeing one of my so-called mates, n then getting together. Her...

I've just been told that my ex has secretly been seeing one of my mates, and apparently they are together. I am absolutely, as you could imagine, hurt. As her main reason for finishing me was "i...

Just curious really.. If you were close to your ex's family and they loved you to bits.. do you send them a Christmas Card? Or would this break all means of NC! I just want to ask if anybody here has...

Well she's confused me now after re-reading that she's saying she doesn't feel attracted to you yet she doesn't want to break up? That just doesn't make sense. It may help if you go out somewhere...

That's the thing, you can't make her attract you. I know how you feel, believe me. You'll be surprised how much giving her space works by the way. Just don't make the mistakes a lot of people make,...

Just a typical 16yr old who's still growing up and wants to have fun and have lots of friends and doesn't want to settle down. Can't blame her really can you? Also there's a lot of pressure on her at...

I felt exactly the same. I still do slightly. It just takes time. You said it's been 5 months. Mine has only been 5 or 6 weeks. I don't feel as bad as you, that isn't to say I didn't love or care for...

Well you've answered all your questions right there then haven't you. You don't need her anymore.

Why don't you put her number on block on your phone? That way she can't ring you? Unless a little piece inside you still wants her to call, if so your just going round the twist. Backwards and...

Everything he's trying to tell you is the truth. You've got to listen to him, I have, and it's working. You know you'll meet someone better one day, someone who won't mess your head up or play games...

Thanks. I'm just glad I haven't tried to beat myself up over her. I can get too emotional at times like this, probably much more than any of my friends and I don't know why that is. So I'm just...

Just an update on this.. It seems as though after a few heated messages she's trying to put the blame onto me for the relationship ending, even though everybody who knows us well would entirely...

It's been about 4 or 5 weeks now since my ex dumped me. I don't need to go into how much I loved her or how much I did for her, I'll skip that part. But basically I've just found out that she has got...

Yeah that's the thing, I don't think I will get a response at all. I owed her a bit of money and I gave it her back a few weeks ago, not in person but by online transfer and I sent her a message...

Oh right, that sounds a really bad situation to be in, I'm only 21 and I thought my break up was bad, with my 19yr old Student girlfriend. The thought of those situations, which I'm probably going to...

Do you still get the urge to send this to your ex little firefly? I think I would find it hard to resist.

I was half way through typing out my letter and then I just broke down. I found it so hard to keep it all together, I must still be trying to heal.

Feel quite ashamed with myself now though,...

Maybe he's moved on himself!

She probably knows it was the drink to be honest, I mean wouldn't you lot? Saturday night at 1:30am first text received since 2 or 3 weeks ago from the ex who you dumped saying that and nothing else....

She hasn't replied or called, I don't think she will, I don't really want her too either. I already feel like I've made myself look stupid to her, I'd feel even more stupid saying sorry I was a bit...

Another weekend gone and I've been doing really well with No Contact. It's been a few weeks now. Unfortunately I've let myself down and the peeps here who have helped me for ages down also. I went...

I've done a really terrible thing, I have been doing so well with no contact over the last few weeks and then I get a moment of madness last night when I got home after a night out I sent my ex a...

If you read what everyone is saying then you will be nearer to the top of the game, your falling deeper and deeper and before you know it your going to be in deep depression. Stop stressing over her...

She is taking your head for a spin and it is not fair. Leave her now to decide what she wants. Easier said than done. But we all have to do it don't we.

Or worthwhile girl...

Wasting your time and money buddy. I've sent flowers myself and I'm sure many others here have as well. For many and different situations. You won't get any response. I wouldn't bother wasting your...

I hate Myspace, I wish someone could burn it. It causes so many problems and issues, who would have thought a pointless website could have so many affects on peoples relationships?

Strong answer... stronge, but true.

Your Welcome, Anytime. If you ever want to chat about things just send me a private message as it seems we're going through the same phase. Good Luck, and remember, We're better than them!

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That happened to me my ex girlfriend wasted no time in taking the pics of me and 'us' off her myspace, it really hurt and it felt like I had been stabbed in the heart. Like she didn't care. I kept my...

I reckon still deep down he wants her back but wants everything to be oh so rosey and perfect like it once was but he can't see it happening, or worried about being hurt again. A decision needs to be...

I'm currently 2 and a half weeks NC. Relationship ended by my ex for no decent reason about 5 weeks ago. I look on this site everyday and the help and support I've had is undescribable. I am...

It's just a general question to everyone really. Do people have a read on here to cure their broken heart when they are feeling down, by reading the useful stickies and similar stories? Or do people...