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Wow, drama! There's a saying between men (boys, or whatever)... "Bros before hos". It's also an unwritten man-law that you don't go out with a friend's ex. Not sure if the same goes for women, but...

How does she feel about you? If she has expressed feelings for you, she first needs to heal (get over her ex) before you will ever have a real chance with her. There is nothing that you can do to...

Talaniman is right. Too soon for both of you. I've been there myself, and the best thing that you can do is to giver her space, continue with 'no contact', and if your paths should cross again,...

Thank you both for replying. It is much appreciated. What type of lawyer should I be contacting? My Divorce lawyer recommended that I find another lawyer, but she did not mention the specialty...

Yeah... thanks. But I was more interested in the possibility of being removed from the database. I was a youth sports coach for years, and parents in the community are asking me back (I quit...

In 2009, CPS substantiated abuse in a case against me, so now I'm in a database of abusers. Here are the circumstances:

In 2009, I slapped my teenage son in the mouth with an open hand. The...

Yes, call the cops and have a police report filed. Neither person in a relationship should physically hurt the other. A bite mark to the chest does show that you could have been in a position to...

No, your feelings aren't 'wrong,' it's how you feel. But you did it before, kept it from her, and are still keeping it from her. At least she was honest with you. Isn't karma a funny thing??
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And maybe you should take it slow this time around...

In my experience (37 w/17 & 9 yr old, I have primary custody), the women I've dated think it's a turn-on and appreciate that I'm responsible. And I quote... "It's hot!" I've dated women in the age...

Thanks everyone. I've already moved on and if she does call, I won't be trying to work my way back in. She needs to work on her marriage or end it if she wants me to reconsider... but I don't know...

Earlier this year, I was in a relationship with a woman who I fell completely in love with. We were both going through a divorce at the time. I was her first relationship since her split, and I...

Once it starts, it is so hard for them to stop. I was in an abusive relationship, and it started with her slapping me across the face when we were just dating. After marriage, it got worse,...

I agree with Cat... not your responsibility.

As far as meds, he needs to let his doctor know that his current one is not working. They have other meds that he can try, and possibly different...

You can see if he is interested as well and make one hell of a memorable year. Live with no regrets...

That is a terrible weight to carry on your shoulders. My last girlfriend had this weight on her shoulders, and I wish she had gotten her closure before we met. If that is what it takes for you to...

Like Clough says, it's possible to be friends with someone of the same sex while one person is gay and the other is not. Hugging and kissing you on the cheek may be customary in her country. Where...

I get the feeling that you may have a self confidence issue. You should be happy in life before adding someone into the mix. Another person should not be the reason for your happiness, just an...

Devorameira is right, you need to accept it and move on. No, you didn't do anything wrong. No, you are not a bad person. Removing her from your social networks is the right thing to do, as much as...

Texting is not much of an investment. I am a man and have had texting relationships with women, and it is easy to NOT put a lot of heart into what you are writing. Plus, it's so impersonal -- there...

I think it's natural to be curious about what's going on in your ex's life, especially if you still have feelings for her. But it looks like you're already on the right track of knowing that what...

No, it's not crazy to be curious. I've searched a few of my exes online and even have my high school girlfriend on my Facebook. She and I dated when we were 15-17 and we are both 36 now. It's nice...

Yes. You can talk to the guy...

Just a suggestion.

I completely agree with redhed, but the signs are there, and the OP should be made aware of the possibility of his behavior escalating to violence.

I also agree with talaniman in that you have...

I completely agree with Cat. Also, ten months is a little early to be going through the challenges that you are going through. Not to say that there is any right time for problems to happen... but...

I will ask... But I remember her telling me that it is important because the court will take this date and determine all debt acquired by each person from that point to be separate, not joint. This...

He may be trying to 'self medicate' with alcohol because of stress in his life, possibly anxiety, or depression. Only a doctor can say, but I would recommend having him talk to one. It used to be...

I live in California. A "legal separation" needs to be filed for in the courts just like a divorce. When one partner states that they want out of the marriage, the other partner is neither...

Make it your first priority, and don't put it off. Be sure to talk to several lawyers as the first consultation is usually free, and you need to find one that you are comfortable with.

Where I...

Sounds like sex is a big part of a relationship for you... you try talking to him about it? He may not know what you are OK with or want. He may be intimidated by your experience or his lack of...

It is an abusive relationship, and you don't deserve to feel that way. See if he is open to counseling. Sometimes, you need to hear things from someone outside of the relationship in order to...

Sometimes, you need to be apart in order for the other person to realize whether they really want you or not. Give her space and see what happens...

Agreed... you have to tell him what is going on in your head if you want things to get better. Things will not fix themselves.

Also, do things to make yourself happier as an individual - join a...

Should you want him back? The heart wants what the heart wants, and it's natural to want what you don't/can't have.

I agree with Martinizing... as much as it hurts, it would be in your best...

I would still offer the same recommendations if the genders were reversed. Without changing her current actions, she would probably end up in the same situation with someone else if she were to...

You won't feel it right away, but a few years down the road, and you'll see that you made the right decision. Be sure to give your husband the type of attention that you were giving to your friend,...

I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure you feel as if no one understands your grief, but your children (and spouse?) will help you heal. It hurts them to see you sad. When my Dad died 5 years ago, I...

Yeah, the feeling of rejection when your partner is uninterested always hurts. Trust me... the wig thing works! Be sure to use a different sexy voice/accent when you wear it. Always be a different...

I wasn't suggesting that she change to fit his ideals more... just changes that would change his reactions.

For example... if her friends are taking time away from their time, then she can see...

You've already been unfaithful... it should end now. You put yourself in a position for this to happen which was wrong to begin with. You started with an emotional affair with your friend, and now...

You're right... what's the rush? Long process or not, choosing your life partner is too big of a decision to speed up because of a Visa. If he can't understand that, then I would be suspicious of...

I think 6 or 7 months is too soon to be thinking too far off into the future. He says & shows that he's into you... Who knows... maybe in the next few months it'll be you who isn't so into him. How...

Only time will tell... see if it continues or if he stops suddenly after a few weeks or months. Sometimes, a person needs to realize what he/she is about to lose before they consciously make a...

True, it may not be a case of a young marriage.

1) Military or not, he needs to understand that if she were to provide for the family, someone would have to take care of the child. I believe it...

I agree with jham123... did you guys marry young? Contrary to popular belief, it IS possible for someone to change. I know when my wife goes out with mystery friends (especially other men), my...

If Rob's intention is not to hurt your husband, then he should understand that your relationship with him IS causing your husband pain. An emotional affair can be as, if not more, hurtful than a...

You're having an emotional affair with Rob. It's no wonder your husband is feeling insecure. I know it feels exciting to be with Rob, but it isn't right. You're committed to your husband, not Rob....

Dude, you're just wrong here. You've wronged her on more than one occasion, and she is right to want to leave. Think of how it would have destroyed you if she had been the one cheating. Could you...

Not that I know of, but mutual friends have suggested that she may be on cocaine. I've never done it before, so I don't know how it makes you feel/act. She works in a casino, which I hate, and the...

My wife of almost 17 years says she isn't in love with me anymore and hasn't been for the last 6 months... which then became the last year... then the last 2 years, last 3, now the last 5 years. She...