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Long story short, we met 2 years and he used to show interest: staring, standing near, appearing out of nowhere to help me carry stuff. He couldn't really hold a conversation or my eye contact. 2...

Well snooty or not, you are judging me way too quick. Like I said, its an instinctive, knee-jerk reaction to watever I was being told. Feelings are neither right or wrong, they are just feelings. I...

@JK191: thanks for your answer :) anyway, betrayal or whatever feelings I have when he told me about it were just instinctive, knee-jerk reactions to whatever he was telling me. They were merely my...

thanks. I understand what u are talking about. Its one of the thoughts I have in mind. But I just find it incredibly hard to come to terms with. And I'm still incredibly upset and disappointed,...

I'm someone who doesn't really stand for any form of sexual (penetration anywhere or not) intimacy before marriage but my 29 year old boyfriend (im 21) just admitted to me that he has had...

I'll do that! Doubt he knows I'm an intern though. Thx! :)

Oops so many experts answering my qn, heh.

Nope I don't have email at work, I'm on an internship at this company, and I've about 5 weeks left of it :)

I'd have hung ard the men's bathroom...

Yeah. But the fact is I'M asking the qn, not him. I merely scanned through his fb and saw the pictures ONCE, how is that stalking? The mutual people we have are just mere acquaintances and not...

The norm is.. haha. Well, I'm not sure what the norm is, ha. The guys here aren't very aggressive. Well, the aggressive ones aren't the ones I'm looking for. The nice ones tend to be a little shy.
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Haha! I happened to chance across a few family pictures on Facebook. (no, I don't erect a shrine of him at home and all that ;)

I already smiled at him, quite a couple of times. Haha. I live in a...

Hmm. Not much people know about him. He's known to be pretty to himself and quiet. Hardworking too. From what a friend of mine says, he's nice, friendly but a simple guy. Life is just work -> home ->...

He's not married or in a relationship. If he was, I wouldn't be asking this qn ;)

We had a mutual attraction at first sight, like, we just stood there and looked at each other for 5 seconds before I realised I had to open the door. Whenever we passed each other in the corridor,...

But the nice thing about this is, he remembered your conversation. How old is this guy anyway? Certain age groups of guys tend to be weird about things like this and I find it a huge turnoff. Anyway....

I'm interning at an insurance company, this is my second week. I'm a headhunter, this guy is an insurance agent so sometimes he's in the office, sometimes not. Anyway first time I met him was last...

Thanks for the tips! I once liked a guy who showed immense interest in me, asked me out and things, only to have him do a 180-degree turn and said he had a girlfriend.

I found out their...

Hmm Thank you. But I get more stressed if I remove myself from the situation. And well, in the midst of this turmoil, I've developed a surprisingly tolerant and patient personality (:

Hmm nope ha. Our family is too far gone to get any help. Getting any external psychiatric help I feel would be digging up too many long-buried, best-forgotten memories and it would rattle up the...

My father actually. He;s just super anal about any kinds of noise, talking/laughing too loudly, dishes accidentally hitting the sink, neighbours banging doors.. and he seems to be super - well I...

^ haha where I live, the guys are pretty passive. You isn't going to expect them to be asking u out or tellng u to your face. It just isn't going to happen. And I don't have the patience to wait for...

^ thank you (:

Like what is the difference? Esp if he’s the kind of guy who is nice, friendly, helpful and kind to everyone? =/ I've met guys like these types and they always send out very ambiguous signals. So I...

There was a guy in two of my college modules last term. He would kind of like, look at me a lot when he had the chance. Especially when I’m not looking at him, like he just sits there and gazes at...

Sorry sounds like she's stringing you along and just flirting with you. Some women do that, to see if the men they are flirting with are interested. It's a big turn on for them when they get the...

Haha if I could ask him to get a coffee or ask him why is he looking at me or ask him anything, I would have done that like 6 months ago, and not wait half a year later and still ponder about it.
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Ok, to keep a long story short, I’m from a small college and this guy and I are from the same faculty, though different majors. He’s supposedly from popular clubs in school and has a healthy social...

We don’t know each other and during some college events over the vacation were thrown together. And he looks at me quite abit. When he thinks I’m unaware, when he leaves a place I’m at, he would look...

^ haha well.. I tried to talk to him today. Well I didn't have a choice cause we worked on sth tog.. and he seemed quite unresponsive and quiet. I've noticed he can be really loud and noisy and rowdy...

^ Hey thanks for the answer. "sounds like he just sees you everywhere": well obviously, haha, cause we are in the same camps, you can't go very far without keep having to bump into the same people...

Oh, he doesn't have a girlfriend by the way. And we have never spoken to each other.

Attraction and taking interest in someone is two different things right?

Am just curious, cause me and this guy, we are from the same small faculty at our university. In the past year I used to...