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  1. Lol I didn't mean to imply that I am neglecting...

    Lol I didn't mean to imply that I am neglecting myself. I have had a couple of drinks once since I have had him. But mainly my thing is to hang out with him, or play video games when he's crashed...
  2. Ahh OK, that was what I was hoping for at least....

    Ahh OK, that was what I was hoping for at least. I do not want him being bounced around, and I can't imagine a good enough reason to take him away from me.
    What I thought was maybe this was her...
  3. They were by texts, I have them saved and have...

    They were by texts, I have them saved and have also exported them in a .txt format. The decision wasn't technically made by a judge. My lawyer and I, and hers and hers I guess mediated. They wrote it...
  4. I hate to keep resurrecting this thread, but...

    I hate to keep resurrecting this thread, but unfortunately my case is still on a roller coaster.

    Since my ex gave me our son and took that visitation, we have not had to go back to court, have...
  5. Definitely understand about what a judge may or...

    Definitely understand about what a judge may or may not do. I appreciate it Scott. I have the police record for him threatening me, my ex confirming via texts, and in person. And even her saying "if...
  6. Ok, so our CS is not going through the AG yet....

    Ok, so our CS is not going through the AG yet. Spoke with lawyer, and its basically just apart of our temporary orders.
    I am curious what the likely result will be when we go to final hearing...
  7. Thanks Scott for merging the threads. And yes the...

    Thanks Scott for merging the threads. And yes the temporary orders were signed off on by both lawyers, both of us as judge.
    She had no job when she agreed to this, got a job and quit it since...
  8. Sorry I didn't mention our divorce is not final...

    Sorry I didn't mention our divorce is not final yet, still have to have the final hearing.
    So either way, through my attorney or child support office, the results will be the same? Albeit faster...
  9. Child support through temporary orders?

    Didn't know if I should post this in my other thread, if so I am sorry.
    I am in Texas, and recently just got primary custody of me and my ex wife's son.
    She had just recently quit her job, and...
  10. Thank you, my lawyer told me afterward that I was...

    Thank you, my lawyer told me afterward that I was basically a little too generous with visitation (didnt need to give her any weekends) and since then she has also blown off 2 of her weekday...
  11. Comment on Delow84's post

    Id like to also add, she is not going to pay her child support on Monday because she has no money.
  12. So I have another question, but first an update...

    So I have another question, but first an update on what happened at court.
    We didn't go before a judge, just me her and our lawyers. She admitted her boyfriend threatened to kill me, and she wanted...
  13. Well there are some fool judges out there. I am...

    Well there are some fool judges out there. I am hoping a judge just laves things the way it is when it comes to visitation. Let me decide when, where and how etc. My lawyer and I, I believe, will...
  14. Sigh so yesterday I get the death threat from her...

    Sigh so yesterday I get the death threat from her boyfriend. Said he was on his way etc to kill me and himself so she could get our son. When I told her, she didn't seem like she cared and texted me...
  15. ahh well my ex doesn't care about checking into...

    ahh well my ex doesn't care about checking into details so all she will remember is "legally binding" and that she signed something. So in the mean time she won't fight that. I hope the lawyers can...
  16. From what she said today, her lawyers response to...

    From what she said today, her lawyers response to her email and the faxed copy of what we signed, was "Ok thanks" so I am not sure if she is lying, or if it doesn't seem like they will fight it....
  17. Comment on Delow84's post

    Oh, and if her or her lawyer don't try and fight it, or she doesn't change her mind, what would happen at this court hearing and could everything be finalized then?
  18. So an update, and a question. Things have...

    So an update, and a question.

    Things have been up and down, going to co parenting has helped because the counsilor seemed to be on my side. She got my ex to agree to me being able to watch our...
  19. He is preparing a motion to "compel" them to get...

    He is preparing a motion to "compel" them to get this moving. He is also going to ask for FRoR. I have about a 50/50 shot from what I understand. The court would want to see that the time id have...
  20. I am not meaning to blame her specifically....

    I am not meaning to blame her specifically. Although I do know she feels the longer this goes on, the more it will hurt me. During our first visit to court, the lawyers did their thing and negotiated...
  21. None of our agreements are outside the court....

    None of our agreements are outside the court. Everything is court ordered. So, her having our son around unrelated members of the opposite sex... is against what the court has ordered us to do.
    She...
  22. So, she ended up taking me back to court accusing...

    So, she ended up taking me back to court accusing me of several things. Taking my son to a bar, returning him to her with untended scratches on his legs. Etc etc. I took him to a non alcoholic...
  23. Comment on Delow84's post

    Just wanted to mention, wasn't trying to force her to take bottle, or go inside. Just thought I was being helpful and that it was best for our son to be out of wind while I strapped him in and made...
  24. The love and caring order states that neither...

    The love and caring order states that neither parent can I guess be deragatory to the other parent around our son. And it strongly urges us as parents to not let our families do the same.
    So for...
  25. OK so a little update. Had court today, before...

    OK so a little update.
    Had court today, before we had our hearing, her lawyer wanted to negotiate or whatever with mine.
    They came back with a crap offer. "no over night, see him on my weekends...
  26. When it comes to "he said, she said" I have proof...

    When it comes to "he said, she said" I have proof in recordings and conversations through text/email to prove most of the things.
    When I took the hydrocodone things had not deteriorated THAT much....
  27. OK as for the conversation she had with her...

    OK as for the conversation she had with her friend, yes it was on her account and normally I may not be able to use it. But I also have emails (conversations through gmail between me and her with her...
  28. Just an update on the situation. I have found an...

    Just an update on the situation. I have found an old gmail conversation she had with another guy (less then a year and a half ago) of her talking about smoking weed everyday, doing shrooms, and...
  29. You I have been saving/recording our...

    You I have been saving/recording our conversations, whether they are on phone or through email.
    If I am ever around her, I plan to keep my phone recording. The last time I was there the grandfather...
  30. I am concerned. Knowing how she as been before,...

    I am concerned. Knowing how she as been before, how she has always been a depressed person. Even when she is happy, she hates her family, self and life in general.
    When I was there I offered...
  31. I feel so helpless. But I will keep hoping. There...

    I feel so helpless. But I will keep hoping. There is little else I can do at the moment.
    Thank you
  32. She was doing all this prior to pregnancy and...

    She was doing all this prior to pregnancy and marriage. And she stopped because I told her I wouldn't be with her if she was like that. (her previous relationship was with this new guy)

    That is...
  33. Very nerve wracking. And I really hope...

    Very nerve wracking.
    And I really hope everything turns out OK. She does have a history of self destructive behavior. Like drug use, random sex etc. And even recently has made statements about...
  34. He is trying to set it up so I have emergency...

    He is trying to set it up so I have emergency visitation rights, as I am not allowed to see conor at the moment because I won't do what she wants.

    The new guys long term isn't what worries me....
  35. I have gotten an attorny and filed the...

    I have gotten an attorny and filed the divorce/custody paperwork.
    I have only recorded or saved conversations between us. With her looking directly at me or responding to me.
    But I do not have...
  36. Shared custody of 3mo old

    Hi,
    I am a father of a beautiful 3 month only boy, his name is Conor.
    The wife had started an emotional relationship with another man about two months ago, that has led to the end of our marriage....
  37. And if I were to file first, and with copies of a...

    And if I were to file first, and with copies of a lot of the things they have said or sent each other while we were married?
    And if I file, can I shoot for primary custody, and If I don't get it at...
  38. What are the chances of father getting primary custody?

    I am curious, because I am soon to be going through a divorce in San Antonio, TX. What the chances are of a father getting primary custody?
  39. Should I be upset or worried at all that when I'm...

    Should I be upset or worried at all that when I'm home from work, its like it's not that important to spend time with me or talk or what not, but she gets all cheery and happy when she is talking to...
  40. Comment on HistorianChick's post

    HC! Nice to see you as well. ^_^ I guess maybe it's just the post partum, and she HAS chose me. So I am probably over thinking every little thing. It will be good to be able to talk all this out with...
  41. Comment on answerme_tender's post

    Ya, it's the lack of attention, and appreciation towards me the last two months(post baby) that seem to be making this tougher for me.
  42. Recently married, new father... Wife and I having trouble

    So, it's been awhile since I have posted on here. Got scolded pretty good then for acting childish. But it was a good wake up call, as shortly after I met my future wife. (who was not an ex haha) We...
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    Sigh. Well I apologize if everyone got the idea I...

    Sigh. Well I apologize if everyone got the idea I was playing kid games.

    I was moved on, still am. We tried reconnecting as friends, of course old feelings started to surface. I stopped it there....
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    She was the present date haha ^_^

    She was the present date haha ^_^
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    lol tal, read my other post "my mind says...

    lol tal, read my other post "my mind says this..." and then read this.

    good while it lasted, but nothing is forever ^_^
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    Ok so I broke NC, over a year and a half after...

    Ok so I broke NC, over a year and a half after starting it.

    The way it happened, was drinking with a buddy. And lately he has been down in the dumps, and I have been at an all time high. He...
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    so you I tried to do what izzyy suggested, before...

    so you I tried to do what izzyy suggested, before even getting to check this.

    We had had a couple dates to the movies, or other places that are different, and all day thing at a wildlife reserv...
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    I can't really tell what she thinks.

    So just like the heading, I am talking to this girl... and it's hard for me to tell how she feels. Girls I don't really care about are easy to read, but in this my own feelings are clouding...
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    Omg yes! That is it, took me forever to find a...

    Omg yes! That is it, took me forever to find a working version, but I finally managed to! Thanks so much!
  50. I could honestly seeing my ex saying or thinking...

    I could honestly seeing my ex saying or thinking more or less the same things.

    Same advice I'd give her if given the chance, Keep doing what you have been doing, you said yourself your stronger...
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