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Well.. it's impossible to rationalize and jump to conclusions based on what has happened to other people but this is not something to just overlook, that's for sure.

But then again, what kind of...

Damn.. What's up with that girl? That's so ****ing mean, I can't believe you put up with it! I know you have feelings for her and that they die hard but I mean damn.. you shouldn't have to take that...

Ok, OK, I hear you, I'm sure you're in love with her crazy but the thing is, first off, her mom thinking you two were soul mates won't change anything, maybe she didn't feel that way really but was...

You need to give her up, it really does not matter if she texts you or calls you because she has still made up her mind and you will only prolong the process of hurt and all the missing her if you...

Either your future husband is the type of guy who can forget and move on, or he is the type who can't forget and if so, you will not be able to go on because nothing will ever be the same.. Because...

Hmm. You said you felt like it was your GF testing you, and you "went along" with it?

If you really would have went along with it you would have said clearly No, I don't want any part of what the...

Hehe, nice, this gives me something to look forward to as well.. it's been a little more than a week since she dumped me.

When you did all this to your husband, it shows that you really don't love him do you?

If I am right you need to be on your own for a while until you figure out why you are acting the way you are....

He is trying to manipulate you and playing on your aftermath feelings.

You are being fair and you are doing the right thing, don't doubt it.

Well.. there is no absolute time frame for how long it takes before you will be healed, but there is a little bit truth in that I think, you do need time. But well, things do come to an end.

The...

Ehh.. Sorry to say it but you should not accept that, and you are correct in saying no to him, he has no right to tell you what to wear - it only shows one thing - he feels that he is less worth and...

What kind of pressure do you mean? I don't understand really :/

Dude, you WILL easily find someone else who will treat you great, I'm sure of it. My girlfriend of 8 months broke with me like 4 days ago, I'm trying to handle it and it's going sort of well, I've...

Hmm.. you do not exactly want to be together with him but you still love him?
Do you love him as a friend only? If so you need to tell him.

OK, listen carefully here!
I'm only 21 but I can REALLY see what kind of trouble you're in, let me make it a _little_ bit easier for you.

You did the most right thing by leaving him - There was...

Well.. you seem like a smart guy - you know that it's over and you know why it's over, that's a good ground to build on. I think you did the right thing dumping her, and I must say that the fact that...

Hm... wow, what a mess.
Why would you want him back when he cheated on you like that?

My advice is promptly to stay in school, continue getting education
And if you still feel lonely, try to...

God damn.. that's really some sick stuff. Run for the hills seriously, that guy is nowhere near how a normal boyfriend should be. .

I am not an expert but I can give you my view of it.


I find it very strange that someone you love and who supposedly loves you, simply move out just because you didn't propose fast enough?
If...

Day 2 since it ended.


Damn.. I know it's over now but my mind is still struggling to accept it,
I miss her like crazy.. I would go to the gym, fix my car and try to do things but
All the spare...

It's finally come to an end now I think.. don't really know why I'm writing this, think I need to get this sh*t off my chest.

My girlfriend of 8 months dumped me for the second time now in 1 week,...

First off, this "problem" has very varying solutions depending on who you ask and what kind of couple you are.

I can give you my personal view of it, and some of my thoughts.

Most guys DO watch...

I have had the same worries that you probably have, but don't worry man. =)
First off, don't say that "I lied", it makes it sound worse than it is, because it's only a white lie, at worst.
...

I guess that we got this a bit wrong.. the word agree might not be the most suitable to use. I feel that the case is more that it really hurts me that she fail to realize the importance of her...

I see that this could be like two stories;

Number one: You are a happy person when you're on your own but the time you spend with him isn't fun enough for you because you are more active and he...

Hmm.. no offense but that's a pretty serious thing to just throw at someone, why would you say that I'm a person who has to control people and be like her father or something lol?

All I said was...

Thanks everyone..

I know I can't "control" her, I never will be able to and I wouldn't want to either, it just isn't healthy for any of us. Please don't say I'm "the controlling kind" etc, I...

I have to agree with wayne in some way, if you cheated on him you must see the seriousness in that.. you probably hurt him real bad, and the fact that he's been cheated on before really makes this...

He really should have the guts to break up with her himself yes - you're very right about that, but that's really the least he should do. He should also apologize to both of you for going around your...

What kind of character? The I-like-several-girls-at-a-time character? Haha


Riiight.. sounds like a real sweet guy to fool around with several girls at a time.


Oh.. so you all like the...

I hear you man.. I agree with you in some way - being the jealous guy I am..
I wouldn't like it either if my girlfriend accepted drinks from guys hitting on her etc.. I really wouldn't.

My...

Sadly you really hit the spot there, this is exactly our problem.. damn :(

I have:
Nagged and nagged about partying and she replies with "I want to enjoy life, I'm still young!"
I say: but...

Thanks for all the answers!

I can relate to this answer a lot, with all do respect for everyone else I must say that she most likely isn't turning an alcoholic but just as In A State says she...

Now I feel worse cause everyone's saying alcoholic and so.. she's not that different from other people who drink when they party except that she's often much more than just tipsy.. the problem isn't...

Thank you very much for the quick replies!
The thing is, alcoholic is a kind of harsh word to use because she is just like any of the other outgoing "party teenagers" if you see my point :/

I've...

Hey,

It feels kind of weird to come here for help and advice but you guys are my last hope.
I've already tried talking to my family and some friends but whatever answers and advice they've given...