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Thanks for the responses, everyone; I always get great advice here and this is no exception :-)
To address all of your points: yes, I readily admit I'm not confident (if I were, I probably...
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Hi everyone, I'm going to try and not make this a rambling post, lol...
Recently I was seeing someone for 2 months and things were amazing: great conversations, always laughing/having a good...
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That's pretty telling... and it's pretty normal. Most girls get bored with guys that are too into them.
Maybe that's the problem: you've just been unlucky and wound up with guys that practically...
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I did meet her online... I've had decent (but not great) luck meeting girls online. I also want to meet girls in person, too, because girls who go online tend to be super-picky about who they'll even...
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So she just texted me saying she's sick and can't make it. I smell BS. Thankfully, I packed my gym gear, just in case she flaked on me, so right after work I'll hit the gym. I'm not sure if I should...
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You're right, I am looking at this negatively and I need to stop. The reason it bugs me is that we were so close before... She was talking about introducing me to her family and we were making all...
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Thanks talaniman, that was well-put and it helped tremendously to read that. It's especially true that I want this to work badly, and when it felt like it's slipping away, even the slightest bit,...
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And maybe I'm expecting too much, too soon... I mean, maybe all that passionate stuff that was happening early on was kind of pushing too fast and maybe she wants to slow down... could that also be...
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answerme_tender, do you really think she was being disrespectful with this last thing? I guess I want to believe she might have just gotten home exhausted...
If this becomes a pattern then I have...
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"Also be very cautious that she doesnt pickup on you trying to analyze everything, she may feel that you are trying to catch her at something. No one likes that feeling." This is key advice, thank...
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Thanks... honestly I'm afraid I'll come off as needy or like I'm asking for a lot, especially since it hasn't been a very long time (2 months).
A part of me feels like I still need to 'court' her,...
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Hello again, talented helpers! I need wisdom...
So I'm still seeing this girl I'd met a while back and things have been going pretty well. But I feel like sometimes she has these changes in her...
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Claimer, it's nice that you stop and consider that she's had a difficult upbringing and that's the reason she acts so irrationally, but the person to deal with those problems is a therapist, not a...
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Keep it to yourself, and understand it's only a dream. It has no bearing on your real life. Set it aside and forget about it.
(Now, if you actually do have feelings for this guy, or you think he...
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Thanks you two; adro, I think you're right -- if I were on vacation I wouldn't be thinking about her constantly either, and I wouldn't be saying things around them that I'd say when I'm alone with...
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My experience is that girls like to party, especially in their early 20s. That's just the way it is and you should accept it.
All girls have guys that are in love with them. All girls have guy...
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Entire story merged
Hey everyone,
About two months ago I started seeing a girl and we've really hit it off (I'm 30, she's 29). The conversations are great, we laugh a lot, and by the third date...
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Ugh... this sucks because I've been doing a lot of 'dating' lately and she's the first person since my ex where I felt real chemistry, like things were finally starting to click. I thought I finally...
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Hello everyone,
In July I met someone whom I've been dating on and off. Every time we get together we have an awesome time, she's really into me and I'm really in her. There's mutual attraction...
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Hey everyone, I'm back with more questions about the peculiarities that girls exhibit (guys have peculiarities too, but I understand those so I don't have any questions about them):
So I've been...
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I wish put it best -- the kinds of guys you want are out there, but it seems like you keep running into the guys that want just sex.
Maybe you are actually meeting the guys who will want something...
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I need another swift kick in the butt...
I texted her yesterday afternoon to see if she wanted to meet up sometime this week and she hasn't responded. I'm trying my best to remember that she...
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Thanks, QLP, hunnypooh97 and jmjoseph, I think this is what I needed to hear. You are probably right that I shouldn't yet expect anything... I'm sure that my last GFs had personalities that lent...
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Hey everyone, seems like every time I ask a question here I get awesome advice, so here it goes again:
I recently started seeing someone I met online; we sent messages back and forth for a couple...
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Awesome answers... you all make great points but it seems there are two camps: the "wait a good while before you meet" side and the "get off emailing ASAP" side...
In a way I kind of like the...
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Hi,
I've been going on okcupid and plentyoffish and sometimes get responses to my messages... I'm wondering how soon is too soon to ask to meet someone in person? My experience has been that...
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QLP -- thanks; this is amazing advice and I really needed to hear that.
I wish -- ditto; I think this might be my problem, I don't mingle enough with people and I sort of stick to one particular...
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I hope that's what it is. Maybe I am taking it personally... I tend to do that a lot and it hasn't helped me much. It's probably time to stop.
This person and I aren't very close, but we have...
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This is going to sound kind of wussy but it's something that's bugging me a lot right now.
How do you get your mind off something someone says that upsets you? Some background:
Lately I've been...
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Unless he's any good, then it works in his favor. :D
A year and a half is a long time, I say she's fair game. Do whatever you feel like doing.
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I don't play an instrument, and I like reading but don't do it all that often lately...
I used to draw from imagination--people, cars, landscapes, anything that popped into mind. I stopped...
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I think some guys have a problem with arguments. Most guys don't like to admit fault in an argument, especially if the guy has a "type A" personality. If the problem's your fault, he might still...
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Thanks, Clough! Honestly, I was thinking about this and I'm not into a lot of things... the only thing I can think of is working out. I just joined a new gym, it's a small gym where everyone knows...
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Hi, everyone. My question's about trying to building deep or meaningful relationships. I've always had trouble making friends, and I especially have trouble making "true" friendships, the kind of...
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At 12, shouldn't you be more worried about having a Barbie or a Pokemon or whatever the hell it is kids are into these days?
Boys around your age are all morons; they're not worth your time. Wait...
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All right! Good to know you're getting into working out. There are so many benefits besides pulling in all sorts of @ss... of course pulling in all sorts of @ss is the best reason, but there are...
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Thanks, margarita_momma. It's the third date. I believe the third's the "seal the deal" date, right? :)
But actually I was also making a point for our good friend, Triz. See how you can just...
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There's nothing more to say, Triz--forget about her and move on. Go out and toss a football. Maybe see a movie. Ratatouille seems interesting... a mouse that can cook. Well, I guess it's a rat......
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Okay, well 1 out of 3 isn't bad... what brand? :D
Personally, I didn't really start pulling in wickedly hot @ss until I was about to finish grad school, because it took roughly that long for me to...
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Screwed for the year? There are only three girls in your high school? Sucks to be you...
Find someone else. There has to be others you like...
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Well, you're welcome. It doesn't mean anything if you don't put it into practice, though, so be sure to start doing little things to achieve your goals.
It's like writing a computer program: you...
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Scared? Please, don't be such a girl. :D Just call him. I can practically guarantee you he's sitting at home, worried that you didn't pick up the phone because you don't want to talk to him any...
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I'm going to have to disagree with LearningAsIGo; I'd give a "disagree" rep but I'm too lazy to click the button. Silence isn't okay all the time... there are a few moments when they are, but for...
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First off: guys are NOT hard to buy for. Here are a few things you can buy that he'd like:
Tight, low-rise jeans
Miniskirt (skin-tight black leather, preferably)
Scandalously revealing bikini...
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Short answer: you don't.
Long answer: you don't.:eek: :eek: :eek:
--huno
P.S.: okay, so what do I mean by that? Well, if she sees that you're hurt and worried and still thinking about...
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These things happen... people fall in and out of love all the time. Sucks, but it's how we humans operate.
First off, concerning y, if she isn't into you, you have to move on. You will,...
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Ditto LearningAsIGo. Which means ditto ditto margarita_momma.
I personally don't like going to the movies because you can't talk... but it does give you the opportunity for a hot and heavy...
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All right, man... I didn't read any of the advice above, because I didn't need to. I'm a (recovering) geek. Master's in Computer Science, I work in IT, used to be all into video games, computers,...
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Well, if you really are in the friend zone, it will take a monumental effort to get yourself back in the game. The way to do it is to move on and make her believe you are happy without her. In...
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Well...
1) you have the right to ask your friend to stay away, but don't count on it. All's fair in love and war and if she likes him enough, she WILL be his puck (and I use that word, not...
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