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Thanks for this! Wish I had seen this earlier. Really helps.

Yes thanks glindaofoz. Actually, I am glad that I know this myself as well, this is how I see the future. But as you say I am still at that stage where I am stumbling and getting up again. Eventually...

Yes was my first long term serious relationship. Had girlfriends before, but nothing serious. She was the first girl who really struck me as being the one I wanted to be with and the one for whom my...

Thanks SAB123, another very helpful reply. But damn 6 months later and still be thinking about other guys sleeping with her. I hope I can overcome that thought more quick. Sounds rather stupid,...

Glindaofoz, one question. You say she doesn't miss me, but what makes you think it is so clear cut? I did explain her situation, is there not the slightest possibility that she is just saying that...

If only it were that simple to accept, especially when you are the person who was trying to make her happy.

Why she dump me you ask? Well from what I have gathered, I think various reasons have caused her to change her mind so quickly as she did. First, she was homesick, she was stuck in a tiny student...

Yes thanks. But that's the thing, I know she has moved on, on the other hand it is just so hard to accept. It is so unreal sometimes, because I can't imagine myself doing the same. It is not in my...

Hmm, I don't know why but your last reply did not make me feel any better just worse, guess it was the tone you are replying at. Either way, I know a lot of the things I feel and did were wrong. I...

Ok, well my girlfriend dumped me a few weeks ago, we were almost 4 years together. I am 20 now she is 19. To keep the story short, it was unexpected and I still cannot find a concrete reason as to...

It is really weird reading these stories because everything that has been written here and similar stories shared like many are almost identical to mine in one way or another. I sometimes wonder,...

On that note. Relationships are scary and even dangerous. After my experience I realized how cautious you have to be in finding the right person and seeing the warning signs early enough. God forbid,...

Ye seems that way. It is so weird, never in my life expected this to happen. Its one crazy experience for not only me but many people here. It is one of those things in life where you just look at...

Can somebody please answer, I am going to go with the no contact rule, the reasons being I hope while she is alone and has time alone she can maybe start to feel like she misses me. Secondly, she...

Flyguy, at least your girlfriend bothered to talk to you after and told you her feelings and at least showed some feelings. With my case, my girl didn't want me to call her or anything. I asked her,...

Its weird. I mean she did not move onto another guy yet. At first she said she needed time, then she decided she wanted no more. When I tried talking to her she said don't call me and she was always...

You know what I don't get though. Ok, what if she does come back but after she has been with other guys? This is my worry in my current situation, that she might come back after but after she has met...

I would like to add my story to this discussion as it is very similar yet a bit different. Well, I have dated this girl from my high school since 11th grade she had just turned 16 and I was 17. She...

Thank you! I booked my ticket to london to visit my "gf" long before she decided to not want to see me anymore. Why? I don't know what is going in her head I think she is really confused... cough 4...

Ach, reading all these stories... my girlfriend has not cheated on me or anything or moved to another guy... yet. But like many people here I feel so relieved and happy that there are people out...

I know this is a fairly old thread, and I happen to stumble upon it while googling answers to my problem. Just want to say to everybody in this thread that thanks for the great advice and read. Now I...