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I just got a "Happy Valentines Day :) xxxxxx" text off him. I'm so confused

Bonjour, well, I don't think asking who he wants to marry would help, as it's a bit too soon to be thinking about that kind of thing, we're both teens.
It's not too much to bear, I'd just like to...

Bonjour :)
There's this boy, I know. We're close. As close as brother and sister. We're always spending time together. Laughing, joking. We're so close.
Not too long ago, he told me he loved me. So...

I am staying away from him. I haven't spoken to him in a long time. Yes I have received texts from him, but I haven't answered them. I don't return his calls. I'm staying away from him, and I don't...

*she said I was

I guess I should explain what's been happening.
A few weeks ago we were at another concert. (Yeah, I know, I do so many concerts) and he and his girlfriend were there. We do the concerts at a palm...

I was keeping my distance. I promise I was. I found myself speak to him today (tut tut Mel) and I asked him how is mock exams were going (He's taking mock exams, before his finals in May) he said not...

I've just heard, they are kind of having an argument, I'll leave them alone, it's not my business, I'm diverting my mind to other things

Are you saying it could be something else? I don't understand...
Today the college had a christmas market (can you believe it in November?) and me and him were working on stalls selling things. He...

Hmm OK, now I understand you...
I'm going to try and keep my distance, and I promise I will try

Why would he want to get with me though, when he has a girlfriend, who he thinks the world of? He cares a lot about her, he wouldn't just leave her would he, I think he has the common sense not to do...

Today has been a very strange time...
I was doing a rehearsal tonight, and I have been unwell all week, I suddenly started getting really faint. The director told me to go sit outside for a short...

I kind of have a problem with blushing. For most people blushing happens when you are shy and embarrassed, but for me, it happens all the time.
I like to do drama, and I'm currently rehearsing for...

Thanks, I'll take this into consideration :)

Hey, sorry I keep coming to you guys for guidance, but I don't know who else to turn to.
So this boy, in my form, me and him have known each other since we were about 4, and we have always been...

Your right, I have taken these thoughts into consideration. I'm trying to just let him and her get on together. I know it won't last between them, and if he breaks her heart, he breaks her heart....

Lots of things have been happening again. We treat each other as friends, lots more people are finding out about their relationship and are appalled. No one has the courage to say it outloud, but...

Me and him are growing distant. We are still close friends, and now I feel my feelings for him are slowly fading, I still think of him a lot, far more than I should do, but it is fading. I'm doing a...

This girl knows that me and him are friends. He told her that I knew about them being a couple, and she has often said to me "Do you approve of me and him seeing each other?" and I always reply "What...

I guess since the last post a lot has happened. And when I mean a lot, I mean a lot.
He has a girlfriend now. Who is not in his year. She's 15. And in the year above me. She (like me) after meeting...

Thank you :)

Ok, thanks for the advice, I know at times I may have sounded like I've been questioning it, but I guess I'm just a defensive person. It's appreciated

I haven't said he is telling me he loves me. He has only said it once, while he was drunk and that's over 6 months ago now. He gets close to saying it, very close, but never says it.
Anyway, by the...

All we want to be is good friends. And I'm trying hard to put my feelings behind me. Although, to me, the way you speak about him you make him sound like some predator, when in fact you've never met...

I trust him. I trust him a lot. We're making sure nothing happens between us so we can stay friends.
So what do I do? Suddenly blank him and never speak to him again? That's not going to work. It...

I'm trying, I really am, to keep it on a strictly friendly level. But it's so hard. I know, that nothing should happen between us. The age gap between us, I know is too large. I really like him,...

OK, so maybe I have dug a pit too deep for myself. I always do. I really need help here.

My friend who is older than me, has started abusing alcohol. Well, he hasn't really started it's been going...

Things have changed since I last wrote.
He's turned 17 now, and I'm still 13.
We have been talking a lot together, he tells me how special I make him feel, and how blessed he feels to know me.
I...

I agree that manners are a little lacking these days. I come from the UK where manners are disappearing. I personally can not stand people who do not show common courtesy. In England it seems that...

Thank you everyone for this advice. And thank you for complementing my writing :D

You know what, being mature isn't so bad you know. I fall weak at the knees for boys who are mature. I'm 13 and have lots of 14 year old friends who are girls. Some of them are not into sex and hunk....

To Wondergirl,
I don't think I have an attitude, I always try to be the quiet one that just smiles when good things happen. I don't actually mind the unperfect but... oh well... When I type my...

Thank you everyone for this advice. I'm not really a self conscious person and to be honest have no sense of embarrasement. I do a lot of mad yet self rewarding things without any remorse or regret...

Being friends is acceptable... BUT I MEAN JUST FRIENDS, and there is a limit to how far it goes with out it seeing not like a friendship.
If your married there should be an ideal amount of space,...

Hello, OK so I better explain.

I go to a competitive fee paying school. All my friends are really bright clever people. All the boys fancy them, they wear makeup, their parents give them...

Thank you Jake2008 for this advice. I know, "Whats a 13 year old doing, mixing with a 16 year old" is what most people think. I even found myself saying it when I first met him.
Don't worry he's...

Thank you for your advice. Being truthful he doesn't get in moods, he just comes to me going "please, mel, help me, cheer me up, I need to speak to you". Thank you. Hes not the sort of person who...

Thank you everyone for their advice and support. Your right, I don't want to play seduction games with him. To be honest he treats me like his sister but I can't actually help the way I feel. I don't...

Well, thank you for thinking I'm a nice girl. Its funny how only words can influence people.
Tons of friends, yes he's friends with everyone. No one can not actually admit to not likeing him, he's...

Im in my early teens.

In August something dreadful happened between me and my father. So dreadful that I wanted to commit suicide and I thought my world had ended. I never used to be sad, I was...

If he kissed you and likes it he obviously has feelings for you! Okays, pull him a side privately and tell him how you feel seriously! What's the worst that could happen?

He has stopped the self harm. I don't want a relationship, I just want to be his friend. But I can't actually help loving him. Yes I deeply respect him as a person, do care for him and believe me the...

Just wondering, Why did he send me a text saying he loved me, what's that all about?

Can I just say thank you for all this good advice, I can't say thank you to everyone enough for helping :)

Hello, I have a problem that I would like help on and I was wondering if anyone had any advice or useful information that they could give to me. Its gone on too long and any support is greatly...