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I've been having a recurring nightmare about the torture/deaths of a few people. I know this may have some things to do with health but I'm more interested in the scientific aspects of it at the...

Hey guys, I'm 5'11'' and only weigh 150lbs. I've been getting tired of my thin body style and am trying to fill out into my body a little more. I'd like to gain some pounds of muscle so I fit into...

I know exactly where you're coming from. I too am an aspiring musician, and I also wanted to do this. My parents didn't approve either. They suggested that I should find a stable career major, and...

No contact is the way to go in this situation. It's tough at first, so expect that, but in the end you will thank yourself.

Sounds like you're on the right track then. Keep it casual and about the kids.

I had this problem once. There were some places my ex didn't go that my other friends did, which was a way around this. I also started spending a lot more time with my friends that she wasn't too...

It doesn't sound like there is much that you can really do at the moment. You would have to contact him to answer some of your questions. If both of you have really strong feelings for each other,...

If you don't want to mess anything up you should just let something happen instead of trying to make something happen. You did say that you're not desperate, so don't try so hard for this. It...

Ummmm... how are we supposed to help with this? Did I miss something.. XD

At least you realized that what you did was immature. In time he may realize that it was something dumb too, and may want to end on a better note. Til then just take your time to heal and let him...

You could be right, maybe she is suppressing her emotions for you. You could also be wrong, maybe she has none left. Whether it's right or not about her being with him is for her to decide, and...

If she's not ready yet, you can't change that. She needs more time to adapt to what has changed between you two. Also you say that she said she's trying to forget so she can move on. It doesn't...

If she needs space, give her space. And don't think about what you can do about winning her back. She'll come back if she wants to. In the meantime just keep yourself busy with friends and hobbies...

He shouldn't tell you anything like that at all really. Sounds like he's just an a$$hole. You shouldn't stick around and just take the emotional abuse though. I think you should forget this guy...

Maybe you should go back to no contact until you figure out what you really want. He'll still have memories of your relationship and sometimes he may feel inclined to contact you, as he probably...

Sounds like she's pretty confused to me. She'll need time to figure out what she really wants, and if it's you, she'll come back. In the meantime, be prepared to move on with your own life. As...

My ex did the same thing. She said that she didn't want to leave off on a bad note. Maybe that's what your ex wants as well. I recently came to the conclusion that I don't want my ex back anymore...

Tal is right, just try and find something to keep her off your mind. I play guitar for example, and it's kind of my escape from stuff like this. Keep busy and let time take its course.

You should definitely listen to tal about the no contact. It helps. It hurts at first and you get ancy, but it helps in the long run. There is always a chance that you could get back together, but...

That would be dangerous for you. Those feelings would cloud her judgement, as well as keep you on edge. Give her time to get over her ex and see what happens from there.

Yeah, it definitely sounds like you're falling in love. Don't worry I did it too, it happens.. lol. But everyone is right, you need to take it slow. If you rush things, it'll all blow up in your...

Thanks for the insight guys.
I'm just in a weird state of mind right now.. And I did contradict myself. I'm not going to go out of my way to try and get back with her, but if I was given the chance...

Ok, I'll just start this from the beginning. I have been dating a girl for a little over two years until just a few months ago. She said that she just wanted to take a break for a while and not be...