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This is more of a general comment for yourself, not really regarding your girlfriend, but I think it is very important

You say you don't hang out with your friends much... take this opportunity to...

Sounds like you got the short end of the stick... seriously get rid of him, you deserve appreciation back

Yea... don't start dedicating songs this early on haha

Hmmm yeah... looking at it from his perspective that would probably set me off, if there was a strong connection though I would most likely still contact after a couple cool off days, just wait it...

Most of the posts in this section are about people's private lives... I'm sure he does know that he did the right thing which is all that really matters, but it is also nice to hear outsiders...

Small claims court might entertain such a case depending on the amount of usage, but what a waste of time it would be imo

That's pretty lame, really lame actually... I'd call the service provider and have the service suspended and then make arrangements to get it back asap, and then tell him to screw off haha

I would certainly hold of on exchanging intimate feelings for now, seems early from the way you described it... but you definitely need to continue to show interest by flirting, touching, holding...

Movies are terrible first dates imo, so yea do something where you can get to know each other... coffee, dinner, drinks, walk through the park, lots of options, if you build enough comfort with her...

Personally I think surfing dating sites is a pretty good indication that something isn't working and he is curious to see what else is out there, he may not have intentions on doing anything at this...

I guess the question is, how often do you guys go out places? It gets expensive paying for 2 people to go out to eat 3-4 times a week... if its 1-2 times a week then I usually have no problem paying...

Yeah, sounds like he just froze up at the end of the night... nervous because he didn't want to mess anything up

Just keep up the small talk and go out again (preferably one on one) once he gets...

Don't worry about it, let it happen naturally and it will, and you won't care who saw it happen

I really don't believe in that stuff, anyone can learn to talk in generics and read a persons reaction to what they are being told. I am sure you were showing a lot of "oh my god" reactions when she...

I'm not the type to use pickup lines, I like to use an opener that will lead to further conversation...

But probably the most funny/absurd thing I've said to get a girls attention once was when...

The money was a birthday gift for YOU, not to spend on a girl that you have been dating for a week... I don't know but at 13 $40 was a good amount of money... keep it for yourself, go to the movies...

+1000

This is not going to work...

Ok, fair enough... maybe what I meant to say is do it to see if they are flaws that you can possibly overlook. Either way though, like I said just because you date someone doesn't mean you are in it...

I think it is good to have a set of "criteria" that you look for in a person, some of them may seem shallow but in reality you should get what you want or close to it

I think some things like...

Usually the reasons it didn't work the first time are still there, I think you guys should spend time dating other people to see what you want... there was something in your previous relationship...

I think details of the breakup and how long/close your relationship was are important to know for giving advice.

24 year old guy myself and I agree, my little sister is 11 and if I found out a year from now she was dating a 16 year old... I would have a problem with this.

Stop now... live your college life, trust us, it is not worth the legalities and the fact that he is no where near ready for a serious relationship.

I think the age gap is a bit much as well... I'm 24 and wouldn't pursue a 19 year old, but that's just me I guess.

But regardless of personal opinions, I've seen many relationships with age gaps...

Well I think it's good to try and work it out but don't back down on what you said... Take it slow and if this comes up again then cut her off. I say that because from personal experience I was in...

Tough situation for sure, I would probably get suckered in for the meet up if I was still really into the girl

I like everyone else's advice though... tough it out and make her prove that she...

If you aren't ready then you aren't ready... if he can't respect that then he isn't worth your time

This thread almost comes off as trolling to me, someone should just delete/lock it.

LOL I think it has become clear why no one wants to date you, sorry.

"i want you now" is pretty cut and dry when I read it... only reason I could ever see a girl sending me a message like that is if I was heavily flirting with her or even messing around with her... I...

Give it a shot, just call and be honest (to an extent, don't creep her out lol)

Let her know you were thinking about her and wanted to see how she has been doing

I didn't see the other thread... but

Sounds like you both aren't over each other and if you feel that you aren't right for each other then you should probably do what you can to eliminate...

At 19 I think there is a very clear reason why you would be concerned with dating someone who has a kid...

I am 24 and I still tend to steer away from women with kids, because quite honestly......

Also, how old is she and the guys she is dating? How long do they last before they start ignoring her?

Yes I agree with this, I consider myself a very intelligent person, hell I'm an engineer graduate... I should be, but anyway... there is a time and a place for that... and that is at school or work...

That's pretty messed up of her to do, I know my best friend would never do that... maybe you should reconsider being friends with her and you should definitely get over him, they are both...

Bad luck? Maybe they met another girl

They got all they wanted? Did she sleep with any of them? Some people are just looking for that unfortunately...

She's got something abnormal about her...

All right so another update

She sent me an email with a link to the trailer of the new harry potter movie, which she is into, so I watched it and responded that I need to catch up on them, just...

Off topic, but is he local? How come you have only been communicating over email for several months now?

Does she show any physical affection when you guys go out together? Are you paying for both of you on any of these outings? Do they feel like dates or just hanging out with a friend is what I'm...

Makes a lot of sense, thanks

I don't see anything wrong with it, the only question that has crossed my mind with interracial dating is her family, I mean its an entirely different culture usually so it might be hard to fit into...

I think this is a crappy approach myself...

To be honest, I used to be similar in my last relationship, I said I didn't like PDA and I never showed it, I also was never very cuddly or touchy...

You say he is almost up there... and that there is no passion... I would say that he isn't the one

Wise choice for who? How can someone that you feel no passion with be a wise choice for yourself?

Lol all right yeah... I see what you mean, but still, I think the list has good things to do to keep your head clear versus sitting at home dwelling on it, no?

Lol? Confirmed? Maybe she gets around but you really think/know she has every disease in the book? Anyway...

Like others have said, she might be breaking up with you "nicely" which is a weird way...

You've never met? I would say do not waste your youth in an online relationship with someone on the other end of the country

Illegal or not, I personally do not think it is healthy, regardless of...

Personally I am a pretty big flirt around women, whether I'm attracted to them or ever would want a relationship with them... and I don't considering it cheating... are you doing something that you...

Person experience, I would say this is absolutely not a fair sign of cheating... there were many times in my last relationship that I would try new things that I saw in porn or read about... also...

Strange that he feels he needs to be away from you to talk to her, is it every time she calls?

I've never been on either side of the fence in a situation like this but I would think being the...