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Thank you so much for this. This just puts everything back into place and makes everything so clear again.

So I just got a letter from her. Nothing too dramatic. Basically saying that she'd like to be friends. That we got along at one point and that she doesn't want to burn bridges. She wants me to let...

Thank you all for your responses. Gives me even more strength to know that I'm taking the right steps. I will avoid contact with her and if at all I do have to talk to her, it'll be brief and to the...

Hey guys.

I've posted this on one of the stickies but I thought I'd post a separate thread on it.

So here's the rundown: been with girlfriend for five years. She breaks up with me because she...

Wow. This sounds like my situation. 5 years. I was completely committed while girlfriend hints several times that she wants to break up. Finally does it. I deal with it. I'm happier now. And now I...

Update on my situation:

After weeks of putting off giving her her stuff back (legitimately because I was busy), she called me several times and said she wanted to pick them up. So I said OK.

We...

So obviously there are a lot of people preying on broken hearts who come up with these solutions on how to get an ex back. How many out there are trying to sell false hope? What are the signs that it...

Sounds about right. Thanks a lot.

Throughout this experience I can say that I've learned sooo much. It actually seems like it's much better to be in this position as opposed to being the one who...

Thanks a lot.

Now I'm getting a paranoid feeling that she might be looking to other guys. Particularly one of her short lived ex boyfriends who has recently been leaving Facebook comments and...

Or, I was thinking, should I just drop it off at her front door and just message her and say her stuff is there? Or would that be weakness? What do you think Ash?

Sounds good. I'm just kind of scared as to how I'll act in those 5 minutes. I haven't seen her since the separation and I've been doing quite well. I'm just a bit scared that in that quick drop off...

First of all, great great advice. I'm proud to say that I have been faithful to the no contact concept and have not initiated contact. However, today, she messaged me and asked for one of her...