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I'm going through a similar situation. He can file for divorce. You will get the kids. Normally the judge will make his decision based upon what is best for the kids. If your friend looks like he's...

Told you. =)
My wife has no idea what she will be losing.
Its really heartbreaking talking to my kids. They just don't sound happy anymore. I have never seen them happier than when I would walk...

Startover22. Thanks for that. That means a lot to me. I see that there are people out there that care. I'm this () close to saying the same thing to my wife. I'm sick of the b.s. I'm sick of the...

I know I have to work on my life. I am, daily. I work out more. I now weigh 164lbs when 4 months ago I was close to 192lbs. I got my six pack back. Yay me. My job performance is still the same....

True. Here's a little insight to the life of people in the military. Today I went to breakfast and seen an old friend. He has no idea what's going on in my life and vice versa. So, he asks me, "How's...

Ok. I'm doing good. I just went to another group. It was elightening. Turns out that my wife exhibited all the traits of a passive aggressive (PA) type personality. People that are PA will be passive...

I typed that fairly fast. I asked her if she saw me trying to get better and if she saw that I was trying hard. She said yes. But does that matter? Probably not. How much can I take? Not much more...

I will grant your wish. Here's the latest... the phone rings and I pick and I say hello, its my daughter, and then my son. I talk to them for a bit and they don't really sound too happy. It was more...

I hope this comes out right. She's not here. She is 3 thousand miles away and won't speak to me. 2 days before she left we were supposed to start marriage counseling. I was under orders to go and...

Thanks talaniman. I still have hope believe that she does too. I really wanted a good marriage and... I want my family back. I'm just going to have to dig in and like you said, hang there for the...

My main concern isn't the money or my job. For one, I hate my job and two, money to me doesn't make me happy. My main concern is trying to get better and save a shattered marriage. What I was trying...

That was really good advice from Bushg and NowWhat. Bushg actually shed some insight as to my own situation. That is EXACTLY what is happening with my wife. She goes home and her whole family is just...

Thanks startover22. This military stuff is hard but I do it and I do it well. The military has been very hard on me and even harder on my marriage. On a personal note: I wanted to make her stay with...

I was getting physical and verbal. I started therapy for both. The physical stuff stopped but the verbal was still going. I was getting therapy and we were supposed to start marriage counseling 3 day...

I must admit... hitting rock bottom does make people change (usually). If you leave, he will definitely hit it. If he gets better, well, then its up to you. I hope the for you and I will pray for you...

Whatever. Women can change just as men can change... how to make that change comes about is up to her. I'm just saying... the marriage can be saved.

Goldie... I'm a man... so I speak like I talk. BINGO BANGO... exactly what I was trying to say. Kudos. Yeah... so right. I wish I would have married someone like goldie... haha

Look... gang up on me. I "was" an abuser. They are not getting abused every second of the day... they abuser has times when he can be reached. When that time comes... make that commitment. Its not...

When you get his answer you understand what "could" be happening. The key to raising kids is consistency. The same applies to marriage. If her ex did certain things the same way over an over... when...

Hmm... let me think. I think you are over dramatizing this. You don't know her situation. If she is able to even post a question like this on the internet, and have the chance to ask these...

OK. Now What... you should have capitized "want" not "he". You provide a want and supply a need. First step is supplying the need to change, and running away is not the perfect answer, just the...

Ok. After seeing the completely ignorant answers I will be as blunt as I can.

I used to be single and in the Navy. I have had many many "relations" with women that were married. The problem with...

I have an opinion on the matter. There is a line. When in a marriage both have to be secure in the for the other. If that security is breached, it has to be discussed till both reach closure. A wife...

I agree with everybody above.

Time to leave and get out, but if you chose to stay in that situation it is your own problem. No one else's, you need to be strong enough to stand up and get out...

(I just want to add to my previous answer)
Do you want to fix your marriage or run away. My wife is gone, I have no idea what she is doing but if we could have got help, I think we could have...

I was that guy tkdgal. Except for the umentionables. He will never stop... he will never quit. He is insecure about himself. He has low self esteem and I'm guessing he doesn't like going places with...

I'm in the military first of all so everything I do is scrutinized and monitered by the military. My wife left me and took my two kids. She won't talk to me about what she thinks or what she feels....