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Thanks for the input and thanks for your time to reading my post. I’ve to wait until my kids asleep at night to have some time to sit on my computer for this reply…

Porn is always our issue since...

I’m so sorry for the confusion. Let me explain…
He was hides it from me when we were dating. We were and still have lots of disagreements about it. After married, I tried to avoid those arguments...

Because he's masturbating right after shower in the bedroom and go to sleep afterward. Since I don't want to see/cause him in the middle of masturbating again, so I need to wait until he's done...

Thanks for your input. One thing I didn't mention before... after I cause him and after the argument. He told me he needs sex almost everyday, so he's going to watch porn and masturbate pretty much...

My husband likes porn for masturbating that I knew it after few years of our relationship. I tried to convince him not use porn that much of because you have a sex life and you can have sex with a...

Thanks for sharing your pregnancy experience with me. It sound not fun for you at all for your first pregnancy. I wish you will have a easy pregnancy next time.

So, I'm guessing your daugther was...

Thanks for your responding. I've started bleeding since last Friday till now, a little with some tissue and stop again, everyday.

Would you like to tell me did you have natural miscarriages, or...

I have a hcg blood test on 3.3.08, and followed another hcg blood test on 3.6.08. My result are 80,000 dropped 65,000. My doc said I have miscarriage. But I still haven't give up yet... :(
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Yes, maybe I shouldn't worry too much about it... thank you for your reply again... I appreciate it very much! :o

Thank you for your reply, again!
I have a close girl friend, and we talk about relationship issue all the time. But he doesn't like I talk with her about our relationship (she is also his friend),...

I was standing next to him when he looked at the text message. And he says, oh, is xx just text message me to say Merry Christmas! I says, why she doesn't email you instead of text message you for...

They worked at the same department before, so they have time to hang out for lunch or talk personal stuff. But now she worked for another department now. But they're still keep in touch or hang out...

I appreciate your reply for this too! Like this one... I'm sure I won't hear anyting from him again about her anymore. Because now he knows I don't like it. He will just hide anything from her. And...

Thank you for your reply, peggyhill! Appreciate it very much! I tried it before too! Now he just hide the email make sure I don't see it or delete it right after he reads. So basiclly he just hide...

My fiancé has a guy friend who sends him naked women pictures from the internet, or sometimes send him some women picture of his friends’ girl friends. I told him I don’t like he email you all those...

Is it OK a female colleague to text messages your fiancé to say Merry Christmas?
His colleague is married and I never met her. My fiancé just told me about her time to time. From what my fiancé...

I thougth about it too. One thing is always in my mind that one day he might find faults on me (like if I busy with the kinds, pay lack of attention on him, etc.) and have a fair because he like...

Actually, you're not the first person said that. For over 4 years relationship, I try to compormise anyway I can. But this is just over my boundaries...

His dad also like porn. But a bit better...

Thank you for your reply again!

I think I just no way to make him understand my point of view as a woman. We talked a lot but never come up with solution until the problem happened again, we have...

I tried to understand his point of view. But I just can't stand that if I know he just use me for release, or his fantasy. Like you said, I feel belittled, and with no respect. I asked him to cut...

I do feel the same way, he do a bit engocentic and immature when come to this point.
This is his says to me, I miss the playfulness, the excitement, the adventure, and yes the fantasy (we have over...

Thank you for your concern. I do understand what ths ideas come from. Men do like what they want with inconsiderate others. And porn do ruined my relationship a lot! If I say, I do like porn as my...

You advise might not be fit me. But thank you for your comments anyway!

Basiclly, I agreed and correct what you say. We talked, I did what you said above. Only thing that he didn't keep promised that he watched porn again and come to me afterward. After I refused him, he...

THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR ALL RESPONSE, APPRECIATE VERY MUCH!

He like to watch diffrence women's pornography with his hands. I know all about mental fantasy, feel like having sex with diffrence...

Heee... guys always say this!:D

I'm sorry, I should make is a little bit more clear. C.A means California.

Maybe you don't see porn is a issue. But for my point of view. He keeping too much porn and in this case I feel a little...

He was from Holland, raised in C.A, (not in Asia). I was originally from Hong Kong, also raised in Hong Kong.

I agreed what you say. His father also like porn, and his mom told me she doesn't like it at all. But his mom know can't change his dad, so just let him for over 30 years's marriage. I think it from...

I'm Asia, and he is from Holland, but he grown up here. I know this also apart of the issue too. He's always say I need to be open a bit more. He tried to convince me before to watch porn and tell...

I don't blame him if he need masturbate to get if off. I just blame him that, he had choice, but he preferred masturbate with porn rather than have sex with me.

Sometimes he is lazy have sex with me instead of ask me for oral sex. Because intercourse takes time, like foreplay, kisses, etc. also, he says, he enjoy having sex with me, but oral sex is feel more...

Because he is lazy to do the work, and takes longer to finished what he wanted. So it is easy for him do it himself with porn.

Well... he will have sex to me if I do it alturate. But I just don't like sometimes he like see porn (I hate porn!) and get him all excited before he comes to me. I feel like he wasn't make love to...

I understand that... we had this discussion before. I told him I don't like when he think oral sex is more important in our sex life than make love to me. He told me oral sex is more satisfy for him....

I don't want give him oral sex of because every time he wait for me to give him oral sex before we have sex again, like alterate. If I don't give him oral sex he will perfered masturbate, even I am...

My fiancée want me to do oral sex for him. I don’t like it when I am available but he want oral sex rather than make love to me. So, I didn’t do it and went to sleep. He went to another room...

I know... it's not that easy to get out of the relationship of 4 years. Also because I love him very much, and I am sure he loves me too! But for some reason, we don't know how to avoid all...

Actually, I didn't really asked him to get rid of them. He signed up a lot of dating sites before and stored some of those woman pictures he met on-line on his computer and closet. I was asked him to...

He doesn't want to seprate and want to see each other all the time. He tried to sleep in my place, but he feel my neibor a little bit noisy for him, so he want me to live in his place. Meanwhile, we...

I feel the same! But if I still keep them. He will says I don't care what he think, and he think I still have feeling of my ex's that's why I want to keep it. Then, we will going to start agusment...

I and my boyfriend broke up before, and now we were get back in the relationship almost 10 months. I’m living in his apartment (for his required), but I still keeping my own apartment. He threw away...

I still not completely forgive him what his done to me. Every time when we have argument I still thinking the pain he gave me before, and I feel so resent him. He told me if I can’t forgive him that...

He worry one day if we got married but doesn't work out, I will do the same to him, to get spousel support. He see very unfair for man for the law of the marriage in California. Also, he is a person...

I was a homemaker during the time of my marriage. My ex being selfish and want to keep me at home just for take care of him. I want to go to school to learn something since I have plenty of time at...

I was getting spousal support from my ex-husband. My boyfriend judge me was a bad thing I did. And he thinks I take advantage of the law of marriage. I try to explained to him and make him understand...

Thank you for your concerned. I'm appreciate it very much! I'll come back here and talk again if doesn't worked out.:o

Thank you so much for the advance. I don't want money issue in our relationship. Just like you said, he does selecting things that he should pay. He said, last time he paid for the vacation, and he...

I don't feel I been used, but I am unhappy that he want me to pay beucase he doesn't remember he said he would take care of it before. He did pay for few time local trip vacation (under$100). He...

We still looking for bigger apartment for combine together. In the mean time I'm living with him because he want to avoid the sepreate and keep the relationship go on. Also, I have two cats. And I...