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WOW... what a response. Thank you so much for your kind words, you've really made me think and realize quite a bit. I feel so much better now and feel like I know how to be much better of a friend. ...

My good friends' brother passed away a few days ago, I was with him when he got the news and immediately broke down, and have a couple times since. I don't have a lot of experience in dealing with...

Too soon. Give it a couple of MONTHS. Seriously. After that you may decide you don't even need to see her. Keep on keeping on!

Cool, thank you guys for your ideas. Think I'll try the owl thing, (I'm a weirdo when it comes to white noise. Any noise at all when I'm trying to sleep. Lame right?) I'll have to somehow get onto my...

I think it's a mockingbird, but I'm not sure. It makes all kinds of sounds, all through the night. It's super loud and I can't stand it. I love birds, so I don't want to hurt it, but I want it to go...

Maybe you do need some time away to think all this through. Have you been in relationships before? Have you told someone you love them before? As far as trying to predict what she's going to say...

"see everyone says, 'give her time, she'll see what she's lost' and like shes making the mistake leaving you and that i'll be better off without her..."

People say this because it's true! She...

I have a long one here... I have been with my boyfriend on and off for the past year and a half. Its his first relationship in a long time, he felt that in his situation he shouldn't be in a serious...

He needs to figure out what he really wants, and so do you. And you need to tell him. If he can't handle what you want, that's his problem. You're just trying to be honest and open, nothing wrong...

Maybe you can check out some local art shows if you're into that. Or music, exhibits in museums, things like that. I'm in the same boat, and finally got to the place where castaway chris was talking...

But you don't need to sit around and wait for someone! I think that if you already recognize that you are stuck, you're already on the right path to becoming unstuck.

"The trick is to always know my intentions and should they become temporarily suspect, take a break until it passes."

Totally agree, I try try try to do this as best I can, I think it's a very...

Wow... well, valinors_sorrow, we both are adults, he's 32, I'm 28. Our communication is quite... hmm, lame I guess? Because we're both cautious of saying something that will trigger a sore spot....

Aha. You're a smart one talaniman.(what does that mean anyway? talaniman) what confuses me is that we are on the same page some of the time, then he gets scared and that's when all this sh** happens....

I know what you're saying, I just feel that it's very typical (don't hate me guys! ) for guys to say "accept me for who i am or leave." the issue isn't about whether I'm accepting him, because...

I guess it depends on what you are hoping will come out of contacting her. If you decide to contact her you'll be hoping to hear something back and if you don't, you're going to feel rejected and...

Looks may matter, but they also don't matter, it depends on the person and it also depends on you. When I first met my boyfriend I wasn't all that interested in him. I wasn't attracted to him right...

Have you read "excuse me, your life is waiting" by lynn grabhorn? I just started it, it's also about the law of attraction. So cool that you posted this.

Mannnn... I have been in an on again/off again relationship for the past year and a half with this guy I'm completely in love with... and I know he really loves me, but the same thing keeps...