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Why is it you can sit around and want and cry for your exs and nothing, but as soon as you move on or decide to go on a date there they are calling. Is it radar or what? Do they just sense it?

Well I went back to her and things were better, then she got worse fast. I ended it 3 weeks ago after 4 and a half yrs. I think the selfish and mean and rude in her won't go away. I was on my way to...

Eyes are wide open, watching for warning signs I over looked last time. But still enjoying myself.

I'm going so slow, she's doing all the asking. Just knowing I'm still a catch after what I been through. I still put myself first, I won't make that misstake again. But I'm smileing once again.

Well I was minding my own business and guess what happened? WRONG. Not her again. This gorgous blonde writes me from a dating service, and she lives 4 minutes away. We are going to church Sunday, and...

Why is it when I disagreed with not seeing me it was drama and crap, but when I agreed she was angry and moody. The only answer was to agree to wait on her with no fight. Not happening.

It really helps to read your comments on here, it keeps me strong and helps me know I'm doing the right thing. I'm a smart person and would tell anyone in my spot that they are crazy. I know I...

I am keeping a track, its day one. I just changed by banking account so she can't bother it either, I can't believe a person like her really thinks that's OK to make someone wait till she decides....

Like I said it was a awesome weekend, felt just like it did when we met, then blew me off, so I ask her eariler what's the plan, will I see you again, I ask twice and she wouldn't answer, finally she...

One last question, after that nice weekend, didn't I have the right to know where we stand. Like will we see each other again? What's going on? Instead of nothing and wondering.

Its funny, she wanted to know how I felt about her, what was I thinking, was it a bad ideal to spend the weekend together, then when she got all my feelings and thoughts she dumps me again. Every...

Yes she did say that and a lot more. She's very selfish and self centered. It was like walking on eggshells.

She's called 3 times, and I won't answer. I'm on my way and I fel good. Thank everyone of u

Yes you are right, it was month last time and I felt good. This time will be forever, I seen the last of this. Changing my phone number as we speak. I to look back at allllllll this and I laugh at me...

Thank you, I am ready. Doing it right now. Thanks for your help.

I guess I'm more mad at myself, I let my guard down in trust and got this. I'm not mad at her, I'm glad its over and she proved what I knew in the back of my mind. She's having a fun ole time...

Your right, I set her up to get tires on her car, all she had to do was drive there, she wouldn't answer my calls or text and went to wrong place. She did call and was real brief and said talk to you...

I was dumped after 4 yrs, for the last month it was no contact. Then Friday I was invited over to her house by her and her kids, I spent the weekend and it was great. We looked at each other and...

You are sooooo right, when your in it you do think that, but out and away you get a clear picture. I'm healing and will not go back in that mess. Life is awesome now, still hurt but awesome.

I gave her a cell phone and I took that back and changed that number, I got rid of my house phone, and I'm working on my cell. There's just so many people that call. Your right about the leash, but...

It is hard, her girls called seven times last night, then left a voice mail. I didn't listen to it till this morning, it said, " hey mom dont think youll answer your phone, prove her wrong and...

You guys are so right, she wants me on that leash. And she won't fight for me, she has her kids call. How lame is that. I won't lie, I miss her, why I don't know. But that's fading. I surprised...

I am breaking it, you see I've been through this for 4 yrs, and EVERTIME she would call or text she knew I would come back. And always in a week or 2. it's a month now and I think she's realizing I'm...

I sucks so bad, I want her but not the way she is. I want her to come get me, fight for me. But she's to good for that. It takes its toll on you, she's been beaten, cheated on, in other...

That was the 4th time in a yr, I treated her like a queen, she dumps me over anything. She will give 30 % in a relationship and I give 110, if I don't I can hit the road. That's her way of thinking....

I was dumped after 4 yrs, 2 weeks after being dumped she text me wanting to know how I was, I said I'm good, she said glad to hear it.. now 2 weeks after that her and her kids called 7 times, I won't...

Lol, no its not like that. Take guys for instance, they would look at me like they wanted to kick my , or just like they think I think I'm all that. And trust me I'm not. I do get approched by gays,...

I don't walk with my head down and I do notice people, or she will say do you know that person that's staring. It doesn't bother me one bit, I say hi and go on my way, she how ever makes a joke out...

No I'm not vain, I didn't mean to come across that way. When I say people stare we both had discussed this, we don't know why, it wasn't that everyone wanted me. We couldn't figure the reason. How am...

I was just dumped after 4 yrs, she's 39 I'm 47. In this last yr she's dump me 4 times, this is the last. I haven't talk to her in a month, but what is odd is girls always look at me, hell so do guys....

I know, every single time whether I was wrong or right I went crawling back, this time I cant. Even know I know I'm so right in what I'm doing it seems wrong. I don't think she took me seriously this...

I agree, she was the one I couldn't wait to see, but I had to make all the effort. To her it was more of a chore and your so right. I will get better and I will find true love, not this crap. Thank...

Why in the hell after a week of no contact by me she has called everyday but once and now left a sad voice mail about some stupid old pair of shoes I left there and she will meet me somewhere to give...

I can't understand why a person that got cheated on and beaten in past relationships over and over would treat someone that treats her like a queen like crap. I ask for nothing, just made sure she...

I agree, there's no going back now. She can treat you like crap and you finally leave and she wants you to say your sorry. She turns everything around you you're the one wrong. Sorry is a word she...

After she broke up and then I let her use me because you know "i love u so much baby " well that got old so I told her to get lost, I'm on day 5 of no contact rule, she's called more now then when we...

I'm 46 she's 39, been together 3 1/2 yrs. Been shaky the whole time. It had its good points but mostly bad, kind of hung in there hoping it would get better. Everything is her way or the highway,...

I just told her and she says she don't have time for my crap. So I said BYE. The last time we had sex it was her ideal and 2 minutes into it she turns the TV on and starts watching it. So I got up...

I'm 46, she's 39. Been dating for 3 plus yrs, she won't reply to 90% of my texts or calls, even if I say I love you or miss you. She will rarely. When she works she leaves at 6pm and only then on her...

I broke with a girl after 3 yrs because she gave nothing in the relationship, but its been a month or so and she insist we be friends. I've told her no I just want to move on but she won't take that...

I left her because she would only give 30% in the relationship. She would admit it and said if I don't like it then leave. So I left. Now she wants to be friends, you see I took this for 3 yrs and...

Does the no contact after a break up really help to get her back? What if all she wants is to be friends and I put the no contact on her because I don't want to be friends. I've told her and she...

After ending a abusive, controlling 3yr relationship, its been 2 weeks and she wants to know if we can be friends. She still blames me for our relationship not working out, but I told her no way do I...

I went 4 times this week, I was really out. Now I'm sore from all the adjustments. I'm using ice and thought their might be something to soak in

I have a very sore lower back, is their anything I can soak it in to take out some of the soreness

what kind of person does this? When I say I love u she don't say it half the time because she don't have to, or text or answer her calls from me. We were together for 3 yrs. Its not because she's...

When a controlling abusive person gets dumped, and I mean someone who says she never gets dumped and the guys all do what she says and after dumping them they all want to come back. That kind of...

I just ended a 3 yr relationship with a girl who was something I can't explain, our sex life was horrid, after 3 yrs their was still no shower taking together, I couldn't look at her private parts...

Just hearing it from someone else makes me stronger, thank u

Because that's the way she is, exactly right.