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Oh, that's an easy one. If you believe in karma, it means everything is balancing out. Like, say you had a serious of terrible events that caused you great pain. In theory (of karma of course XD),...

Of course some women like bigger men. Although, if they really truly are the one for you, they will look past your exterior and see you for your personality. There is no secret. Just be yourself and...

I am so with you. I feel unexperienced, ESPECIALLY since I just got my first boyfriend (YAY!! ) but I'm his first too so I know it's OK. Just go with the flow and refrain from any sex. I notice it...

Be very good and refrain from any of the afformentioned naughtyness and bad behavior. I lied A LOT when I was littler and my mom and dad foud out. It's taken me 4 ish years to earn their trust back....

OR you can actually get a date and go out to dinner then head to the dance.

That's what I'm doing :D
And I'm a freshman too :)

Thanks. It's just I'm really hesitant at talking about those things because it's such an awkward subject...

I had planned on talking to him at Homecoming (our first date), but I've wanted to...

I just got my first boyfriend (YAY!! ) and today I just figured out he's shy about showing affection in public. I kind of am too, but I don't mind hugging (which is ALL we do, but works for me!) in...

Ok...

Ok, but what if it spreads in the next week to stage 2 or 3? Then what?

I know, but it was stage zero when she told me a few weeks ago and now it's stage one!! I'm just afraid...
I am 14.

I agree with Jrsg.

Well when she first told me she siad it was in a zero stage, but then I overheard her talking to my grandma I think and said it was stage 1!!

My mom was recently diagnosed with Breast Cancer! She is going to get a... double mastectomy I think and she has to have Chemo! How long will she be sick from the Chemo? Is it possible to die while...

Exactly what Jrsg said.

Lol, OK, I will try.

Thanks, you could say I've had previous experiences that matured me quicker...

Maybe you are, maybe you aren't, but why admit defeat? You haven't ever tried and just because you have a girlfriend doesn't mean you are tied down! You can't make assumptions about things you...

Ok, it wouldn't be telling him what to do. Why does everyone assume that? It would just be ideas for him to try, he doesn't have to do it and it is just my way OK. I don't do talking about this kind...

I am 14 and he is 15 (almost 16, same grade though, late starter). Um, OK well I would just like a little affection and I don't know how to tell him...

cax11, that was rude! Anyway, I think you should just tell him how you feel and ask him to be completely honest with you about why he won't have sex with you. I mean, if he really loves you then he...

Hmm, that's a bit hard. This girl doesn't sound like me because I don't have a "friend zone" and if any of my friends (which are guys) wanted to date me, I wouldn't have a problem trying it out....

If you don't take the chance you will be single forever. End of story.

I may sound like a when I say that, but it's true and time someone told you.

I really don't mean to be so blunt and...

Thanks Schristine, Ok, well I didn't mean it in that way because the way you put it, it sounds like I'm being mean and prissy about telling him. I meant just like what you said, tell him about the...

Thanks for the answers, Jrsg, you explained it more that the other people who answered (not that I didn't appreciate the answers, but yeah). I guess the note is just the way I would do it because I...

Ok, I just got my first boyfriend (YAY!! ) but I am his first girlfriend too. Some of the things I think are REALLY obvious that a boyfriend should do he doesn't do, like give me hugs when we depart...

Ok Tickle. Yeah, he isn't all into closeness. Niether am I, but with him I am... I don't know, it's weird. So I'm thinking I should send the note, but I don't know if he will even try the things and...

Ah, OK well that makes sense, but again, I just don't like the patterned thing again because I am anything but patterned. It just isn't appeaing to me. Oh well, this is not my problem. I was just...

But he's never sad and if he is then he never talks about it with me... not even since we've been friends...

And I don't want space when I'm sad... I want someone to hold me and tell me it will...

Yes, but Ylaira how do you know that will work. I mean, you can follow it if you wish and I think it will work, but do you have any experience with it Ylaira?

Ok, first off, that was very sweet of you to do those things for her :)
If she knows it, she obviously isn't in the relationship for love. It may be lust or just for sex. If she wanted a sexual...

Ok, first off, don't dog on yourself. You called yourself fat and a nerd. Don't do that and don't stereotype yourself!Be confident. Instead of saying you are the "fat nerd" type, say you are the "one...

Thanks both of you.

Tickle: Thanks for the answer. I actually don't think he has because his parent's are divorced and have been since before I knew him (3 years) and his mom and step dad (who...

It's not bad technically, but you should really wait to "go out" because when you are that age you have no freedoms and dates aren't really dates. At least wait until you are in high school. I JUST...

Wow, OK well I don't know if I can be of any help seeing as how I JUST got my first boyfriend a couple weeks ago and we haven't really been all affectionate (well, more than friends, but less than...

Ok, well, I just got my first boyfriend ( YAY!! ) and I'm his first girlfriend. He is such a sweet guy, but I swear to God he is just oblivious to everything! Not that he ignores me or anything,...

Well, if I were the girlfriend in the situation, I certainly would be sad about you leaving without me for a week, BUT I would want you to be happy and celebrate the end of your schooling as well. I...

Is it possible to restart a friendship. Not just any friendship, though. I LOVED my guy friend, and he knew it. He never acknowleged it unless we were alone though, and very seldom at that. Well, for...

I don't know. I know that I wouldn't want to stop being friends with him if it didn't work out... I mean unless it was something really big and unfrogivable... but I, being a friend, would surely try...

You don't have to lose either. Have your girlfriend talk to him. Just let them sit and talk for awhile and have her ease into the subject and explain that she has no interest in him. Then you can...

You are too young for that. In my opinion, you should wait until you two are married. But if you don't want to then at least wait until you are out of high school. You should definitely stop just in...

OMG they are awesome!! And I LOVE that picture!!

Um... I think you should tell her but ask her that if it didn't work out if you two could still be friends... im srry if this doesn't help... I am in like the same situation except for I'm the girl...

I believe anyone can change. But you should tell her that she should be who she really is, not a liar or pretender, and not who everyone WANTS her to be. Just tell her that if she can shape up with...

I am so completely in LOVE with my best guy friend it isn't even funny! I asked him last year if he liked me and he said no. I know it will never work out! But somehow I am still in love with him!...

OK but see today he was treating me normally, being by locker more, and there were more akward silences than there usually is. But anyway I wrote another note that said this:

This might be kind of...

Your not a bad friend. She isn't either. Your just going through a tough time. Invite her over for a sleep over and talk it out. Find out what's bothering her then next time you meet up with the...

OK so u want braces. Brush your teeth at least every morning and night and if u want at lunch too then do that for maybe a couple weeks and see what she thinks then. That all I can give you.

I have made a choice!! I told oboe but... just go read my other question kp2171 and you will see what I mean. And yes it is a bit over worried but still.

I really really really need to know this!! I know some of the signs but I still need help. I am still confuzzled!! I told a guy that I have like for 2 1/2 years I like him and I did it in a note...

OK but I already know a lot about both Oboe and Tough. Its just Hyper I don't know a lot about. I mean it isn't like I really really like him but I sort of kind of like him.

Thanks that is good help. I thinnk one of my main problems is telling him in fornt of ppeople or with a lot of people around. Srry about my typos. But still... I can't get him alone to where I could...