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Thank you. Yes, I guess I just wanted to hear people say what I was thinking. I wasn't sure if I was over reacting but I am definitely over thinking it all.

I have no idea how much dealing he is...

Yes, joypulv, that thought was running through my mind; that it is far too early on in the relationship to be issuing ultimatums. I haven't mentioned anything to him since and he hasn't brought the...

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I have had such turbulent times since I divorced 5 years ago. I recently met a guy who seemed to be just right for me. He is 7 years younger than myself, which neither of us saw as a problem...

Thanks for that. I am in the U.K and my only real hobbies at the moment are walking and cooking. I have just started French lessons but they are merely for the 'extreme beginner'. I am interested in...

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After a difficult past 2 years, I have decided that I would really like to go an travel to new places with just myself ! I'm a 43 year old single female and have never travelled alone, other...

Let her come to you in her own good time. If she likes you, she will.

Ok, here goes. Just hoping he doesn't see this as something it isn't (his long awaited reply).
I just put a note in an envelope addressed to him 'I thought I had made it clear that the relationship...

Big sigh... the letters are still dropping on my doorstep. A friend of mine saw him with another woman just after New Year so I don't understand why he is continuing to write to me. I have been...

I managed to get through Christmas and I'm looking forward to the New Year. I haven't contacted him; its been 8 weeks since the break up. I still get letters through the post that are all about him,...

Been feeling much better. Last week I met up with a couple of friends and had dinner with them which was nice and refreshing. I thought I had heard the last of him and was feeling very relieved and...

Ah well, I came down with the flu and then a chest infection (probs due to all the recent stress). Just starting to get better. All his stuff is now returned but I am still getting letters through...

Thanks all for your help with my problem. I emailed him from a temporary email account and sternly said that I intended to seek legal advice and appoint a solicitor to act as an intermediary with...

Many thanks for your answers. I told him that I was going to see a solicitor to act as an intermediary and he gave me his bank account details almost immediately. Problem solved.

I owe some money to my abusive ex-boyfriend. He is being awkward saying that since he gave it me in cash, he wants it back in cash. I really don't want to see him again face to face. Is there anyway...

My new number arrived so that is changed now, which has made it better. I also blocked his emails but I can't block my work email so he has resorted to that now. What seems to be getting to me now is...

I have decided to change my number, my new SIM card should be arriving tomorrow so that will be better. I am going to get some postal orders and send the money to him via special delivery and I also...

I would report him but I am scared that he will drag my son into it for threatening him. Its been over a week now and the attempted contact from him is worse. He is now saying that he is going to get...

Thanks, I've been ignoring him but the texts don't stop and are getting more detailed. This is what happened last time I broke up with him; he just wouldn't leave me alone to get on with my life....

Thank you for all your answers. I wanted to provide an update because the responses helped me. It all came to a head very suddenly and I didn't really have to do anything. One afternoon, we had been...

When I say I 'retaliate', I mean I am defensive when he starts. I don't push his buttons at all, I've never been that way. I did try to call the police one occasion and he grabbed my phone and threw...

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Although I am a mature, divorced woman with children, I don't know how to handle my current situation. I have been with my partner for 2 years and it's never been a smooth relationship and I...