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Get back on the NC bandwagon

There's a numerous reasons we could tell you why she needed to defend herself but in the end it doesn't matter why because she's no longer with you.

Either way just stick to NC and don't give her the time of day

You'll get through it, but you must be strong and keep to NC

She could be doing it to get a rise out of you but keep to NC and take the anger to the gym

He's gone and your realizing the faults in your relationship which is a strong step in the right direction. Just keep to the NC and in time the urge to call will stop and you will find strength...

Its all good, just keep your chin up!

As tal said best.


No not by any means

Follow the 3 C's in this case
1. Cool
2. Calm
3. Collected

O well then that changes everything then.

Its already over, and all you can do is NC and grow as a person. You are not controlling by any means by what you have written. Quite frankly you do have...

Did the foreign guy spend the night while you were broken up or still together with her?

Ignore him and leave it at that

Stay the course captain,

Keep hanging out with the girls and enjoying life. She intiatied(sp) the break and she is now complaining about it. As the title suggest she's upset because she wants the...

He could've gotten cold feet, he could've found someone new, or something else might've happened but what matters now is that he's gone and you have to concentrate on you. Only he knows the reason...

Take the stuff that you had before she came along and think of it as the last part of you that you have and it that means nothing then you have a fresh new start.

When she says that she doesn't...

Well she she's got feelings for someone else and she stopped saying she loved you, and well that's all I needed to hear. She wants to see someone else let her and take the time to yourself to fix...

Having a crush is not wrong but acting on it is, and it would not help if you told her.

Just a big smile and walk past her!

On this day of August 11th of the year of our lord 2008 I hereby decree that it has been 2 months and like a couple days since the breakup and I have been strong!!

My friend we share the same problem. I too went through the same thing with my past two relationships and it is horrible, but at the same time it is a valuable chance for self renewal and growth. It...

No song no matter what you feel like doing. This girl has already moved on and found a new guy and with you playing a song it will only add to the pain you will feel. Quite frankly NC her and move on...

You can't make people want to be with you and if she wants to be single then tell her you respect that decision and leave it at that.

Simply if she doesn't want a relationship and doesn't want to...

You need to wait until she contacts you if the relationship is salvageable(sp).

All you can really do at this moment is just back off and give her the space that she has asked and with being...

She's just seeing if your still there, and she could be doing that as a safeguard if things don't work out for her from the break.


Just keep doing NC and looking out for yourself

If she does not have the time then don't waste your time.

You have way too much to live for. Are you going to school? Have hobbies? Maybe you can move back to winnipeg.

NO MAN should EVER and I mean EVER touch a woman with hurt in his mind. Im sorry if...

Just do some NC until she breaks it

what is done is done, and adding to it will only cause more pain and frustration on your part. This is a really hard time in your life and you can turn it around and become very much stronger from...

Take up a new sport or hobby and go to the gym, and in time all will heal/ get repressed and you will find someone new.

When you see her just act like life's good with a big smile on your face and...

Take a deep breath, go for a walk, and try to look at things from an outside P.O.V. on your situation.

Sounds to me she is gone and probably not going to come back. She keeps calling you and stuff...

Run and run as fast as you can. This girl is nothing but trouble, she's asking to be the center of attention when she know's she cannot( family's more important!) and on top of that she cheated on...

Hi Sheconfusesme,

First off I would like to say that my ex did this same thing, and the best thing I have found to do is to go to NC and work out and get back to my hobbies. It sucks what she did...

And most of all when you do play if anyone has a chronograph make sure all the markers are below the 300fps mark. Because when safely played paintball is safer then fishing and golf(don't believe me...

That does suck with the non nc, keep it professonal and leave it at that then is the best.

Some people are just like that and there's nothing you can really do,and my ex tried to do that to me....

In my opinion given the facts that you have stated she does want the cake and she does want to eat it so to speak. She wants to have you around not seeing anyone as a security deposit so to speak...

If it is still giving you problems I would suggest

1. Looking at the ball detent( next to the breach there should be a little cover with 2 screws on it and when you take it off there will be a...

It hurts enough to let you know that you have been hit but not enough to make you never want to try the sport again.

I have been playing since junior high and I currently play on my college's...