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Haha, how am I playing games?
I always try to hang out with her and make plans. The ONLY time I ignored her texts and phones calls is when she ditched me. I did not feel like dealing or talking with...

Yeah, that was around 4pm.
She said before that she wanted to start working out with me. So I said, when do you want to start working out with me? She still hasn't responded... I think she's just...

Yeah, I agree. She actually txt me today and asked what I was doing. I said I was in the studio till 6pm. But I could do something after. She wanted to know if I wanted to go to the mall. I asked if...

Yes, I agree...
What I should I do... Just lay low for awhile..

Yeah it does... she is hard to figure out... I mean I could see if she didn't text me EVERYDAY but she does. I just got off the phone with her now... txting as always... I was getting upset, but she...

We aren't missing each other at all... she just makes no effort... and I will give examples including what just happened tonight.

1) She text me today saying "Hey" What's UP" the usual stuff. I...

Its not like she ditched me just that one time... It's about 4-5 times now we had plans and she made up studpid excuses not to. I am trying to talk to her in person like an adult but I haven't seen...

Geturexback... I do agree. I used the term NC earlier in my posts... not to put her out of my life or to punish her... but just to calm down, relax, and see what her next move was and to see what her...

I agree, I mean I always make an effort to see her in person or to go out on dates. Movies, dinner etc. She always comes up with an excuse. But, she's always txting and calling me. But that gets us...

I am trying to. Every time we make plans she makes excuses. I'm getting tired of just texting all the time and not seeing her. I told her this and she said I know. I'm sorry. I'll understand if you...

Hey, everyone... So I have a HUGE update since my last post. So Friday we had plans to go to the movies. I text her around 3pm and said "Hey, i would still like to go to the movies later on. Do you...

Agrees! Take some time to yourself to really think about the pros and cons.
You are young... only 17. You have your whole life ahead of you.
Religion can play a HUGE part in a couples lives. Do...

She def. didn't forget. She called me at 10pm and she was out at 1045pm. We had plans set for 3 days and also confirmed plans when I stopped off at her work.

I guess I shouldn't use NC as a means...

Well, I do think she did something wrong. We had plans and she totally blew me off and then acting like I should be OK with it. What she did was not OK. It was inconsiderate and disrepectful. I mean...

Hello Everyone,
I haven't posted on here in awhile. I've been concentrating on my work and spending time with friends and family. The advice and answers I have gotten from previous sitations has...

Hey everyone, just wanted to say thanks for everyone's help. I am staying clear of that whole situation. I actually met a nice girl 2 days ago at the mall. We have a date tomorrow night. We are going...

Well I talked to her lastnight.
I told her I can't go on doing this for many reasons. It's not right, it's not fair... She said she is really interested in me and still wants me to go to her sisters...

Yeah I know, she said she is tryna figure things out cause it isn't fair to me. We have a lot of fun together so its hard to let go

Hello Everyone,
So two Fridays ago I went out with my friends to some bars.
I met a girl there that was friends with one of my friends. She came up to me and we started talking. We were both...

Hey... I'm still staying strong with NC! She txt me at least 4-5 times a day. Yesterday it was kind of getting under my skin. She was saying stuff like "Oh, I thought you were a nice guy."
"So that...

Haha, I'm still staying strong with NC!
Yeah Survivor you hit the nail on the head... That's ALL she does. Even when we were together either kissing or just cuddling... She had her phone constantly...

Haha, she just txt me again! Saying "Hey I'm at dinner and our friend works here now"
Sooo strange.

No, I can't. Wish I could. I'm staying strong... I'm not going to give in! Thanks a lot everyone. You all help out a lot!

Haha, yeah... she actually just txt me now saying "I know you told me not to text you, but I just want you to know I'm sorry"
It's hard not to txt her back, but I'm staying strong

Well, I ended things lastnight... She pulled the same disrespectful and inconsiderate crap again. She must have txted me about 25 times lastnight. I didn't respond for a little and I actually think...

No she has her kid... I thought he was asking me where her kid was when she is with me... She has him during the week except tues. and thurs. and every other weekend.
The kid lives with her, her...

phiverson... that was a good post... I think I might print that out and show that to her... haha... Her 2 year old is either with her dad, her brother, or at the kid's dad's house.
I don't think...

I guess by either saying yes or no... Either she's willing to make an effort or not... If she pulls her games again... ill end it.
I just want to get everything out in the open.

I'm looking to resolve it once and for at all... If she says she can't trust me than I can't do anything about that... I'll move on... If she says she will try and pulls this crap again, then I'll...

She said she wants to talk things out. She said she feels that she can NEVER trust me.
So she said she wants to come over later and talk about and make a decision...
Don't know if I should have...

So should I just do NC?
Or wait to talk things out with her?

Hey everyone,
So here is my situation... I met this girl a day before easter. She asked for my #. I txted her the next day just to say hi and that it was nice meeting her. We txted throughout the...

Hey, Well it's been about a month since I broke up with my ex. I am feeling pretty good.
I do still think about her time to time, but I know I did the right thing and I know she wasn't good for me....

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Hey Everyone,

Before I met my ex of 3 years, she use to drink and party heavily. She would drive drunk as well from what I was told. When we started dating I told...

I did end it. 4 days ago. I just want to know why she is still texting me saying "Hey, I just wanted to say hi and to see how things are going 4 u".
I don't get it

Hey, thanks for all the support. I am actually feeling very well. It's been 4 days and she tried contacting me about 5 times already. I am very proud of myself because I am still doing NC and will...

Well, I finally did it everybody.
I ended it! She just pushed me over the edge.
I gave her once last chance to be honest with me and she lied. She said she was leaving the bar at 10pm to go home...

I did get tested, Im fine. I was really mad at her for putting my physical health at risk and I made that clear to her. She just makes things feel like they are always my fault. Like this morning. I...

Thanks! Yeah... It was 4 guys. And she said the reason she slept with them was because I didn't show her enough affection. And I told her that's because I don't trust you. I just called her this...

Hello Everybody,
My one friend told me this site is great for advice... So here I am.
I am a 26 year old male who as been dating this girl for 3 years.
The first 6 months were great. We never...