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    If you think the root cause is the drinking, you...

    If you think the root cause is the drinking, you should go to an Alanon meeting. It's for families of alcoholics, and I think you'll get a LOT of good support there. Whether you man quits drinking...
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    I'm so sorry; it sounds like a very unsatisfying...

    I'm so sorry; it sounds like a very unsatisfying relationship at this time. You can't make somebody be what they don't want to be. I wish you all the best in your decision about what to do. Do you...
  3. Question: Dating Survey

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    E. None of the above. It doesn't sound like...

    E. None of the above. It doesn't sound like this is the right time in your life for a committed relationship. Have fun!
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    If she says yes you can call her, of course she'd have to give her number--or ask for yours! Wishing you a new beginning.
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    She gave you her Facebook, that's encouraging. ...

    She gave you her Facebook, that's encouraging. Send her a message on it, and tell her you liked talking to her and you'd like to go out with her, can you call her? Good luck!
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    I remembered your question today when I saw this...

    I remembered your question today when I saw this link. I decided to share it even though it has nothing to do with your original question about hardware and internet, because it addresses concern...
  7. I think you need to decide if you can be with...

    I think you need to decide if you can be with someone who cannot say that he loves you. If you have an honest talk with him and tell him you need to be loved and you need to be told you are loved,...
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    My mistake--I'd put my answer to someone in a...

    My mistake--I'd put my answer to someone in a question box. Sorry for your trouble!
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    If you ask them something they can answer with...

    If you ask them something they can answer with yes or no, the conversation ends. If you ask them to make a choice between two options or to describe what they want, it gives you opportunities to...
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    I think it's all relative and may depend on who...

    I think it's all relative and may depend on who you're standing next to at the time. But honestly, I think you should focus on your internal self and what you have to offer yourself and others; that...
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    I'm not sure you have any legal rights once...

    I'm not sure you have any legal rights once custody has been awarded. I think you should try to patch it up with your parents so you can be invited over there and try to work your way back into the...
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    A typical boil can be squeezed to release the...

    A typical boil can be squeezed to release the infected material within and allow the skin to heal from the pain of the infection. There is something else that looks and feels like a boil, however it...
  13. Question: Sex

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    I think it's normal, natural, and healthy. ...

    I think it's normal, natural, and healthy.

    There isn't anything in the Bible that says it's a sin, but there is one passage (look up Onan to learn more) which describes a man "spilling his seed...
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    She doesn't want an intimate relationship with...

    She doesn't want an intimate relationship with you, but she isn't willing to divorce, presumably because she still wants the use of your income. It's up to you to decide if this situation is...
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    Start practicing. Break it up into chunks and...

    Start practicing. Break it up into chunks and rehearse, rehearse, rehears, until it's very routine for you. When you are actually doing it for the grade, try not to think of the crowd. Think about...
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    You shouldn't assume your parents won't...

    You shouldn't assume your parents won't understand. I think you should speak up about how troubled you are, and ask them to make you an appointment to see the doctor. I'm sure that a school...
  17. Are you always going to seek out other people to...

    Are you always going to seek out other people to make you feel better any time there's a problem? I think that's what he's getting at.

    I think you are both caught up on the technicalities of...
  18. This link has some information on how to try to...

    This link has some information on how to try to do it yourself, but it may not be possible in all states.
    Personally I would rather use a lawyer especially if you would like to try to adopt your...
  19. You need to get an attorney to file for custody.

    You need to get an attorney to file for custody.
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    He has waived parental rights; it means that at...

    He has waived parental rights; it means that at this time he has chosen not to exercise any of them except for visitation. But, he hasn't terminated his rights. He would have to terminate in order...
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    Don't give their words so much power in your...

    Don't give their words so much power in your universe. Ask yourself if what they said is true. Yes? Then work on it. No? Then dismiss it.
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    Are you thinking of the CVS sampling test they do...

    Are you thinking of the CVS sampling test they do for genetic problems, or an amnio? The amnio is never done before about 5 months; it carries some risk of a miscarriage and can't be done sooner. ...
  23. Can you find somebody to live in your house? ...

    Can you find somebody to live in your house? It's not good for them to sit empty in case something happens like weather damage; also insurance companies can force you to pay a huge fee to keep...
  24. I think if you plan to do a lot of scratch...

    I think if you plan to do a lot of scratch cooking and baking, or have young kids and find that spills are still common, the back splash is going to be more practical for cleanup. Another...
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    Paul Simon said it pretty good... "there must...

    Paul Simon said it pretty good... "there must fifty ways to leave your lover"

    "Drop off the key, Lee...Get on the bus, Gus...You don't need to discuss much....Just set yourself free."
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    He blamed his trangression on a "bad week" that...

    He blamed his trangression on a "bad week" that you'd had. Does that still sound like a soulmate to you?

    The choice is up to you, whether you can accept what happened,forgive and go forward.
  27. Ask where you'll be sleeping or who you'll be...

    Ask where you'll be sleeping or who you'll be sharing a room with, ask what you'll need to pay for, what to expect of the family routine, what time do people get up in the morning, are you expected...
  28. Talk to a high school counselor about taking an...

    Talk to a high school counselor about taking an aptitude test. It scores your strengths and suggests some jobs that might be good fits with your answers. It may give you some options to look into. ...
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    A regular pediatrician is a good starting point,...

    A regular pediatrician is a good starting point, but a developmental pediatrician may be what you need to get the best analysis. ADHD is not even looked at until medical issues like vision, hearing,...
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    It's not enough for one person to try to make it...

    It's not enough for one person to try to make it work. You both have to do it. You both have to talk about what you want from the other, and give it to the other. Have you considered seeing a...
  31. I think what he's referring to is abandonment...

    I think what he's referring to is abandonment issues, where somebody won't attach and love because they fear being abandoned, and hurt by that loss of love.

    I do believe that we should listen to...
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    Read about phantosmia, it's when you smell things...

    Read about phantosmia, it's when you smell things that aren't there. I think I've read that if you can regain anything, it means you may regain more. Have you seen a doctor about it recently?
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    It's very common for people with only a small...

    It's very common for people with only a small connection to request being added to someone's Facebook friend list. It sounds as if your girlfriend is very social and likes to talk to people. Maybe...
  34. Question: Home repair

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    Google Area Agency on Aging for your town or...

    Google Area Agency on Aging for your town or city. This is a group that's a clearinghouse for the kind of information you're looking for. They can help with this and other issues you have related...
  35. Most of the new machines are what's called...

    Most of the new machines are what's called high-efficiency, and yes if you buy one then you need to change to an HE detergent. They'll never make suds like you're familiar with, but the reality is...
  36. Question: Dyson14?

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    They need maintenance every few months. You have...

    They need maintenance every few months. You have to clean very fine dust out of the central cylinder. Remove the dust collector and take the core cylinder out of the glass casing. Use another vacuum...
  37. Unfortunately I think you may have to take the...

    Unfortunately I think you may have to take the cabinet apart to get to it. If DIY is beyond you for this, you should call someone because you really don't want water damage in your home.
  38. Question: Age gaps?

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    She may flirt without it meaning anything. I...

    She may flirt without it meaning anything. I really doubt that someone who is out of high school would be willing to date someone who has just started it. Enjoy the flirting and the crush but don't...
  39. You sound as if you have grown a lot in your time...

    You sound as if you have grown a lot in your time together. However, despite your feelings for her, it sounds as if she isn't ready for an adult relationship. I think you might be happier in your...
  40. It's actually very good to get the test results,...

    It's actually very good to get the test results, because then you know what you're up against. There's no sense waiting and waiting for it to happen if you're going to need some help. I hope your...
  41. Maybe your new man has a fertility issue.

    Maybe your new man has a fertility issue.
  42. I would keep an eye on it, but I'd also shop just...

    I would keep an eye on it, but I'd also shop just in case. I think it depends on how long it can stay in balance, and if an attempt at repairing the balance is too costly to bother with. A lot...
  43. A root canal means removing the nerve. They have...

    A root canal means removing the nerve. They have to do that when you want to keep the tooth but there isn't enough tooth remaining to crown it without you being in pain.

    It depends how much tooth...
  44. Talk to your lawyer and see if you need to...

    Talk to your lawyer and see if you need to revisit the protective order after all this time. It sounds like he never met the requirements of it and would still have to pay to go through that program...
  45. It's very tricky when you're attracted to a...

    It's very tricky when you're attracted to a friend. Since none of you are married to other people, things probably seem fluid, as if they could go in other directions.

    I don't think it will...
  46. You should also realize that pursuing this one is...

    You should also realize that pursuing this one is only going to cause you pain. Look away, get busy with other things, and don't let your mind wander back there. You deserve happiness.
  47. Honestly, I think the best thing you can do is...

    Honestly, I think the best thing you can do is ignore, ignore, ignore. Don't feed the fire by caring what stupid things they say. I know it's hard, but get these people out of your house and your...
  48. Honestly? I think she feels relieved. I think...

    Honestly? I think she feels relieved. I think this relationship was too much for her. She told you lots of reasons breaking up would be good for the two of you, and I really doubt she's coming...
  49. Question: Weight Lose

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    Eat less. You'll be hungry sometimes, but it...

    Eat less. You'll be hungry sometimes, but it will work. Start by leaving a few bites on your plate, then move up to leaving a quarter of it behind. Just make a habit of eating less but keep up...
  50. If it does happens, I think you might be able to...

    If it does happens, I think you might be able to complain to your Human Resources that she's creating a hostile work environment by badgering you and/or making your illness her business. Depending...
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