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But shouldn't I at least see what's going on? I mean what if she misses me as much as I miss her and is trying to reach out? Should I ask her to lunch?

Maybe she took me off her myspace because...

Thank you cdavison, your post was really touching.. you're right it is hard when something was so definite. I mean to me, marriage is the most definite thing.. I thought I had the girl I loved...

Should I take her off my top four?

But I feel it's just giving her time to get over me... it's how she usually does it.. she just forgets and moves on.

Whenever she sees me we always end up together. Why is she messaging me then?

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I haven't been contacted her at all... she wrote me an angry email asking if I cared and told me to let her know about our joint business venture... I let her know and that was...

So, is there an update on this? I'm going through something similar and would be interested to know. Thanks.

Hi Claudia, yes we moved a part. She demanded I move out of the house we were renting together and so I did and moved to the house we own, she is living with her parents about 15 minutes away.

I...

Thank you for the replies, they are really giving me a wake up call and a boost to start my life.

I'm moved 9 hours from my childhood home to be with her and it's also where the house we bought is...

She wants a separation for three months.. she said she considers it open, isn't looking but expects me to be.. She doesn't want to talk or see each other at all and won't even do couples counseling. ...

I am so depressed, I just want to die. So, since that fight at my house.. she said she wanted me to live somewhere else and we could date for a few months and if it went well she would move back in...

Thank you everyone for your responses. They give me a lot of strength. So, after not talking for a couple days we've decided that it's best that I move out and find my own place. She is going to...

Ok, update... so thinks are pretty bad. I don't know why, but I just cannot give this girl up. We were supposed to go to Oregon with her sister... they were going to pick me up at my family's along...

So, I went to her and asked if she would be willing to do couples therapy with me. She said she'd talk about it with her therapist.

Then she came to me and said she didn't want to do therapy with...

13 Signs Your Wife or Girlfriend is a Borderline or a Narcissist A Shrink for Men

THanks for the link, this article describes our relationship and how I'm feeling (like I'm going crazy!) very...

Thank you very much for your responses. They give me a lot of perspective and help so much.

She was recently diagnosed with ADD although I think it goes beyond that. The medication helps a little...

So my wife and I got married young - I was 22, she 21. We met at college and dated for a year and then we're a part for 8 months and then got back together for another year before marrying.
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