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There doesn't really seem like there's enough info or evidence to be worried about about your husband having a 'crush' on your cousin. That being said, trust your instincts and be vigilant about...

May I ask why it is that you are so emphatic to label yourself as 'emotionally abused'? I agree with the above posters that what it is you two need to focus on is 'rules of engagement' when it comes...

Where did all these questions about GIRLFRIENDS come in? The poster didn't even mention a concern about infidelity.

I'd have to say just be careful about how you approach the subject of his...

Is he trying to do all the right things to earn back your trust? What is it that you feel you need to know? Maybe he thinks that discussing all the details with you will only hurt you more.

Hi, we have our own business. Lots of not so fun stuff to do in the beginning. Contact your muninipality to get a business license. You'll have to contact gov't for business number - I'm from...

My thoughts led me to this conclusion today,

Whether it is true or not is irrelevant (to me), but I choose to look at other people as basically good rather than bad. I won't answer the door with...

I have tears in my eyes and I get it... thanks.

14) Focus on being thankful for what you have, rather than complaining about what you don't have.

That is exactly what I'm thinking about tonight... cool!

Wow, this is great stuff. It's really all about choice isn't it? You have to take the time to figure that out for yourself though. And I wish it were simpler to know what it is that makes you (me)...

Mark, You are calling this a proposal letter, but there's no direct proposal here. You have to stop dancing around the topic based on your fear of her leaving you. If you know what you want, ask...

You are doing more to punish yourself here sweetie. If you don't make your decision to move ahead, you're just going to continue spinning your wheels, going nowhere. Joe's phone call to you is mean...

Don't concern yourself about changing HIM. Nothing but the shift in your own attitude will change that - so that's the good news. And, although I can understand the fluctuations in moods with...

Is your question "should you trust him" Well NOOO. You shouldn't trust him. But, I truly do believe that there's nothing wrong with you... it's him. You sound like such an intelligent women... I...

Sweety - you have too many things going on here and you can't deal with them all at once! And it sounds as though your ex-bf has a lot going on his life too. Take a step back and deal with one...

Darn, I wished I'd read this earlier. I would have asked him to go for YOU, to support YOU and let him know how dissappointing it is to YOU that you have no-one to back you up - so to speak.
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Oh boy, your situation sounds awful. Are you staying with him because you are financially dependent on him? Is there any way of changing that? Most of your children must be old enough to be...

Nice post SuperDave - I think this would really help people going through tough breakups - if they're ready to hear it. Very insightful.

Marg... isn't it funny that when you were married you can't help but envy the single life (not necessarily the dating aspect) but the freedom? Try to remember what it was that you wanted to do when...

Sounds like your husband is still trying to be a son to his mother instead of a husband and a father to you and your child. Tell him to be the man in your life and not the child in his mother's life...

Chris, you need to move out and get some space and your head together if you want to figure out if you really love this girl or not. It's always great to have friends (or roomates) with benefits......

Well, your lover was finally given the ultimatum and he chose her. It hurts, but read this again and again until you fully comprehend it: HE CHOSE HER. When he was with you he didn't have to deal...

I think I'd take the emphasis off the word and look at his actions. Does he act loving to you? Is he a good role model to your children? By constantly bringing up the fact that he has not told you...

I'm sorry to hear that you are going through some hard times. I sense that you are fighting the urge to ask your wife to make her decision as soon as possible. How about instead of being too eager...

I can understand why you would lie to avoid ‘unnecessary’ conflict. I know couples who face that same issue and waste so much time and energy arguing over the most trivial of subjects that get blown...

This may not seem to be in the right category... but my husband's bad breathe is affecting our relationship. I've told him countless times about his halitosis... to the point where I'm not so...

Awe hun, you look adorable in your posted pic! From your remark, I'm guessing that's the real issue behind your lack of sex drive and not being able to climax. Maybe you could try building yourself...

I can't believe that you're even going to consider having sex with a guy that walks out because he gets upset that he can't get his penis back inside your vagina! That's sad. You must have felt...

He keeps important information from you that you need to know?

That's ridiculous... you're not his wife. Except the fact that you are his sexual toy and your decision should be made easier for...

Maybe if she feels awkward cleaning herself up you should take the initiate to have a towel and wipes close by and help her with the clean up.

If he is not the giving type in that he's not taking the time to try to give you an orgasm then I think it's time to move on. Sometimes people are just not that sexually compatible. It's no wonder...

What is it that you want? Being married to a man that will cheat on you? Ha ha. You say that you are reasonable... but you're not acting it. You're even acting messed up enough to imply that his...

It seems as though you are making quite a few excuses for your husband's cheating. I can understand why since you still love him and obviously want to make it work. So I think that you should stay...

You're going to have to make yourself fine with this because your wife has a child with another man. In one way or another, he will be in your life until your step-son is grown. Try to be open with...

Paunash,

I'm sorry... I shouldn't have asked my own set of questions on your posting... I think some people may be confusing our stories.

Anyhow... I guess I do understand somewhat how you...

Thank you for your reply. I agree and have already come to your same conclusion. My decision to have a sexual affair was stupid, selfish, immature and hurtful. I realise that my affair has only...

Thanks - I do appreciate the reply. And yes, my husband does have a backbone. I didn't mean to imply he doesn't.

Okay, Paunash, I'm in the same boat as you... I have 2 kids, married 12 years, to a wonderful man who's my friend... but it isn't really enough. Our sex life has dwindled for many years and so now...

Amber is way too young to be trapped in an unloving marriage! Cut your losses and find yourself... then find true love - elsewhere!