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He has no idea how depressed I am. If I tell him how upset I am, he usually says I'm being dramatic and not to be dependent on him. I have told myself to let him do things on his own. I'm okay with...

Hi guys,

I'm back and its pretty serious.

I have been very depressed and down for past few months. After having a serious conversation about our relationship, where we both agreed that we want...

I did text him telling him that it will not happen again and that I'm sorry. What do I do if he doesn't pick up when I call? I don't know how I can talk to him in person assuming he doesn't pick up...

It is a very weak moment, but its not passing. I have not been happy lately. I feel neglected. I always blame myself for whatever happens because he hates it when we argue. My friends believe I...

I'm sorry I keep posting on here; I just feel so down and depressed that I feel like this forum is the only way for me to vent. Any help will be appreciated. Thank you!

I have a new problem...
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He is leaving today, and he hasn't called to say goodbye. I'm hurt but I know he won't contact me before he leaves. I know most people would say this means its over, but it won't mean its over to me...

I will be very hurt if he doesn't call me at least to say "bye" before he leaves, especially after apologizing. I will try to be okay, but knowing that fact will hurt and confuse me a lot. I don't...

My situation is similar to HurtingALot but I'm not as strong as her. I found out that he was "looking" for another girl through the grapevine. I called him and over-reacted maybe. I trust him though...

I have thought about letting him go very seriously, but its too hard for me to do it. My mind says to get rid of him, I can do better; but my heart is too fond of him. I don't know what it is that...

My boyfriend and I got into an argument. I got mad at him and he said he can't deal with it and that Im crazy. I was seriously upset about something I heard. He was like this isn't making him happy....

Thanks guys, I agree. He has texted me like 3 times already and I didn't respond to them.

I don't ask for much though. I ask for a calls once in a while and I ask for him to not ignore my calls and texts. It just makes me feel unimportant. That's all. I don't think that's being overly...

My boyfriend has been ignoring my calls and texts lately due to him being super busy. He said he doesn't have few seconds to respond to my texts. It made no sense to me. I talked to him for two...

I understand that he not treating me right and that I can do much much better. Why is it then that I am so unable to let him go?

I do not plan on breaking up with him just yet because I want to be mentally prepared for that and want no regrets after I let him go. Will backing off a little bit and not calling him anymore help...

I'm in quite a dilemma. I'm very confused regarding my boyfriend. We broke up and got back together. Its been 2 months since then and I still feel so distant from him. He wanted to start things slow,...

I am currently in medical school. My boyfriend has a great job in business. Now, he wants to quit his job and own his own business because he will make more money that way. He is very ambitious when...

I see that a common advice is to give him space. But, is that okay and healthy when two people are in a relationship? Shouldn't we be working on it together? I guess its more complicated than it...

I got back with my boyfriend 4 weeks ago after a 2 month break up. He wanted to try again and go SLOW. I am very emotionally attached to him, but it seems that he isn't where I am just yet. He knows...

Hey Guys,

An update... He wants to try our relationship again after 2 months. I don't know if it was the no contact that made him come back, but I'm not sure what to do. I want him back and I want...

Similar thing happened to me. He either misses you or feels guilty about hurting you. You can ignore him if you feel you were doing fine without him during the no contact period or you can talk to...

Hey guys,

So I was happily doing my no contact for about two weeks and he texts me. I was afraid this would happen. Its like he has a radar that tells him whenever I'm happy for once, to contact...

I've been in no contact for 2 weeks now. I'm hoping it works. I have a few questions.

Did your ex ever try to contact you? If she did, how did you respond?
Did you do NC right after the break up?...

Hi Guys...

I'm not contacting him anymore. You all were right. No matter how much I will try to better myself, he won't change. I am going to try to get over him by not contacting him. Hopefully...

I agree with you Ash123. We did avoid talking for a while and he contacted me a lot.
Once I started contacting him, he kind of just responded back to my messages and calls.

I am 24 and he is 25....

Is there no possibility that this can be a SLOW start to getting back together? I feel that we needed this "break" and time to value each other more.

Also, its been two months, not one week.

Hi,
I'm in need of more advice!

After a week and a half of breaking up with me, my ex contacts me and tells me he still likes me but doesn't know what he wants. Ever since then we have been in...

Hey Guys,

My ex and I have been broken up for about a month now. We met once and he told me still likes me but is still confused. I tried the no contact but we do text once in a while. We don't...

It does seem like I have some control now.
I don't want to seem weak and let him walk all over me again.
I'm going to be strong and not seem so available all the time for him; give him a taste of...

I'm 24 and he's 25.
Im in medical school so I have plenty to keep me busy.
This is not my first break but it is my first serious break from a serious relationship.

I agree with what you guys...

Hey guys,

I have some developments that I need advice on. He called me and I caved and talked to him for a little bit. I talked normally, not giving him any notion that I'm sad or still in love...

I was wondering if anyone in this forum was a "dumper".

If so, what were you guys thinking after you broke up with your partner? I just want an insight into what kind of emotions they would go...

I agree with you and everyone else that has posted. He was my first love and my first crush. Its just hard after so many years of liking him to just try and forget about him. I see him every week and...

I feel sometimes we aren't compatible but most of the time we were. It was the last two months that things started going bad. I don't want him to judge me based on those two months. He was...

You are right Ash123.
He did want space and I think I didn't allow him too have that space during his "break" because I texted him twice. I don't think he liked me very much after that.

I'm...

Thank you guys for your advice. This is a great way to get support.

I have one problem: I have to see him every weekend at church. It was very hard for me last weekend, but I got better as the...

If he does call me and I ignore him, will that not leave a negative impression, especially if I'm wanting to fix things?

This is great advice. Its been about a week and a half since we broke up.
I'm trying my best to follow through but its just so hard.
I haven't contacted my ex and he hasn't contacted me. I get...

Hi,

I was with my boyfriend for a year. We were very close friends for about 4 years before he told me he liked me. I had a crush on him for a long long time, ever since high school! Being with...