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Howdy folks. Just thought I'd take some time-out and add some stuff rather than starting a new thread. Past few weeks have been slightly surreal for me. Nothing I can't handle but still odd, all the...

chicken man, you say that your girlfreind shouts at either you or her own daughter. It sounds to me that maybe she has something very serious/worrying on her mind and simply doesn't know how to...

It sounds as though you were able to handle the situation very maturely and positively. When your ex came over to speak to you (she may have come over to speak to your friend but it would have been...

Rather than possibly lying or being "loose" in your honesty to your friend, just tell her the truth that since realising your ex will also probably be present you would find it uncomfortable to be...

Why the hell should you stop going to the places that you enjoy going to, especially the places the you liked before you even met her? What happens if you decide to find a new place to go and she...

Erm... bottom line is... your in a rebound relation. End of. By simply jumping so soon into another relationship you haven't given yourself enough time to heal emotionally and you are displaying the...

If true, certainly explains her sometimes self destructive lifestyle choices.

This is probably going to sound harsh, but realising that you were not attracted to this girl is actually a good thing. It shows that you know deep inside that you need time and space. Far too many...

Hard as it sounds, never hate. It'll do you more harm than good.

Agreed. It sounds as though she is trying to rub your nose in it for whatever reason. She knows the break-up has been especially hard on you and appears to be playing the classic post break-up game...

I think A4Effort needs to ask 2 very simple questions.

Cut the BS - Do you GENUINELY want to be with your ex girlfriend, and does your ex girlfriend GENUINELY want to be with you?

If the answer...

This is probably going to sound harsh but:

You should have gotten your s### together, smartened yourself up and start acting like a man and gone to that restaurant. You've obviously been looking...

Not sure if this question has already been asked (couldn't find it):

I think there's another issue here.

You say you broke up about a year ago and last had any kind of sexual activity with him...

It's very important that you keep yourself mentally business during this period as this will also help you to move on. Live healthily, go out, enjoy yourself with your friends, but don't go jumping...

It sounds to me, providing you are being completely honest and open, that this girl is simply using you as a fallback. No matter how this girl behaves she knows you will always give her another...

Hi Cowboy.

That is a truly uncanny encounter you had! The basics of your story are very similar to mine from many years ago. Your situation when you suddenly found yourself face to face with your...

I think in all honesty it was the first true relationship for both of us as we were living together. We'd both had partners before, but never on the same level as this. On reflection, I probably was...

I'd also like to point out that I used to also feel anger and hate and animosity towards her, but I let go off that a long time ago. I feel, as a person, that I have proved myself to be a good...

Hi. About 10 years ago I met a great girl. I was 21 and she was 19. We clicked almost immediately and we started dating. As time progressed we moved in with each other. During the day we would ride...