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OK, well.. last night I split with my g/f.
her rational was;

You don't give me butterflies, and I don't want to be in a relationship.

Personally I'd not got butterflies the whole time I was...

Yah but what if you never had butterflies/fireworks at all things just worked out?
Is that a bad thing do you think?

Did you always get butterflies? Around him?

Definitely Vivia!!
There are some subtle differences generally in the modus operandi of guys and gals and sometimes they're reversed so it comes down to an individual level, but the real moral here...

Seriously mate, been through similar situations to this one a couple of times, myself, it only all seems to end in pain and suffering if you hold out and keep being nice...

There are a few things...

Hey guys, been a while,
I have a friend I've known her a very VERY long time
Anyway, she's going through some horrible boygirl stuff at the moment, the person she really wants doesn't want her.....

Here's a secret, this took me a long time to learn.. and yes there are always exceptions to what I have to say, so if anyone reads this before you freak out, I'm not trying to tar all and sundry with...

ROFL OMGLMAO that would be a great thing to do! Love your work Tal! Hahahahaha

Hmm yeah I agree in some regards but an infatuation normally lasts about a week not like over a year or more hey

How the hell can marriage be called static? Jeez.. what's up with guys these days..
And you know what, screw being sad about it, seriously ladies (Rol and Helpnow (or guys whatever the case may be...

Aye it really does sound like he's already hooking up with someone else bigtime
In all seriousness spend some time alone learn to love living YOUR OWN life for about six months then maybe rejoin the...

A friend of mine has been in my ear for the past few months
Starting in January telling me how she knows this guy and he has been one of her best friends and that they're really close and trust each...

Don't respond she doesn't deserve your company my friend, meet someone new and move forwards into a happy relationship rather than let an ex control your future because it sounds like that's what...

You are perfect just the way you are,
Any one that wants to change you doesn't deserve to be with you
If love is real it has no conditions it just is..

You know what the best thing to do is right now for you? Keep yourself busy
Double book with friends if you have to get busy busy busy
Socialise, go out meet new people don't get too close give...

The answer lays within you already I think helpnow, I mean as far as your last post reads to me what you have said there helpnow is that you know you deserve more than to be in a relationship with...

Cely if he was cheating on you whatever his reason to break up was just a crappy excuse to get out of the relationship anyway, glad to hear you met your dream man!!

The other thing to bear in mind is this.. how would he respond if you were to do the same thing back to him so like to start talking to other guys.. maybe next time he does his little...

Sorry about the delayed response, I have been away from this site a little while..
OK keep him cut off..
Maybe change your number...
Here are some ideas some are juvenile but...

If he...

Realising that everyone is different and that we share the same language and have an overlap with some of our desires is a big start to this one too...

Actually Mckenzie134 I see where you're coming from but, then there's the other school of thought which is one I am more in tune with, and it works quite well for me, basically that is to understand...

I think its easily and often overlooked that really WINNING in life is to just be truly happy
Happiness is a personal decision, even if it requires you to shift your perspective or stretch the grey...

Ahhh glad to hear it, really glad :)
You know even if you do chase her and get some kind of a half answer out of her it probably won't make you feel much better anyway eh... much better to move...

I disagree, if he'd wanted to not betray her he'd have not broken up with her suddenly and with no rational reason, he'd have sought help FIRST rather than being selfish and potentially breaking her...

OK you summed it up near the end
A bad relationship that needed to end. Truly I'm sorry to hear that is where you've just come from it really sucks when things hurt but the real secret here is to...

First up sorry to see your situation that is really tough.
I'll take another point of view on this though to perhaps consider.
OK he's broken it off with you... now what... well.. maybe this is a...

You know I read your question and it stumps me just how many times I've read a similar question since joining this site, its as if all the guys that post here don't realise that some girls are just...

OK if there's any guru's out there willing to help I'd appreciate it greatly..
So I've stumbled through installing kubuntu 6.10 on an old box I had sitting around and my aim with it is to host two...

You kind of forced me into a brutal response this time around so, prepare yourself...



There are two possibilities here

1 - she is confused (which she really shouldn't be but probably has...

Also basically says she's not trying to get back with you
My standard reply to a gal saying similar to that would be
'maybe in a few months we can be friends again, right now I need space'

But...

Yup it's possible.. I'd seriously always recommend to anyone that is recently single to take some time off (with no flings and no bed-buddies) after a relationship to heal and to rediscover yourself...

You're welcome :)
Time usually clears the unresolved stuff up a bit I find anyway...
Though it's hard to tell sometimes unless your in the situation directly but
Ah anyway pm me if you would like...

Rofl well spotted!!
Mental note to look for that when looking for posts with zero answers hahahaha:mad:

Your right to think that way..

There's a chance his mates WILL influence him but if he really cares then he won't
And if you really care you'll believe him

I just hope for your sake he's not...

Have you asked him why it is he doesn't want to go there with you?
I know that sounds dumb but try it out..

Space means - I want to break up with you its over.
Maybe it doesn't mean exactly that but that is how you should treat it
Get on with your life be happy and hang with your friends until the girl...

1 - I'd walk but that's based on the old theory of you don't crap where you eat i.e. don't date work people..

2 - if he's so wrapped up in 'you're out of my league' thing but you've already...

You go get him gurrrrrrrrrrrl ;)

From a male perspective, honestly we are stimulated mostly visually, but if we admit openly that we'd happily partake in sexual conduct with someone it doesn't mean that we're fixated on it or going...

Actually another angle on this is..
Why is it she's doing so many double shifts? Is the reason she's working so hard so that you can go places in life together perhaps ?

I don't pretend to know...

cut him out of your life.
completely.
question for you though, when you broke up with the old b/f did you have any time off or just jump into another relationship with the new man?

as for...

Don't contact her parents
That will really freak her out she'll call u bad names n stuff too probably..
Your heart is in the right place but its leading your mind to possibly hurt yourself over...

I'm not 100% sure if this question was directed at me specifically but I'll answer it as if it was. :)

Well maybe in person you're like ultra hot they are like omg this beautiful girl wants to be...

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The Brutal Truth - He lied to you, constantly and he doesn't truly care about how you feel.

Sorry to see you got tangled up in his promiscuity and lies and deception, the man is a dog, but, this...

Damn sounds like an awesome movie..

Sometimes in order to grow you have to.. . change things...
People change with time their outlooks expand horizons and points of view change, and if you really want her to be happy, you need to be...

OK rolling on with the brutal answer here...

Mm I think personally that guys should deliberately misinterpret 'need space' as 'it's over' and start to get on with life without the 'ex' as per se,...

Nah I never expect a second chance.
Nor do I give them :)

But interesting reading all the same...

Ahhh I wish someone had told me some of these things right at the beginning... I learnt most of this the hard way, so I really hope its somehow useful to you.

First and foremost do not fear...