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  1. You have it all wrong... I AM HIS WIFE... and he...

    You have it all wrong... I AM HIS WIFE... and he has never been married to another person. This was a fling... and I am not aking him to not be part of the child's life what so ever. I want him to...
  2. as he said, it was before he made his choice that...

    as he said, it was before he made his choice that I was the one he wanted to spend the rest of his life with, that when it happened we go in an argument in September and that is when he said screw it...
  3. We never had kids yet because we were to busy...

    We never had kids yet because we were to busy building for the future, financially and all. We love to travel and have been everywhere we love our activities from sky diving scuba diving skiing...
  4. Honestly, with the pain and hurt and everything...

    Honestly, with the pain and hurt and everything I have already gone through this is nothing new. This time around I did not loose it like I did when he left I was more shocked as I looked at him...
  5. After talking with my counslor she agreed with me...

    After talking with my counslor she agreed with me on drawing the line on there communication. She said that if she can't understand that and relate to what I am going through there will be issues...
  6. Its not like a dog at all, and your right it did...

    Its not like a dog at all, and your right it did not ask to be brought into this world and I did not ask for my husband to cheat and produce this child, ironically the child and I are in the same...
  7. This is how I feel and I have had days and...

    This is how I feel and I have had days and sleepless hours to ponder think write read and all. There is no reason to be part of her life,(as dr phil says) that is the best way to deal with the...
  8. I agree with you completely. There needs to be...

    I agree with you completely. There needs to be some firsts saved for you two. It is not going to make him a bad father. It is just stating yes this child is your first with her but I need to save...
  9. Finally someone who sees how I am feeling! I...

    Finally someone who sees how I am feeling!

    I too feel I can get through this even though it will be tough if he is there for me, like he has been in the past. Nobody is perfect we all make...
  10. Finally someone who sees how I am feeling! I...

    Finally someone who sees how I am feeling!

    I too feel I can get through this even though it will be tough if he is there for me, like he has been in the past. Nobody is perfect we all make...
  11. I get sick over the fact that there is a child...

    I get sick over the fact that there is a child now, as I write out a list of questions for him, one is can he be strong enough for us and stay faithfull this time... and if we were to have a child,...
  12. As for bounderies... meaning rules when it comes...

    As for bounderies... meaning rules when it comes to being around her, he is not to go to her house, the child gets dropped off at a mutual location, I must be there, all decisions become not just the...
  13. Trust is a hard thing forsure. He has said he...

    Trust is a hard thing forsure. He has said he understands that he has to earn that back he knows that if we stay together there is going to be a tough road ahead.

    And I am questioning myself if I...
  14. He made her take a pregnancy test in front of him...

    He made her take a pregnancy test in front of him so yes she is, we will have to do a test to make sure!

    Is there anyone out there that has stayed with there spouse and can give me some helpful...
  15. My husband just found out he will be having a child with another woman

    God I need some help here please. Here is my story...

    I have been with my husband for 16 years and married for 12. The last two years have been really tough on us, he left for 3 months and we...
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