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So there is this guy that I work with, and it seems that every time we get drunk around each other things tend to get really flirtatious to the point where last weekend we shared a drunken kiss and...

Thank you for your comment, Wondergirl. I think I am starting to realise now that BPD is not something that will ever go away, but rather something I need to learn to manage.
I have not been on...

I was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder in November 2008. I received almost 18 months of therapy for it, and have been out of therapy for around 6 months now. At the time I chose to...

Thanks everyone... You have all been a big help!

There is a guy that I can't stop thinking about. We have become friends through one of my best friends, however, the catch to the story is that she has been in an on-again and off-again relationship...

I am a 21 year old female. I would like to lose 7 kgs of weight that I have put on over the past two years. A friend of mine recently started a protein shake diet, where u have a low-carb protein...

My boyfriend and I broke up a few days ago. We were together for 2.5 years and also lived together during this time. Looking back I can see where our relationship went wrong and I have accepted that...

He is doing a bachelor of music majoring in piano and conducting.

For the past few months I have been noticing a few things changing in my boyfriends behaviour. We have been together for 2.5 years and also live together so I have a pretty good understanding of what...

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We have had many ups and downs throughout the relationship, including me working through a mental disorder. Things are finally going smooth for us...

I have been in therapy for 10 months now. I was going to treat my Borderline Personality Disorder. I attended sessions twice a week, every week. It has made a dramatic difference in my life, I am...

I am 20 years old, female and currenty weigh 76kgs. I want to lose 13kgs. I do very little exercise because I work fulltime and spend 8 hours a day standing on my feet. I am just wondering how many...

If he wanted to move on his life with you then he would put stop to the relationship with his ex. If he uses the excuse that he just can't kick her out because he was with her for ten years then he...

A singer is like an athlete who gradually trains their body until it reaches the peak of its operating ability. Like any other muscle in body, the vocal chords need to be warmed up with exercises...

Unless they are taught how to warm up I would suggest not to use the voice too much. They are just going to set themselves up for damage later on down the track. As for practising for an hour a day,...

I agree that everyone can sing, but not everyone is good. Definitely have some singing lessons (and get some advice from professionals while your there) and don't over use your voice, it is still...

I am 20, and yes I do have a boyfriend. Sorry I wasn't very clear. Definitely after female friends. I have been backstabbed by so many friends before and I am really petrified of making new ones...

Lately I have been feeling down that I have no girlfriends. It's not that I've never had any before, I just don't have any at the moment. All the ones I used to have have either stopped talking to me...

I finished high school in 2007 and I moved to start uni the following year in 2008. I studied for the year but then realised that the degree I was doing wasn't what I expected. So due to this and...

If it's in the past why does he still talk about the other girls that he has had sex with? It makes me feel like I have a lot to live up to, and the fact that he says these other girls were hot and...

I think just overlooking it would be ignoring my feelings about it though.

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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and we have always been quite open about our previous sexual relations but although I have never told him, it really really gets...

Aloe vera will not moisturise your skin. You need a proper hydrant and protectant for your skin. Find a good crème that is for oily skin and find a good pore minimizing serum. Try brands like Estee...

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My boyfriend and I have been living together for about a year now and lately it just seems like her is never at home in the evenings. He attends uni during the day and I work, but...

The time will come! Good things come to those who wait :) I didn't have my first kiss until I was 17!! Just have fun being you, and if your friends are getting you down about it just tell them that...

Of course it will be a difficult transition for you both, having a face to face relationship can be very full on. Perhaps he is just worried that things won't work out if there is such a huge shift...

I finished school in 2007 and I started university in 2008 studying music. I finished with good results, but I hated the institution I was studying at so I transferred to another university. Due to a...

It's not the quantity of friendships you have that should matter, but the quality. So what if your other mate is closer to these other people, as long they treat you well and with respect and you...

I went through a similar sort of thing. Are you in a relationship, or thinking about anyone in particular? I'm not a lesbian, but I found that after I was in a relationship with regular sex my...

How do you spot a troll?

So I haven't been on here in a while so I thought I would give an update to the situation.

Firstly, the money. Things are still a bit tight but I am currently starting to save my own money in my...

3 months is OK to start giving flea treatments to a pup. You should wash your pup in a flea treatment shampoo from the vet, and then follow with using a flea collar to prevent further infestations...

I'm scared of going to another psychologist because I have already been to so many. Sometimes I get the feeling that maybe it's just me causing the therapy to not work. I always go in with a positive...

About 6 months ago, I was told that I had borderline personality disorder. I am 19 and have had a very rough going throughout my whole life. I have no family connections and I am having difficulty in...

With the rent, it gets paid automatically out of his account. So I transfer the money to his account and then he transfers it to our landlord. I'm just worried that if anything were to ever happen,...

Thanks to everyone that replied... I appreciate all your thoughts and concerns.

I love my partner very much, and I believe that our biggest problem is communication with each other... but...

Since my last post about him not having a job, he has since gotten one and has started to pull his weight with paying for things. It was a hard issue, but we got through it with a lot of talking and...

He is friends with other guys, but he isn't as obsessed about hanging out with them and spending time with them as he is with girls... and he doesn't see a need to lie to me about spending time with...

I don't think that I am overcontrolling... I have never said that he can't be friends with other people or that he can't spend time or anything with other people... if he does I just think I have...

I think that's pretty close to what I'm feeling at the moment. I just want us to be open with each other, and if he wants to have friendships with other girls then I am all for it... I just want him...

I have shown him that I can trust him and I thought he was being honest with me, and then I find out that there is more that he is keeping from me. Am I wrong in feeling upset about that?

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My boyfriend and I have been having some major problems lately. In the past I have had some issues with being jealous of his friendships with other girls, because I thought that he...

Just because he is having a good time back home doesn't mean that he isn't missing you! You can't really expect him to put his life on hold and pine for you when he is not with you.. and I urge you...

There is never any excuse good enough for cheating on somebody. Its demoralizing and disrespectful. If you are fed up with him not showing you sexual attention, and you have tried like you said to...

I have been shoppping around to find a bank to get the best car loan I can, but they all keep telling me about their comparison rates and I still don't understand what this is and what it means to...

Thanks everyone for all the responses.

I have since sat him down and had a chat to him and I have told him that I am giving him a month to get a job, after which I am not going to pay another...

You don't know when your birthday is? :S

Thank you to everyone for replying.

I have had a think about things and I think that these feelings are definitely coming from feeling insecure. I have a full time job, and he is currently...

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I'm currently living with my boyfriend of 14 months and everything has been going well, but lately I feel like he owns everything and that if we were to break up I would have...

I think that you are going through a very very difficult time in your life and that perhaps you need to seek some professional help. A family counsellor or your doctor will be able to help you. You...