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I don't know where to start with this. I think when feeling in trouble it's common for most people. I reached a point in my life where I don't know where to go or do with myself. I am in a depression...

I think it all depends on what your calling is in life to whatever you think and feel is going to make your life look back as something you did to make you happy or make a difference. For some it's...

"He said that he cares a lot about me and that when one door closes the other opens." What did you say to that?

Wow! Thank you for sharing your time and thought with your story.

First thing I noticed that she is the first person you ever dated and maybe something you can take with you to learn how you...

Mom's group is an awesome idea that the others advise!

As for yourself. Have goals you can do to help you feel better about the things you're doing. Inspiring books, things you want to do with...

Communication is a huge MUST in marriages. These concerns are best to be talked with her.

Sounds to me it was unfinished business. Life has offered you the opportunity to finish it. A challenge to add this adversity to your life. Since it is early on before getting too caught up in it....

Kudos!

Thank you for your reply in clarifying. I hope things work out in your favor. In situations like this patience would be a great favor in your part. Part of the doubt would not be there if you simply...

You have all the other possible postings that guide you to what I mean. Even if you like her be the judge of how much effort it would take and if its worth to put yourself out there. Sometimes going...

Know how to be a friend to him.

I find it contradicting when you state "why not agree to be exclusive" then the following questions "Why do guys prolong this step? How can I bring it up with making it sound like the woman's being...

You stated that you don't want to be some guy that's just passing the time. It is what you want right? Simple don't act like it.

Exchange and clarify your wants and needs without getting your emotions involved {PERIOD)

When you go back to someone for your own selfish reasons you're allowing him to negate you without giving him the opportunity to respect you. Your behavior shows him that you didn't respect the...

Thank You for your reply. Another thing is I don't think I am even ready to love I feel that I'm setting my boundary up for just liking him and caring about him but love is a strong emotion and for...

Do we ever listen to the advice that is given? He's pretty adament at not being in anything committed because he won't be around enough to carry a healthy relationship which seems fair. I get...

Yea I had told him it's time for me to back off. That's thing though he said OK I just want you to be happy. So it's kind of like what? He's open to talking to me about how he feels and he's honest...

I agree with you Talaniman.. I asked him if eventually he would want to be with me. Then he says to just things play there course and enjoy the times we get to see each other. Then next day I told...

So I am back again.. I'm dating an awesome guy or we don't even call it dating. We both have confirmed of our hurt past and are easing our way to be comfortable with each other as friends. He doesn't...

I just walked away from a friendship that was basically toxic for me to handle. I was the last of the friends that have stuck around for this girl. She at the time was seeking professional help....

took 4 months to meet him about the time he thought of saying I love you at about 3 months he never got the chance to get in my pants I didn't feel something was right. He went back to his X. We...

I've encountered someone who talks about marriage and babies for the future with just knowing him in 3 months. My friend had an experience with something similar too. Why do men create this fantasy...

My friend has been dating her best friend for about a year or little over a year but had been best friends before they started dating. He told her everything then eventually they started seeing each...

so we met and I have to say it was a pretty amazing experience. He is however trying to make up for what he texted me... The way he explained to me was his doubts and how I may have not been real...

Sooo we're still going to meet. He didn't really have a good answer about talking to his ex other than she phrased the text message for him that he was getting back with her. I guess we'll see..

Did it seem any different when you transitioned from the web to in person?

He really came off genuine he had a myspace thathad a pic of me up basically had me in it saying he wanted to meet me and everything I guess he's THAT good huh?

We met off a site no chatroom we did vdeo chats texting and calling

Funny thing is we ONCE didn't even talk about sex just two hours before he said he was going back with his ex he said he didn't want to loose me and when I texted him back that I didn't want to...

Thanks everyone we were due to meet in a week but he just told me he is getting back with his ex. We were talking for about 3 months EVERYDAY just about a week ago things seemed different... ...

Anyone experience with meeting someone after talking to them for months? The aniticipation?

I'm from san diego. I went to somewhere in kensington it's on marlbourough street center for wellness I think it's called. The one therapist worked with what I can afford.

SO you don't feel alone...

The times that I remember right now makes me want to... if I EVER see you I'd FRIGGIN' run and jump on you like a crazy baracuda and pull your eyes OUT! Then beat the empty brains out of your skull. ...

I was in a really awful unhealthy relationship for about 3 years. It ended in May but it was on and off the last year well more like the whole time. I realize now I was completely delusional. Most...

Ahh I see or get the idea.. pretty much a game for who can be pulled for more from the other or something like that.

What is your perspective on "guys are just guys"?

Duh? My question is why they ask so soon? If there has anyone been in a situation like so or has been the person asking someone they hardly know move somewhere? WHY?

I met a couple guys at two consecutive periods but because of location I stopped talking to them. They both have asked me to move to where they are. Without even dating yet. What the heck? I'm...

For right now I'm just going to enjoy the conversations. I don't feel confused about how I feel if I just let the things we talk about just be. I'm kind of just going with the mind set of whatever...

Also, there's not much we can do right now. He has ties at where he lives and so do I. Eventually, we would like to take it further. There's not much we can right now the feelings are a little...

I have met an incredible guy but lives not where I live. I don't intend on taking things seriously now. We have so much in common and think the same way about relationships. We talk everyday the only...

put some value on yourself and don't rely on her to make them for you. You need to have a healthy self-esteem then those feelings will diminish. Working it out with yourself as if you're building a...

Sometimes... though she might've convinced herself that you won't change and maybe it's only temporary that she wants to see whatis out there. I say that with time if she truly loves you she wouldn't...

Reread this and listen to yourself and how you feel. U want him to be the boss of you? No daisy dew you're the boss of you! There's no one that can control the way you feel and protect yourself...

YEA I don't know about that one.. I think if she's dated already and knows what else is out there that could be better. Why wait around? Yeas you love her but I definatley believe in learing the...

YES! I'm having fun! He's got humor that gets me laughing!(it makes me WANT him) He's uncompariable to anyone that I have ever dated!

NO! You're not useless! I APPRECIATE what YOU or ANYONE says...

br_hjs I really don't know what it is, but it's out of my control on what happens.. I might just come back and post in a week for more advice.. =)

TRUST: yes I have my doubts at the same time I take risks to find out the hard way, I do listen to my gut if something doesn't feel right..

I have experienced that before where I talked about the...

Brakes are a little hard to use right now but I'm working on it! Yes you are so right about being responsible about my own happiness, if I wasn't thinking about that I think I would've gave in to...