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  1. I know the feeling very well. First the kissing...

    I know the feeling very well. First the kissing stops, then the effort, then everything else breaks down until we are the only ones who are trying. The only thing you cn do is talk about it, and if...
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    Text/call when you want to and feel its right. If...

    Text/call when you want to and feel its right. If she doesn't want to talk she will tell you. The whole point of a break is to relieve pressure so don't put that pressure back on by defining how many...
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    If its not your beliefs then don't change for...

    If its not your beliefs then don't change for anyone. Do not give up fighting it. If you do, your confidence goes down and she will be doing it for the rest of her life.
  4. It is entirely up to you. But be truthful with...

    It is entirely up to you. But be truthful with your boyfriend. Tell him your seeing him or talking to him if you are, but if your not sure about your emotions yet then don't tell him, it would...
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    Most men do watch porn, and of course he makes...

    Most men do watch porn, and of course he makes comments around the guys, he's with the lads. I don't think there is anything wrong with it and if it upsets you that he won't say the comments around...
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    No harm in trying. If she likes him she will just...

    No harm in trying. If she likes him she will just tell you, but you never know until you try.
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    Its entirely up to you. I don't think nc does...

    Its entirely up to you. I don't think nc does much good if I'm honest, I would say do what youwant when you want to do it.
  8. My suggestion is counselling. My mother had the...

    My suggestion is counselling. My mother had the same issues, and it is a very healthy way of dealing with your problems. Even better if he goes too to support you and understand how you feel. Your...
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    It's a trivial issue to ask or have to be asked...

    It's a trivial issue to ask or have to be asked to go somewhere. My ex never used to put the phone down or stop texting unless I asked her if she wanted to stop, but would then moan about me being...
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    Seems like she really likes you but is stopping...

    Seems like she really likes you but is stopping herself acting on it. 2 ways of going about this I think. Let her see other people and be there for her when it doesn't work out, but of course she may...
  11. Firstly, I'm fed up with people on here promoting...

    Firstly, I'm fed up with people on here promoting no contact so heavily. If you feel comfortable and want to call her, then do it! Secondly, if you think she needs attention and that's what you...
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    Decide how much you want this to work then call...

    Decide how much you want this to work then call her. She should not be using her support for you as a sword though. If you really want it to work then you can, but if this trip is important to you,...
  13. Question: What can he do?

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    I know what he is going through, I was a victim...

    I know what he is going through, I was a victim of domestic violence at a young age. He needs to leave the house, or get the dad to. It is the only way forward. It is difficult because he is family,...
  14. A lot of the time girls don't orgasm, that's just...

    A lot of the time girls don't orgasm, that's just the way it is but you shouldn fake it. It will be difficult to tell him that now, but that's why you shouldn't lie in the first place. The longer it...
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    Fact is, most young guys think this way. I'm 19...

    Fact is, most young guys think this way. I'm 19 and all of my frinds are siingle and have one night stands. I have only ever made love to one woman. If you throw it around, what is special about that...
  16. Question: My boyfrined

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    Just talk to him and see how he feels, it may...

    Just talk to him and see how he feels, it may just be that he wants to chillax a little bit because he has a bit of strees. Venting will help this. If he isn't much of a talker be romantic. Don't do...
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    If you like her, it doesn't matter straight away...

    If you like her, it doesn't matter straight away how she feels. Atm you too are too distant. Do something to sweep her off her feet. Go to her house after school before she gets back and have some...
  18. Tell him, it will hurt no matter what

    Tell him, it will hurt no matter what
  19. You have probably had too many fizzy drinks or...

    You have probably had too many fizzy drinks or caffiene or both. When you do the glands raise closing the airways increasingly. You also probably find that you get unbeearable pains under your...
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    Just leave her too it, maybe she just needs...

    Just leave her too it, maybe she just needs space. If she doesn't want another guy you have nothing to worry about, and she will realise how much she loves you. Feel free to text and ask how she is...
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    That isn't as clear as you could have made it,...

    That isn't as clear as you could have made it, but me and my ex had a similar problem. I got really angry with her. I don't care if she talks to him, so long as she says she is. If she lies then the...
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    There isn't much you can do other than call the...

    There isn't much you can do other than call the cops. Don't think about other people right now because you can't afford to. I have dealt with addicts before, and they will take everything, and I mean...
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    Hey, I know what your going through. I just split...

    Hey, I know what your going through. I just split up with my first girlfriend of 4 years cause of uni. It is really tough, and the best relationships fail here. I tried nc and it didn't work, I tried...
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    The best way to lose weight is to eat what you...

    The best way to lose weight is to eat what you want to eat. Work out how many calories you are eating now and cut tha down slowly. Most short term plans are really unhealthy and can permamnently...
  25. Question: Court proceedings

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    I don't know what your question is, but your not...

    I don't know what your question is, but your not likely to succeed. 90% of the time they run away without paying and can't be traced, or they offer a small some of money which is settled for since...
  26. The best way to write a speech is not to. If you...

    The best way to write a speech is not to. If you think of a great sentence or paragraph, write it down or just memorise it. Then go there and speak off the top of your head. It sounds better if you...
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    In relation to the business, they would have to...

    In relation to the business, they would have to go to court and ask your dad to appear. He should go and tell them he has no money (he will have to fill in an income form). If he cannot pay the debt...
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    They can't do anything against you. They could...

    They can't do anything against you. They could only take money from you if you signed a contract agreeing to be guarantor for that debt. If you have any issues with the bank, a threat for civil...
  29. Question: Criminal law

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    I don't know about usa but in england it is...

    I don't know about usa but in england it is always free to view personal information, but your best bet is to go to the police station and ask
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    Say you don't mind her talking to him if you...

    Say you don't mind her talking to him if you honestly don't, and just try and drop it into conversations about work. If she doesn't sa anything is happening trust her. If you tell her she is lying...
  31. I always think that if it was there you can bring...

    I always think that if it was there you can bring it back. Just treat her right from now on whether your together or not. If your frinds she can always fall for you again, but she won't like you keep...
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    Hey, just give him and yourself time. Don't talk...

    Hey, just give him and yourself time. Don't talk to him until you can talk to him as a friend. If he wants to be friends but you don't there is nothing much you can do. Just let yourself know you...
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    Yer, she needs her space. I will move on but I...

    Yer, she needs her space. I will move on but I think ill always hope things change
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    I get what you are saying. I do need to move on....

    I get what you are saying. I do need to move on. I know she won't mess people around she isn't like that, I know her very well even if she did lie a few times. Even when she was lying, I told her I...
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    Do I really need to delete her number though? In...

    Do I really need to delete her number though? In an extreme case I will call her, and I'm only keeping it for this purpose. If once I have accepted it I chose to get back in touvh I will need a phone...
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    It will never be my home page, I'm not checking...

    It will never be my home page, I'm not checking it that regularly. I'm just saying if I know it is there and I don't need to check it, then I know I don't need to know what's going on. I'm not...
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    Thanks. I think it s just made harder because I'm...

    Thanks. I think it s just made harder because I'm going through the stressful exam period
    (pass this exam which most people fail or you lose $20,000 and we will kick you off the course) it takes...
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    Not very long, it kills me every time I talk to...

    Not very long, it kills me every time I talk to her. I can't tell her I love her because I know I will get nothing back. The advice means a lot. Especially when you guys have more life experience...
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    Sorry I don't understand the last question. And I...

    Sorry I don't understand the last question. And I told her that if she started talking to him it would disrupt us but she continued saying she should be able t talk to whoever she likes. I agreed,...
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    She does not feel for him like that, or at least...

    She does not feel for him like that, or at least she says she doesn't, but yes, it is her choice. If she decides she just wants to be friends that is up to her then it is up to me to decide if that...
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    Thank you. I totally am. I keep checking websites...

    Thank you. I totally am. I keep checking websites she is on to see if they have had contact wit each other, its as though I want to track how she behaves towards him to see if I still have a shot or...
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    Does anybody have advice on the other issue,...

    Does anybody have advice on the other issue, aside from the guy? I mean does anybody think that she can stop loving me overnight, and is there any way of convincing her that making a go of it is the...
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    I'm not in denial, I do not know that she has...

    I'm not in denial, I do not know that she has done anything with him. She says she hasn't, and says she doesn't want to and isn't ready. She only lied to me about seeing him, and I didn't like that,...
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    She hasn't said that she has feelings for him for...

    She hasn't said that she has feelings for him for about 18 months, and she says she doesn't want him in that way. However, I don't know whether to trust her. As a best friend I want to believe her...
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    I agree, but I do expect a few lies, we are all...

    I agree, but I do expect a few lies, we are all human. She didn't tell me she loved him, she just says 'lve you' on the end of messages to him and says she misses him and stuff. It is meant in a...
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    I get where your coming from but I honestly...

    I get where your coming from but I honestly believe she wouldn't cheat. She is not that type of person, and I am a very good judge of character. I have told her I am willing to do whatever it takes,...
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    Knowing what she is like, I don't think she is...

    Knowing what she is like, I don't think she is and she promises me she isn't. She is a bit angry at the moment because he seems to think thy are together but they aren't. I have told her I want to NC...
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    My girlfriend stopped having feelings for me

    My girlfriend and I were together for 4 years, and were both very happy. She started talking to a guy at work, but stopped when she realised he only wanted her for sex. But in that time things...
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