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  1. Father in Law angry with my parents about spending

    I am in a tough spot and I need some advice, I don't know what to do at all.

    I got engaged in November, the wedding is in September.

    Everything was going great, I love his family, he loves my...
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    Which laptop should I buy?

    I need to buy a new laptop. I’m currently using a Dell Inspiron 600m that I have had for about 4 years. I’m starting to have a lot of problems with it (the power cord must be plugged into the power...
  3. If I remember correctly, I waited 6 months before...

    If I remember correctly, I waited 6 months before I changed my piercing.

    Also, if you take it out early, make sure you put a new piercing in the hole right away because it will heal itself quickly.
  4. I have scar tissue on my ear lobes and in the...

    I have scar tissue on my ear lobes and in the cartilage from getting my ears pierced and repierced and from having them pierced with a piercing gun.

    You should be fine getting them pierced, the...
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    I agree with everyone that said you should see...

    I agree with everyone that said you should see your OBGYN and discuss this.

    In addition, you mentioned that you were overweight, and I know that can be a factor in having conception difficulties....
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    In addition to what Scottgem said, I'm also...

    In addition to what Scottgem said, I'm also wondering if you are asking who has a legal right or who has a "moral" right to watch the baby.
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    Cat pees outside the box

    At the beginning of July, my cat started urinating outside the box. She will be three in September, and she is a Ragdoll that (yay lost the weight!) is 12 pounds, if that is relevant.

    The...
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    You absolutely need to go to see your vet. ...

    You absolutely need to go to see your vet.

    Your kitten needs to be tested for Feline HIV and Feline Leukemia. This is important so that your kitten can have a healthy future.

    Almost all...
  9. Question: A mans mind?

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    I would imagine it would be pretty much what goes...

    I would imagine it would be pretty much what goes through a woman's mind when they love someone...
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    In my experience, it is hard to decline a drink...

    In my experience, it is hard to decline a drink that has been bought for you.

    Generally, the way I'll handle it is to go and thank the person that bought it for me, talk to them for a few minutes,...
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    I had a boyfriend's mom hate me and it ended up...

    I had a boyfriend's mom hate me and it ended up killing our relationship. It wasn't my fault that she hated me, she had a problem with the fact that I wasn't the same religion as their family. She...
  12. Question: I want to write!

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    Try text based (like AIM chat) online...

    Try text based (like AIM chat) online roleplaying.

    Start up a story line with another person and take turns writing what your characters are doing. It can help you with character development and...
  13. Question: Family Law

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    I agree with excon. This is a personal choice...

    I agree with excon. This is a personal choice for you to make here.

    I also agree with him about continuing to call her your sister in law. Personally, I would. It isn't as though they got...
  14. Dad's surgery coming, parents fighting a lot

    On Thursday my father is going for surgery. He has prostate cancer and is having his prostate removed. Ever since we found out about my dad having cancer this past winter things in my family have...
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    That is funny that you should ask that... He...

    That is funny that you should ask that...

    He is great at imitating voices. Granted, most of the ones he does are from South Park (he does the best Cartman I've ever seen, and his Mr. Hankey is...
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    I think that since we've started dating he's...

    I think that since we've started dating he's become more comfortable around me and maybe has let me see more of his bad habits.

    Also, we met in college. While I was away at law school I didn't...
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    I agree with LadyB. You're going to need to see...

    I agree with LadyB. You're going to need to see a family law attorney. I really doubt that adoption is a possibility at all for you, but you might be able to work out a change in his visitation. ...
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    Yeah, that would be the only option I'd think she...

    Yeah, that would be the only option I'd think she would have available to her here.

    I don't know what type of agreement they have, it might be "open and liberal" or something to that effect. ...
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    Haha. I think it probably bothers other people,...

    Haha. I think it probably bothers other people, too. I have to believe it bothers my parents, after all they did raise me to have good table manners and speak with an "inside" voice. They're...
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    The reason that family law attorneys are turning...

    The reason that family law attorneys are turning her down might be because they have enough information to know this is a losing case in terms of the step parent adoption.

    I'm a family law...
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    I'm happy to see someone that feels the way I do...

    I'm happy to see someone that feels the way I do on this issue. When I posted in a thread previously giving my opinion I got attacked with "boys will be boys" and "you are insecure" and things of...
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    I was 19 and a half when I first started...

    I was 19 and a half when I first started drinking. I had finished my sophomore year of college. Pretty late.
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    If he doesn't consent to relinquishing his...

    If he doesn't consent to relinquishing his rights, the burden will be on you to prove his rights should be terminated. That can be very difficult to prove.

    Everything I am telling you is from New...
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    Yeah, he *was* a frat boy, but that was years...

    Yeah, he *was* a frat boy, but that was years ago. I'm starting to think that when guys live together in big groups they sometimes start reverting into really bad, gross, yucky habits. A guy I...
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    That is something I hadn't thought of! It...

    That is something I hadn't thought of!

    It makes a lot of sense, and is definitely possible. I'm actually going to ask him to look into this.

    It's kind of like, if the cat pees on the floor...
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    Yeah, I finally said something again about the...

    Yeah, I finally said something again about the chewing and talking with his mouth open thing. He seemed receptive, didn't get upset at least. I mentioned this problem to my dad yesteday, and he...
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    About a year, though we've known each other for...

    About a year, though we've known each other for about 7.

    Funny you should suggest that, because I basically did that on one of the issues this weekend.

    We were at a BBQ with his family. Well,...
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    Book on Prevailing Wages?

    Does anyone know of a published book that lists the prevailing wages for different careers (both private and public)?

    Possibly something from the Department of Labor or some other "famous" or...
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    It is relieving to hear I am not alone in this! ...

    It is relieving to hear I am not alone in this!

    What you are saying about your relationship is what scares me, if this stuff is bothering me now, how will I stand it in 5 years? Yikes.

    I do...
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    That is a good idea, putting her food in...

    That is a good idea, putting her food in different places so she has to exercise. When I move I will try that (I can't do that where I live right now). Though, she does run around quite a bit at...
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    Can a person change their laugh?

    I feel so bad posting this or even asking about this. I know I am such a jerk for asking it, you don't have to tell me. It has been on my mind for so long though, and I feel too bad to say anything...
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    Hahaha. My cat does the same thing! I call...

    Hahaha. My cat does the same thing!

    I call her my little vaccuum sometimes. If she sees a speck of ANYTHING she has to know what it tastes like. I've seen her open her eyes from a dead sleep...
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    Workloads and Hours

    As I have said before, I am a first year attorney.

    “Technically” we are scheduled to work 9-5 with an hour for lunch. Those hours are sort of just the times that you *must* be working, if that...
  34. Question: Is she pregnant

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    It is very unlikely that she is pregnant. That...

    It is very unlikely that she is pregnant. That wasn't a particularly fertile time for her in her cycle, and she has already had a period since then. It sounds like she isn't having any symptoms of...
  35. Question: New kitten

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    I was going to give bushg more rep. for this...

    I was going to give bushg more rep. for this answer, but I have to spread around the love a little more before it'll let me, so I'll quote instead.

    Two very good points! Getting neutered is...
  36. Question: New kitten

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    Unless you are buying a cat with papers and...

    Unless you are buying a cat with papers and starting a responsible breeding program, you should very seriously consider getting your cat fixed.

    For one thing, fixed cats are more sociable. It's...
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    I have only ever watched like, maybe 3, episodes...

    I have only ever watched like, maybe 3, episodes of Dr. Phil in my life, and one happened to be about this type of problem.

    The scary thing is that the details you have provided are much more...
  38. Question: Drug addiction

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    I agree with the advice already given, you need...

    I agree with the advice already given, you need to tackle an addiction head on. I wanted to add a few ideas of my own that I know can help things along for some people.

    When you have an...
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    Aw, I watched that show! "Zoobilee Zoo,...

    Aw, I watched that show!

    "Zoobilee Zoo, Zoobilee Zoo, magic and wonder are waiting for you!"

    Though, I'm pretty sure the pink girl was a kangaroo and not a cat. She was my favorite :-)
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    Yeah, ScottGem, if this isn't dealing with...

    Yeah, ScottGem, if this isn't dealing with anything related to an adoption she shouldn't be able to terminate his parental rights, it is against public policy. You are right about that, and even if...
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    Hey, I'm a family law attorney in NJ. I just...

    Hey, I'm a family law attorney in NJ.

    I just happen to be working on a stepparent adoption right now and have some paperwork in front of me, so I thought, well why not let you know what I just...
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    Moodiness after work

    Hey, this is my first question here, I've answered but never asked. I was just sitting here thinking about something and I thought maybe I could throw it at you guys.

    I'm a first year attorney. ...
  43. Question: Strip clubs

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    When I was replying, I was speaking to those that...

    When I was replying, I was speaking to those that were calling me "insecure" for my opinion. I agree with you, that insecurity will destroy a relationship. That is completely true, and it happens...
  44. Question: Strip clubs

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    I think it's offensive that you guys assume that...

    I think it's offensive that you guys assume that the reason I have a problem with a guy going to strip club is because I am insecure.

    I'm not insecure in the least. I'm attractive and I graduated...
  45. Question: Strip clubs

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    I think the prior posters were all men. Lol. I...

    I think the prior posters were all men. Lol. I completely disagree with them.

    I'm really anti-strip clubs. I find them to be degrading and insulting to all women, and really offensive. I'm not...
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    I loved the Little Nemo video game! It was one...

    I loved the Little Nemo video game! It was one of my favorites!

    Just thought I'd share, lol.
  47. I have to be honest, it's what you want, right? ...

    I have to be honest, it's what you want, right?

    I wouldn't tell. Granted, I probably wouldn't even do it in the first place, but if I did I wouldn't tell.

    I'm a pretty honest person, which is...
  48. Definitely talk to Julie. She can tell you what...

    Definitely talk to Julie. She can tell you what happened, and if it was even a big deal or not.

    Don't beat anyone up, it'll only lead to more problems and you might be doing it for no reason.
    ...
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    :-( Reading your question just made me so sad....

    :-(

    Reading your question just made me so sad. I'm so sorry you feel like that.

    I hate so much that we live in a world where we make people feel that way about themselves. It makes me so...
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    No, you don't need to throw away your pictures. ...

    No, you don't need to throw away your pictures.

    Those are YOUR memories of YOUR life. You are absolutely entitled to them. The fair solution? Put them away in a box someplace where he never has...
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