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She didn't break up with me because of me accusing her of cheating. She said the fighting was too much, and had no time for anyone but herself (BS). I found the cheating info. Out later after we...

Because if I knew she didn't cheat, before I got most of this info. We said we would be on good terms, see each other again when possible, and who knows what from there. She thinks we will be...

talaniman, we are broken up, not talking. Just curious because I felt this may have been one sign that she was cheating, as well as a number of others. Even though I am not absolutely sure she...

I think that is a good quality, you like myself, has to try and work things out rather than act on impulse, run away from problems, etc. I am pretty sure I was cheated on in my last relationship and...

Us fighting is was just her excuse to not have desire to have sex as much because she was doing it with someone else or the fighting really did affect her? I think both may be possible, but now that...

Old girl used to blame us not having sex as much as we used to, multiple times a day, on us fighting all the time in a long distance relationship. Legit or just what I suspected, she is getting hers...

Obviously I don't want to have to look at my ex as one that cheated on me behind my back for awhile now, regardless of how many times it was. I cannot respect her for doing that. If there was a...

Tru. I just have a tough time not knowing for sure if anything happened and who to believe. We were only discussing talking on good terms and seeing each other if OK to do and possible. If its not...

I've posted on here many times before about this relationship. Long distance about 3.5 years. Last spring I told her I wasn't moving up where she was because of school which we expected to happen...

I've said a number of times I still love her, you don't just stop loving one that quick. Being back with her I probably would but it would take a lot of talking and its not happening anyway

I should add that it is pretty pathetic that I wait to hear from a girl to see if its OK to come; however, I need to find out to change plans if needed. Im sure most of you disagree with what I'm...

After 3.5 years, I feel like a break up not on bad terms right now, shouldn't make things weird and awkward just because the title is not there. Unless her feelings for me are gone, then I don't...

I don see a reason starbucks why I should be coming to her rescue when she dumped me? I'm sorry if you don't know the whole story but she wanted the breakup, doesn't what to get back, etc. Ive been...

I finally responded to her online last night after she asked me to please stop ignoring and wanted to know if I was still coming. I answered her because I was concerned about my plans going up there....

Meaning I will just be back to square one after I leave?

I am going up because we will have a good time, plus all my friends who I grew up with are all there too. Im strictly going to have fun, nothing more and I told her if you think it is going to be...

I've posted on here a number of times about my situation. Just want to know what you all think realistically. I have been going NC for almost a week. Only have received one text from her and a few...

So what are you saying, I should be there to talk when she contacts me, basically like being on call whenever she feels like contacting me, pretty much when she is bored?

What do you think when the ex tells you she understands this is hard on me and will understand if I don't want to talk to her? Does it mean she could care less to talk to me? If so, why has she been...

There probably isn't, but you will go through ups and downs where you almost convince yourself that you are being out of line going no contact. When you do... immediately come to the board.

Unless...

My ex told me the same thing,"I need time right now for myself and want to be alone" She even has the nerve to tell me that when I'm supposed to be up there staying with her in a couple weeks, she...

Make yourself priority. Let her go and if she comes back, its meant to be. She may take the no contact as being mean or whatever, but you need to do it for yourself. If you feel you need to, maybe...

Its tough to keep to the NC if you have any slight bit of hoping to be with her or that shell come around and want to be with you at least. I still hope everyday to hear she wants to get back...

I feel you buddy, seems like a big game and probably is. Everyone on here mentions the power that the girl has over you if she dumps you and you continue to be there waiting to here from her, hoping...

That quote from gardner is dead on. I've been dealing with a breakup for the last couple weeks and have tried NC a number of times and failed. I get mad/upset when I don't hear from her, and then...

I am confused. I want to go nc. And yes, I do hope she wants to get back, but my #1 priority right now is to try and get happy again, and if it means NC then I got to do it. I do want to see her in...

I have tried going nc the last couple days because she wants time. She'll send me a text Every now and then just to see how my tests are going. Should I just keep nc? I'm supposed to be staying wit...

I have found myself constantly going on aim to see if she is on too. I never call or initiate text anymore. I told her I didn't know how to handle this the best way, but I went NC for a few days and...

I went with NC for about 5 days after she broke up with me because she needed time. Then she started asking why I was ignoring her, playing games, etc. we texted back and forth a bunch the other...

I think I'm going to just try and play it cool, talk if she contacts me if I'm available or feel like talking, maybe contact her occasionally, but I'm going to keep giving her time because otherwise...

Talked to her and now I'm completely confused again. Seems that the hope of being together again is reemerging on my part, which takes me back to where I was a few days ago. I told her I could not...

I should need to influence her to get her back after 3.5 years. I told her when she knows what she wants or doesn't need anymore time, let me know. Now she's asking why I am ignoring her. I thought I...

She sent a few texts today, telling me how she is getting out of work early and asking about my finals... still not what I'm looking to hear so I've continued to ignore her. Good idea or no?

Thanks, that was a great post. The only edge I think she has right now is that she knows I plan to come up to where she is in a month, as long as she isn't involved with anyone else. More or less I...

How many people get back with a person that breaks up with them? Of course it depends on what happened for the breakup and how long its been and all. But do most people just move on after getting...

I'm having a hard time justifying not responding back at all because it hasn't even been a week since she said she needed time. Yesterday she began trying to contact me, mainly aim, and then once by...

She called, iming me again too. I haven't responded. What could she possibly want? And want will tell me if she wants to get back? I feel like I'm just playing a game with her

You're right, just having a tough time because I keep thinking to myself what if she realizes she messed up? Honestly, because it has been more than a few days, Im not ruling out that I would get...

When would I ever know if it was right to respond back?

She imed me about 10 times today. Starting small talk, but I didn't respond. She said she kneew I was there, this and that. Later on she imed me to say that he passed her cpa this and that. She then...

She texted me today saying she sent me a check for booking the flight and was bored at work, but I didn't respond. She also imed me, why I was ignoring her, said I wasn't, and then she tried seeing...

How does someone find it in themselves to not communicate with you after 3 and a half years? Its killing me, but I can't initiate contact. I wonder if its bothering her or if its been easy just to...

Everything was cool with the relationship from what she says, its just the distance. (I don't know if I believe what she says or not) but anyway, I didn't try to argue with her or yell or anything....

What comes around goes around. I've been dumped, ignored, had talked about me, cheated on, and it hurts. Then a couple months later, she will call/email/text/message you begging to get you back....

I feel your pain man. I was in the 3.5 year long distance relationship, saw her last weekend, and now she needs time. It just doesn't make sense, just like your situation, but we both have no...

Its driving me nuts. She doesn't want to cut ties, doesn't want to just be friends. It would be great if she realized by the time I was there that she wanted to be wit me, because otherwise, I'm...

That's all there. Its just she doesn't know if she can do another 2 years of distance after we already did 3.5. I'm just finding it tough to get how someone could give up

What kind of signs? She broke the silence, said she loves me and just needs her time, and really glad I decided to come see her. I don't know what kind of signs she could give. She kept saying its...

As bad as it sounds, something in me just doesn't want to cut it off completely and thinks there is something. But I know trying to get her back is a bad idea, just one of those things that pops in...

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