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Yeah I agree with both of you guys, I don't know why I'm even dwelling on it and letting it bother me. It just is and it sucks that I am letting it.

So things have been going very well with the NC. Last night though a lot of friends and I went out to a lot of bars, well I knew I would run into the ex I wasn't to worried a little but I kept my...

Oh yeah for sure, I have no intention of really talking to her again I don't want to give her the time, she really I don't think she deserves it. But yeah that is a good idea that you said to do, I...

Question for all you out there, did any of you get like so mad at your ex where you kind of wanted to see them and tell them how you felt? Like telling them how pissed you are almost wanting to yell...

Well I am feeling tons better, one thing is I'm still upset at her/ mad but whatever really. I'm feeling pretty good though, still working out everyday. NC has been hmmm like maybe 3 weeks now, I...

I guess another hard thing today is, well I don't want to speak with the ex anymore or anything but it is a little disappointing when you check your email everyday and there is no sign of her. And...

Hey really thanks for the support ducky it means a lot to me, I know I need to stay positive and I'm trying the best I can. I know just taking a little break away from the situation helps too. I...

Not to be blunt but maybe he was just thinking of this as a fun night for him to just mess around with someone. Or if you want to call it a one night stand.

Also I would recommend the movie forgetting sarah marshall, sounds stupid but it really helps a lot. I mean yeah it's a movie and its not all true, but ut makes you feel like there is hope.

I guess what helped me so far is, I have taken her off that pedestal that I had my ex on. Try thinkiing maybe of all the memory's you guys have had and start thinking of some of that bad things she...

Man this sucks, I really feel like a mess right now. I mean I try to be as positive as possible with things right now in my life, but it is so hard right now. I mean lets see I have the person I...

You can't really, you need to move on like he has? Who broke up with who in this one?

Well a little update of what's going on, I feel 100% better then I have in the pat 2 weeks. I feel as I'm not thinking of her as much, still some but not as much. One thing I do catch myself doing...

Yeah totally go NC man, do not even try to stay friends with her right now at all. Because in the end you will just get hurt knowing she has moved on and found someone else. Because it has happened...

Hey maybe do something like that, leaving a note and not telling who it is from. At least it might get him asking questions. If you did do something like that though, I would maybe put some detail...

I guess it all comes down to, would you want your good friend to tell you if your husband was cheating? How would you feel if no one told you, put yourself in his shoes for this one and I think the...

So remind me to never go out and get drinks again while I'm down. I swear I feel so down right now and I know it all has to do with me going and drinking. I don't have any urge to contact the ex but...

Haha man I'm wondering if she just dates people to scam them, and pawn the rings she gets. Wonder how much she has made so far?

Oh man that would be really tough, that's a lot of wasted money.

Yeah I'm dropping it off at her friends house on Friday, I just want it to be the end of it and over.

Too much for her, not I though

Haha oh wow, yeah my ex started to get mad when we were having it 5 or 6 times a week

Man I miss that, I hope when I get together with another girl she has a sex drive like yours.

Yeah, so I left her best "girlfriend" a email telling her what's up and how I feel about wanting to get her bike back to her. I left it on myspace and on there it tells you if they have read it or...

See you kind of did it there being negative, don't think that every relationship is going to be messed up go into it being positive, that is the best thing that has ever happened to you. If you go...

You only get what you put out into the world, if you think positive and do positive things, positive things will happen. If you always think that something bad is going to happen then well bad...

So I just remembered today that my ex left her bike at my house and I know she is going to want it. Could someone give me some advise on the best way to go about this is, like getting it back to her...

This is a little old man

I mean just trust him if he said he didn't, then maybe he didn't. If he's going to cheat he will cheat. There really isn't anything you can do to find out, all you going to do if you keep nagging...

Well sounds to me like she's just lying to you trying to make you leave him.

She emailed me today and here is one of the things she said

I'll never forget about you or think poorly of you. I wish you the best in life and hope that you can get past me quickly and move...

SAB132 thanks for the reply, one question for you though. Did she every try getting a hold of you again or anything or did she totally forget about you? I do know that if the ex tries calling that I...

Well see honestly me well ha he probably went through a lot oh heartache after you tore his heart out. I'm going through it right now and it sucks so much, after a while he moved on and realized to...

Honestly man just stop and chill a sec, leave her alone. All you are going to do is push her away more and more every time you do this. Just leave it and move on. If she really wants you she will...

Yeah I was going to say my ex was a freak in bed, she wanted it just as much as I did.

Can I ask you as to why you guys broke it off? It would give me a better reason as to why he doesn't want to be with you.

Well today has been a very up and down day today, I've cried a lot today and also have been happy. Right now though well actually about 30 min ago I think I have finally accepted that this thing is...

Maybe you guys should sit down and talk about this, you will get a better answer if you ask her. Just be honest with her and find out what's up.

What I would do is go NC and let him do his thing, then maybe after a while he will start to miss you and maybe feel in his heart you are the one. Really though let him deal with everything that is...

He's just giving you false hope don't listen to that crap, go into this as thinking it is totally over and that you two will never be together and move on, go NC. If later in the future he would...

Really end it now go NC, the longer you keep it going the harder it will be to end it. Right now it feels like to me that I have lost a friend that died. That is how hard it is right now, do...

Well you need to stop seeing him everyday and just end it, it will just lead to heartache trust me.

Of course its hard but you have to do it to protect yourself, don't let yourself get hurt you might be already but don't let yourself keep getting hurt. You will find someone that loves you and...

Leave him go NC and end it all I'm going through the same heartache right now and its driving me buts, you should never put yourself through that. Don't make yourself a option in someone's life I...

Well I wrote a letter that I wish I could send to my ex but I know I shouldn't, here it is though for you guys to look at what do you think?

Well steph, looks like this is the end of the road for...

Well feeling kind of down and lonely right now so I'm thinking of going to see taken, anyone see that yet, is it any good? Lol I love going to shows by myself.. kind of sucks but at least you don't...

Well it was yesterday morning when I said I would do it again and this time for good. So yeah

Well I haven't called her back, actually I started to feel better later that night just reassured myself how much of a jerk she is, and how bad of a friend. I feel good right now so I'm good. ...

Yeah but the one friend that I do have is in Florida with his GF. I kind of lost contact with all my other friends when I was with her. So yeah it kind of sucks.

Man this sucks I'm feeling down right now, I'm trying to get my mind off her but I can't seem to focus on anything right now. It is just bringing me down in the dumps. And its making me want to call...