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And you should have hope... when I first was looking for answers I turned here. Everyone also told me to give her space, but they didn't really give me any hope other than my life will eventually get...

Hi, I recently went through a rough patch with my girlfriend a few months back. She was very indecisive about if she wanted to continue with our relationship. Long story short, she needed time to...

Yes your cat can has cheesburger time!! Ahhahahha

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Damn good advice. Her mom and I talked about doing this... I can definitely write it, I just suck at speaking in public. I feel more than comfortable letting everyone know just how I feel about her,...

27 she's 26...


No I'm not 16 ha ha!

First some background. We have the blessing of family and friends already. We are religious. I have a beautiful ring made up for her. She has a very friendly outgoing personallity. I am not shy but...

Yeah I'm seriously starting to think this. I am doing it to make her jealous of me. I am doing it to make her want me back. I am such a sappy little bit ch...

I keep making excuses for why she...

OK so me and my girl have been together for like 5 months. I'm 27 she's 26...

We were very hot and heavy at first. Told each other we loved one another about 1 month and have had some really...

Yes I think that at the least a phone call would suffice. She will no doubt be glad to hear that you were thinking about her. Flowers may be a bit too much, I say though the flowers are not going to...

What do you expect when you do nothing but tell people their advice sucks.

Oh and seriously man, your worst enemies? W t f? This is only a message board man. If you don't like it don't read it...

Seriously man, get over it. Maybe you should get out and find a new girl. You seem really pissed. Got sand in your panties today?

Well POSTER... I would like to add that you shouldn't listen to...

Oh and I wanted to say, if you don't send them someone else eventually will... dont miss your chance to welcome her back with love!

Send them. Everyone here says NC NC NC... blah blah blah...

Well if I had gone with NC I wouldn't have just received a text from my girl telling me how much she loves me! I didn't beg or anything...

Thanks so much everyone. Well I talked to her all day and I pretty much understand that she wrote that to her ex girlfriend because she was so mad at me from the split. Her ex girlfriend consoled her...

So, we have talked she is very sorry and appologetic, I think things might work out!

I already know she was bi. She had a girlfreind before me I knew that. I am more upset that she hasn't told me first that she was gay and that's why she wants to split up. She shouldn't have made it...

Hahaha yeah man I seriously have the upper hand right now. I am just going to tell her that I found out something and am very hurt by it. Let her wonder what it is. When I do tell her what I know I...

Hi thanks for the reply but read my other question I just posted new developments.

OK before you get the wrong idea, I am not a creep that checks my girls messages. I wrote her a very heated message yesterday and woke up today and felt bad about writing it. So we use the same comp...

No it doesn't jump at all... it doesn't feel like it is the cluch as there is no slippage whatsoever. It does seem like it happens in 2nd too... not nessecarily that it doesn't engage it takes a...

She does still love me I can see it in her eyes. And her actions say she loves me too. I think she just likes the control aspect of all of this. I think she likes knowing that she has control of what...

You know what you are totally right. I should give her some perspective by telling her that I want a girlfriend. I want it to be her, but if she just wants to be friends that is fine, we will be just...

I have a 95 wrangler. I am having trouble engaging first and reverse on a manual. You really have to shake the shifter to get it in gear. It only happens on 1st and R, is this a problem with my...

Yeah it sounds kind of like what I'm going through with all of the senseless arguing. Let me guess when you guys are together alone its great. But when you are out that's when you are fighting. I...

OK well I guess we are not split. When we hung out it was like we were friends, obviously until we got some time alone. She never really said split. I took it as that because we didn't talk for like...

Well the fact that she says we are just friends. She doesn't want to commit to being my girlfriend for some reason. I understand that it is probably a self respect thing for her. She doesn't want to...

OK well me and my girl have been split for a full week now. But it gets weird. On Saturday was the first talk that we had. We had lucnh and were able to be civil enough to talk a little. Pretty much...

OK well you can read my previous posts if you want the full story, but the short of it all goes like this. My girl of a 4 months and I had split/ take a break for the past week. I did an awful lot of...

Not to be rude but I can't understand what you are getting at exactly...

But I think you have a problem with your significant other talking about their ex?

If so then I say ask them if they...

Hello,

I have read about a condition called delayed ejaculation syndrome I think it was called. For about the past 3-4 years I have had this problem. If you know what premature ejaculation is,...

I hate to say but it sounds as if you are trying to win him back. It won't work. It seems that he just really wants to be friends. You should keep it on a friendly level or you may lose what...

She just text me with "that talk that we had tonight might have saved your as*.....give me a few weeks....dont call me...goddnight"

It looks as if me admitting to her that she hasn't done anything...

Thanks J-9...

I really do need to be more independent. After all that's what attracted her to me in the first place. I have my own house, a nice car, I liked to go out and party... I had really...

I agree thank you.

I talked to her on the phone just a few minutes ago, and she says that she feels smothered. She feels like she lost her identity.

I admitted to her that I was not letting her...

Hi,

I have a problem that almost killed my relationship, though she doesn't know this yet. I am very insecure with her. She is vey pretty, flirtatious, outgoing, independent, everything I fell in...

Yes I hopefully can talk her into going to couples counciling. When and if she ever wants to date me again.

Well see my girl wouldn't be upset about me saying if she would like to go home because...

True... I have already committed myself to not drinking around her...

A glass of wine with dinner is OK, but getting drunk around her... nope I isn't doing that anymore...

At the least she...

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Yes I do have a drinking problem, I drink too much in a short period. She drinks often too, it is how we met, it is the scene that we live in.

I understand it is not a good...

Thanks james for the insight.

You are correct... I do want to yell at her sometimes when we are sober.

You have to understand, she comes from a tough past as far as relationships go. She has...

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Some background first. I am 27 she is 26. Me and her met about 2-3 yrs ago through a friend. We hit it off right away but never really got a chance to meet again until...