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She was giving me kisses on the cheek all night and was basically hinting at wanting to be kissed. The other night she also said that she really wanted to kiss me. So I just went for it. That's the...

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I've posted about my situation before, and tonight we got even closer. We were holding hands and I ended up going in for the kiss. She didn't seem to mind and went with it. Then she told me that she...

I'm really good friends with my ex. She broke up with me, but we got back in contact about a month and a half after it happened. I was fully healed and we're closer than ever.

Lately though, she's...

I'm pretty sure she knows I'm just messing around because she was taking shots at me too. It's just how I am when I get comfortable around people. She knows that she can come to me with anything and...

There's this girl I've been friends with for about a year now. Lately I've been getting more comfortable with her because we've been hanging out a lot more. I can basically say anything to her and...

I posted about the myspace breakup and how she came back to me and wanted to be friends. She came on really close last week and called me two or three times a day and we met up a couple times. It...

She responded to the e-mail a couple hours ago. She basically said that she was happy I don't hate her and basically went into how her dad was probably going to die. Then she told me what she was...

Thanks for all the tips. I took out what you said and just sent it.

Now all I have to do is make the call. I honestly don't feel like doing it tonight because I feel like crap, but I will tomorrow.

This is the e-mail I'm about to send:

"(her name),

I saw your message on Myspace late last night and I wasn't really sure how to respond. I wasn't ignoring it or anything. I've been thinking...

She just sent another e-mail...

"I wasn't sure if you got my last e-mail...but ...if you would be okay with it...I could really use a friend right now...I know you hate me ...but I didn't mean...

Yeah, I might just bring it up but not make it the center of the conversation. I want to help her out and see what's going on but she needs to know how bad she made me feel.

Thanks a lot for the...

So I shouldn't bring up how much she hurt me then? Just be distant about that?

Definitely. The relationship the second time went the Same way. We were great for about a month and then she started getting distant. Then she dropped the bombshell on me. I'm not stupid enough to...

I guess it is kind of that way. Of course I still care for her, but it would be in my head at all times if I don't call her. I need to say something to feel right. So yeah, I guess it is more for me...

I understand where you're coming from. I just need to say something to her to make myself feel okay... you know? It'll eat at my conscience.

But about not seeing her in person, we actually go to...

The thing is, her father has been alcoholic his entire life and this situation always arose when I did talk to her as a friend and a boyfriend. I'm not sure if she's just using it as an excuse to...

This is a follow up on this situation:

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She basically broke up with my through myspace and didn't answer the phone....

I would never date her again... not after all this BS and two breakups. No chance in hell. I don't care how much she changes, it just won't happen. But I would like to be friends with her still. I...

Initially I just wanted a friendship because she was really my best friend. All I really want at this point are words of validation. I was left in the dark and hearing this made me feel even worse. I...

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That was probably the most messed up break up I've ever gone through. She never called and...

She sent this back today:

**edited out message for my privacy**

Lol whatever... she's just avoiding what I really want to hear.

All my buddies are telling me to respond with crap like:
...

Mckenzie said it perfectly. I speak from experience that you should not be a best friend to a girl before you date her. NEVER be the nice guy that she can spill everything to and you do everything...

I can't recall the message but I kind of want to now when I think about it. It was mostly just a knee jerk reaction on my part. Damn, I wish I could take it back.

Yeah... but I'm probably going to bump into her everyday. We have classes in the same building at the same time. I guess I'll just be civil and say hi but it's going to be tough.

Don't worry... I'm done.

*edited out my message because I don't want her to find it in the future*

I just needed to get it off my chest. But I promise, that's the last one.

I sent her another message... I'm sorry but I just had to do it. Basically saying that she's hurting me and making me feel like **** and I don't know why.

Then I saw her on campus with her aunt...

It's just such a weird turnaround. I've known her for almost a year now and she was probably my best friend in that time. This past week, she's changed so much. I've never seen her act this way...

My parents are telling me to respond back and ask what's going on. Part of me wants to. But I don't know.

I sent her a message back because I felt I had to. I basically told her I felt the same way and wouldn't mind being friends, but I was pissed that she didn't call. Then she removed me from her...

She just sent me a message on myspace basically saying that I'm the sweetest guy in the world but we just aren't going to work out. That she'd like to remain friends and we are better off as friends....

Her mom called me today and left me a message saying that she'd just drive her to school tomorrow and she wanted to let me know. I called back about 5 minutes later and no one was picking up. This is...

I don't think so either. If she really was still together with me, then why wouldn't she call me? I'd think she would find it kind of odd that I hadn't called her for the past two days and would want...

Somebody on another forum I post at said this:



I don't really agree... but I guess it could be possible. I haven't called her yet.

I just want to call to find out what happened... but on the other hand, I really don't even want to know. I'm more upset today than I was last night. I think if I did get ahold of her I'd just start...

I know not everyone thinks the same, but a mature person would do what I would.

Hopefully it works itself out. I hate being in feuds with people. I'm just not the kind of person to deal with them...

You're right. I'll just give it some time and call her back tomorrow if she doesn't. I have a feeling she won't so it'll probably be me. If she doesn't answer tomorrow, then I guess I'll just move on...

I've just got people telling me to call and others not to. My parents are saying I should call and find out what's wrong. I did only call once and there's no guarantee she got my call... but I don't...

The thing is, I don't want to end our friendship over this. Before our relationship, we were GREAT friends. We talked about everything. We hung out all the time. It's just when we talked to each...

I didn't leave a message or anything but she has caller ID so she knows I called. I guess she can call me if she really wants to. I'm almost at a loss of what I'd even say to her.

But last night I...

But don't you think I should call and ask her what's the deal with her myspace page? I mean, I knew it was heading in that direction, but I'd like to talk to her about it and see what's up.

She's not answering her phone... great. I'm glad she's acting so mature about this.

You know... we had A LOT more fun just being friends. That's all I really want at this time anyway. I'll call her and basically say "Hey...I need to talk and I think you saw this coming...but it's...

I'm almost tempted to call her and tell her that I don't think it's going to work out and we should just be friends again. That we're both going to be too busy to have a relationship. I don't want to...

2 weeks in with my ex and she wants to break up again. I haven't talked to her, but her myspace lists her as single. I guess I'm going to have to call her and see what's up... but I really don't want...

She's never gotten professional help as far as I know. After her ex-boyfriend beat her, she moved in with her aunt and she's been living there ever since. As soon as she moved up here, she started...

I know that age has a lot to do with it. She does have a lot of maturing to do and it's obvious in the way she acts sometimes. Plus you add that she did drugs, alcohol, got pregnant (had a...

Definitely... and it's painfully obvious that something's not right with her.

So let me ask you this... do you think I should just not call her and let her call me? Or should I call her and tell...

She just gets really moody at times. She was acting this way the first time she broke up with me and I just feel like it's going to end badly again. I have never loved anyone like I do her and I just...

Because I keep expecting the girl that I loved to come back one day and things will be great again. She's my first love. When she asked me back, I almost went into it unprepared because I couldn't...