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I've been dating a female for 4 months. And everything was great as far as I know. Me and her made our dating situation exclusive a few weeks ago. But lastnight we were on the phone talking and...

Talaniman, I didn't think about that. Bc I will be honest she is the only girl that I've been going out with for the past 3 and half months. And I think that's my problem, I need to explore more...

Talaniman, so in your honest opinion how do you think a dating situation should go as for as timeline as for as when a I first meet a girl that I'm interest in. Just take things slow, go on dates,...

Talaniman, I feel like I don't know her enough as well. And yes, she was the one who brought that up. She told me that she is use to guys making things exclusive after about a few weeks but I don't...

I'm a 26 year old guy and my question is about a 31 year woman.

So I've been dating a certain woman for about 3 and a half months. Each date has been enjoyable. We've done a lot from salsa...

Long-Distance Relationships seldom work out if ever... just take note of that.

And the feelings you are experiencing is just a big infactuation, but could turn in to romantic love... if a...

There's no interest here buddy...

You're just in the friend zone.

You messed up big time dude. But maybe there's a good shot that she might come back around. FROM NOW ON DUDE LEARN TO PICK YOUR BATTLES... AND NEVER ARGUE WITH A WOMAN... YOU'LL NEVER WIN! YOU GOT...

Dude there you go... rationalizing her actions... bottom line is low interest... but your ego is telling you to be persistent. You'll be waiting forever.

SHE'S CONSIDERING GETTING ONE? Dude she...

Dude you never argue with a woman! You'll never win... don't do it.. Dude quit rationalizing her actions. The bottom factor is that she loss interest... bottom line. Look at reality.



Dude...

Time is the greatest emotional healer of all time... but stick to no contact...

You'll be fine in due time. Don't go beating yourself up.

The only reason she keeps coming back is for an ego boost... that all...

She knows that she can have you anytime she gets ready...

She's a loon dude... let her go...

And you guys are...

Next time you cross a girl with a boyfriend... lay back dude... you made yourself too available with these girl...

Too much time on the phone dude... save most of the interaction for the dates...

EVERYTHING WAS GREAT HUH? REMEMBER SHE DUMPED YOU GUY! OBVIOUSLY THINGS WAS NOT SO GREAT. YOU OVERRATED HER INTEREST LEVEL. Spending every minute together huh? That's was the problem. You got too...

You not wrong at all. I agree.

Some excuses will be:

Society now days is very openly sexual. Media and hollywood celebrates that.

Sexual sin is celebrated rather than marriage nowadays. ...

Time is the greatest healer!

First:

There is no such thing as "All of a sudden." There was signs before you was too far in cloud 9 to see.

Second:

You talked all day everyday huh? Self-Control, mystery, challenge...

Learn how to have a relationship with yourself. Many people lack that quality, then when they enter a relationship they give the partner more emotional responsibility than what they dhould take on......

put no value in that sir!! Its over buddy!! And if she happens to come back around to you:

Reject her... move on!! Too many other beautiful angels out there sir!!

This is over!! Quit looking back! It seems you have something good in front of you... why look back? You had a disfunctional relationship anyway!

He had his shot and that's the bottom line...
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Dude "NO CONTACT" is the best thing you can do.

This relationship is over dude. That's fact!

You are supposely in sooo in love. But you are constantly breaking up and both of you cheated on...

This isn't going anywhere buddy. This is probably more of a sexual relationship than anything else.

She loves you huh? What does it say about this woman's integrity and loyality? She is in...

Firstly:


15 years of love? Are you sure about that sir?

Secondly:


She dumped you. Its obvious that her interest level has been quite low for quite some time. It wasn't just the...

Dude listen to me with an open hear firstly:


Whenever a woman tells you she needs "SPACE OR A BREAK" from you. Whats happening is that either she is LOSING INTEREST OR SHES ALREADY LOST ALL...

Its obvious you were the person experiencing more hurt than the other.

But here's the bottom line, which you will see later:

A lot of times if you are not attentive enough during the...

She's a persistent one!

I know you don't want to be blunt. But you might have to with this female. Be blunt and firm. You don't to be mean about it. But you need to be real with this girl. Unless...

Rejection DOUBLED his interest level in her...

He wants what he know he can't have anymore...

Your young man... you got your whole life ahead of you...

Learn from this situation... and...

He is just feeding you exactly what you want to hear... just to keep you around... while he pursuing this other woman...

Just move on...

Forget about that one and MOVE ON!! She has no interest in you whatsoever...

Get out of that situation dude. She has made it clear man that its over...

This is a prime example of why you don't move in with no female that you are not married to.

Just get out of there...

Be honest with them. Just be real and tell them that you don't want them around.

Just tell them...

But more info would help in answering your question more efficiently.

How long have you two been together..

First of all: What your boyfriend has is NOT love, its INFACTUATION... period!!

And its clear: just drop the guy... he's lost interest... all together...

Just moved on... you've got your...

Stay out of that... let him figured that out on his own...

Kctiger is right: Don't be a rebound...

From the details you gave... I don't think there was nothing there but "infactuation" Not real love...

There's no love there... just infactuation... its done

I don't think its worth...

How much time did you guys spend together?

Whatever went on in the past leave it there... that was then...

Instead of looking at something left behind... you should be looking at the goodness waiting in front of you...

Let that be......

Dude just change your password and moved on... just that simple..

Who cares what she thinks...

No contact is priceless...

Your're not doing to regain someone... you do to build yourself back up to where you need to be... again...

Don't expect for you guys to get back together...
...

Yep she is using you dude... you are nothing more than a self-esteem boost for this girl... she doesn't want you...

The key is to look at the "REALITY" of the situation. Most men rationalize and look at the situation through the eyes of their ego...

That's gets them in trouble every time...

REALITY...

Yep dude... go NO CONTACT... GO MISSING...

Quit rationalizing her feelings and actions dude. She has very LOW INTEREST in you bottom line!!

DUDE IF SHE MISSES YOU... SHE WOULDN'T BE ASKING FOR A BREAK... DROP THIS GIRL!!

THE ONLY...

Kctiger, talaniman, jmv0713, are right:

He thought he could just jump back into dating and possibly start something new, but quickly realized he wasn't ready for that due to his previous...

The way he's acting and have acted is showing that he does not value you at all!!

Second point: He has clearly shown that He no interest in you what so ever!! But He definitely show interest in...

Supposely things are so great, but you guys keep having these breaks every so often. Doesn't sound great to me.



Dude. Whenever a female says she needs a "break" or "space" that means "LOW...

So true...

You know I wasn't trying to hang up on her. Its just that when she realized that I was not going to backing down she starting trying to changed her original remarks... and started trying to explain...

There's this girl named Sonia. Good girl. Attractive. Im 24yrs of age now but when I was 18 we were in a relationship for a while. At that time I had to break up with her because she was getting way...

Very neat... as a young guy this is valuable...