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I agree with Noodles here give her space and let it ride. I dealt with a girl and she done me the same way only not as quick. The thing is when I read your question and noodles response a light...

You need to move on. Do not call or make any contact with him. He has moved on and now you must. Your daughter and you will live through this. The point is focus on you and your child and live...

This coming from a guys view, I agree with kctiger, if a girl sleeps with me real soon that is a red flag and I will just use her as that. It is one sided. I should say hold on but sometimes I do...

Yeah I know it gets better but nc makes it go faster. I am getting better slowly but still have contact every now and then. I am doing it to myself and learning the hard way. It boils down to...

Hey guys and gals been a while, but my nc don't work to well because of myself but some light at the end of the tunnel so to speak. This weekend had a date with a promising young lady. After the...

I am just voicing an opinion, so take it with a grain of salt. But I believe it is because they think that if they change them they have accomplished something. "He really loves me because he...

Okay, I feel he should have the courtesy to call or text. But he has the right to hang out with friends some. I do believe he is taking it a little over board. There is a point where a...

Okay spartan, you can not fix her and she will not stop completely. It may have been since June but it may not you can not trust her. You MUST leave this relationship behind you and go forward with...

Hello, I am just thinking have you had the same problem with others as well. If so maybe you should stay single for awhile and work on yourself. If not then maybe you should break up with this guy...

Romefalls is right, he is always right. Just forget her, we most of us guys here are trying and go on with life. It will get better, because as far as our women situations go they can't get worse. ...

Dean she has moved on and is ashamed of her behavior that is why no one knows, I am telling you I have been through the same thing. The older guy is telling her what she wants to hear and she is...

Okay Guys, Dean and Rob, here is the thing we are all going through this at the same time but mine did not leave with someone older but there is an older gentleman in the picture that she use to see....

Anongirl your right he is confusing, because he is confused himself. He may be afraid to get more attached or something. So you can either hang in there or let it go. I would let it go before you...

This is just my opinion but is sounds like he is losing interest in the relationship and is preparing himself for a breakup. This may be jumping the gun but that is the vibe I get and this sounds...

Chuff is right, AS ALWAYS. Just stay away, let your life begin with her not in it. She left you for a reason and you do not need to hook up with her while she is back it town just to go through it...

Thanks Dare, I will. I just seen her and wow was that hard. Well it was yesterday and all I think about is her now. This really ain't cool. How could I let someone have that much control over me?...

I would say not but you did not give us any info. Just keep looking someone will come along and until then have fun and enjoy life. Good Luck and God bless.

She has sent you her answer. She does not want a relationship with you just move on have fun and Good luck. Oh yeah women are confusing but so are us men just got to roll with the punches.

This is more to wards a good relationship than a stable one. I believe stable means to settle for something. A good relationship has TRUST, RESPECT, the feeling of comfort around each other and the...

Hey Everyone, well it has been exactly two weeks of nc and I was doing good. Getting angry at her, realizing some of her faults and things of that natural then last night some other person mentioned...

OK Simple, here it is she wants you to leave her completely alone. Only talk to her on her time frame and that sort of thing. Let her have it DON'T call or text or anything. Let her have the...

Hey guys. Just some update on me. She still called like a bunch this weekend. I would answer some ignore some. But Sunday morning she called and found out that I went out with someone else. It...

Jm give her space. If it is meant to be and she feels the same for you as you do her then she will be back. If not then the sun will come up anyway and you must let her go. You can not make...

Stay away. A teacher is a professional and should act like one. He stepped over a line with you and should not. This guy is a creep. Remember this is just my opinion.

Hey Guys not doing to good with no contact but am trying she always seems to know when I am doing a little better or have a date with someone. I just can't not answer the phone and then when I try...

AmExp, just remember to always remember others. Think about them before yourself and the rest will come. I have tried doing this for many years, and sometimes I get mud in my face but when I wake...

Well said Chuff. Now Pinkrose, everyone here has warned you but here it goes again. LEAVE MARRIED MEN ALONE, IF THEY ARE IN A SECRET RELATIONSHIP THEY ARE USERS. THIS MAN IS NO DIFFERENT, HE IS...

Hello AmExp, I am telling you that he is not interested or wants you as a spare. Please for yourself move on and give him what he wants, SPACE. He is playing games not you. This guy will only keep...

Dare,
You are not retarded you are thinking with your heart and most of the time that is the right thing to do. Hard to go wrong when you follow your heart, but in our situations we must follow our...

Thanks Dare. I know it is a game but it is so hard to get through my head, I know better but I will not let her keep beating me. I will come out of this the better person.

You can't help her she has to help herself and most people have to crash and burn before they learn. So be there for her then and guide her as much as she will let you. The action of your sister...

Blue, just find something you was interested in or that peaks your interest now. I was in the same boat. I moved away from all of my friends and had to make new ones. But still none close enough...

Good Job Jenny, you may have acted a little harsh but keep your head up and moving forward. I never could get over a breach of trust like that. It always came up. Just remember you can do this and...

Hey well broke no contact by answering her calls. We went out last weekend. Then she calls me this weekend and says I call her too much. WHAT. That she is afraid she is leading me on. She is. ...

Well hey everyone. I tried no contact for about 3 weeks she called I answered. Right back in the mess again. I am going to try again. I need some encouragement though. I read somewhere that if...

Or he could have came from a very bad relationship and is being very stand offish. Give it a little more time a couple of months and if the situation does change I would suggest leaving and not...

Agree with Tal a 100%. But when you are in a relationship you should man up and tell. This is just my opinion.

Okay Dallasboy, I am going against the grain here. I have a bad case of nice guy and it bites me in the butt all the time. I get taken advantage of a lot. But I figure I am the one who has to look...

Here goes, I have been going nc for about three weeks and she called and I answered. Not that bad of a move but not real good either. But here is the thing, I am beginning to realize that she is...

Shane you definitely done the right thing. Here is the low down, if she was as into you as you are her you would not have to ask her to make a choice. People are just people and you can't save her...

Here we go may be a little long. First let me say what is good about the gf/bf. They are always respectful to your face, always treats you with utmost kindness, very loving and able to show...

Hey squeezplay,
Here goes: What ever answer you choose support it with details. Why? I would because the problems can be fixed with the relationship if she had help.
Would you mess with their...

Ok busymomof5 stay away from the other married man and work on your marriage. If your marriage is as bad as you have explained it I would recommend a divorce. Then get yourself some help, you are...

Lovelee, I am the kind of guy you are talking about, I will do fine until something I find fishy comes up. I am getting help with those issues. The thing is to tell him and help him change. Don't...

Men cheat because they feel that they are not the star of a women's heart or that there is something better out there. Here is the main reason and I know that most of you guys are going to disagree...

Like you stated in your post give her the space and let yourself improve FOR YOU. She may or may not be back. So play the field see what is out there you may be surprised. Breaking up sucks and...

My suggestion is just worry about the kids. Let her go with military guy. Just get a good lawyer and stand your ground on the children's behalf. I would not contact anyone except an attorney and...

I was just wondering if someone could give me a good workout for a beginner. I took swimming in college and am now a smoker. I am trying to quit. Just looking for a good beginning routine.

Hey,
Just wanted some opinions on this. I believe they can not because of past feelings that never really get complete gone but lets hear what some of you all have to say.
Can ex-couples really be...

NC is the hardest thing I have ever done. She broke up with me on my birthday, great present, right!! Anyway she called after about three weeks and I answer now right back to square one. So stick...