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Yes Tal , we are in same city but his parents are not and yes we do have met and are dating in person from past 5 months.
No its not like only arranged marriages are preferred in our region. People...

I understood what you said and now on i will change my attitude towards him. If he calls or text most welcome and if he doesnt i will try not to panick and stay cool. And if things seems to go right...

I met him on a dating site Tal and we talked over the call and chat for near about 5 months before we actually met and started dating. I havent met his mother in person but i do have talked to her...

I think you are right as always. So iam not going to initiate contact with him and wait for him to make a move whether he take a day or two or a week. He assures me everytime he is available that he...

Hi.. Its about the guy i have been dating since last 5 momths. He was very loving and caring in first 3.5 months and even popped up the question. What brought me here is his changed behaviour from...

Tal... thanks for always being there for me in all my problems and guiding me... yes I have issues with letting go of things and people I consider close to my heart... but anyhow... I don't have his...

Thanks for replying.. I'm not going to contact him anymore.. this is what was going on in my mind.. thats why I posted here... its not like I'm desperate or may be I'm... I don't know... its true I...

After this last incident, I texted him months later on his birthday to wish him and to my surprise he was totally changed the way he spoke to me. He never replied me with so much affection, felt...

I'm nt meeting him in present and have no intention of meeting in future too... its just.. im providing professional services to the company where he currently works... and for work purpose whenever...

Thanks for replying Tal.. im behaving normally till now and not at all bothered... cuz heart is clear of what we had in past... it seemed weird to me... I mean if I block someone... simply means I...

He called me up twice and said he wanta to meet... I met him and again things turned cozy between us... later he said he is in a relationahip with his ex... I was like okay... I left and never...

I have realised my mistakes... and asked for apologies too... I m calm at mind... yes I miss him... but I'm not going to disturb him... and will surely give him the space he needs and asked for... I...

I didn't get mad at him for ignoring my texts.. I was only upset... I got mad at him only when he disappeared... which he had already done before... I ddnt get mad at my boss.. he got mad at me for...

I know.. im at fault of hurting him but that was unintentional.. and I apologized to him thousands times... and I told him many times about the age gap we have before we actually started and he was...

HI guys....Its about a colleague in my office who is younger to me. He expressed his interest in valentines week, to which I denied by letting him know that I'm older than him and there is no future...

Thanks for saying about his little interest.. cuz I always felt that when he was around me via his body language and expressions... but was always unsure because people say when u feel for someone.....

Thanks.. I was also feeling the same... that he is not interested for friendship too now... so its fine with me... I have many friends to gel with... now I will not contact him... but if he does.. I...

Hi... pretty long time since I updated on this.. after months of no contact.. our friendship was back on track.. infact he was very cool and friendly to me again... like he used to do before... I...

Got it :(

Want to take a chance.. to win his heart... should I even try or is it finish forever... in confusion.. he is really nice guy.. dont want to let him go..

After my last post here... I talked to him once... after that he didn't contact me till now.. nor did I contact him.. im very much touched the way he dealt with this.. wish we could have something...

Understood that I did the mistake of sharing my hurt with him... yes he cnt give me the love I want.. because he doesn't feel the same way... you are so right with every word of yours... somewhwere...

Getting your view points.. but really dealing with this is somewhat difficult... I spoiled our friendship too.. bringing up my feelings.. after a full day and night when I told him this.. was feeling...

I expressed him my feelings... to which he replied... that he had never seen me in that light.. which was expected.. he said he respect my feelings for him.. and we will be good friends as always......

And in our case no caste issues or any other issues would b there... its all about.. if we both agree for this relationship.. we can get married with our families involvement... its all about knowing...

We are not in any relationship till now.. we are friends.. I don't think his parents know about our friendship.. bt my family do know about our friendship.. like his parents.. my parents are too...

You are right that he lives in different country.. but his family.. his parents live in the country and city I'm.. and if it's a yes from his side... then he would come here to take things further.....

I know this guy from 8-9 years.. He was my colleague and now only a friend. He lives and works in different country. But whenever he comes to my city.. where his parents stay.. he meets me.. We...

Her mother is somewhat convinced to get her checked.. she is coming this weekend and we will go together to get her checked.. without letting his father knew about this.. he is totally against this..

I know but her parents don't want to report it to police or even to visit the doctor.. I have to take her to doctor with or without their consent.. she is really close to me.. and I cant see her...

Thanks for understanding me Tal... I am not going back to him... I am at peace without him.. and life without him is much better than the life I was having with him..

I know I love him but its also true that he can never be mine in this life.. he has decided his life.. and after so much struggle.. finally I understood that going after my love will only make my...

HI.. A girl child of 9 years in my close family have been sexually abused in school. Its been repeated few times. The girl is in pain and her parents have decided not to send her to that school.. but...

Thanks :)

Right.. have understood it well.. and give it damn now.. will handle it perfectly.. think so... have changed my contact noemail id too.. his no is already is not with me.. deleted long back.. thanks...

Hey... I m back here with an update.. this time.. I m not feeling sad.. or something.. but still concerned.. after all its my life.. after what you advised me to do.. I tried on with failures.. we...

I have no one Tal.. with whom I can share all.. wat I have shared here... please help me bring my life back on track...

Hii.. im working on not talking to him.. but I want to share what all is going in me... I want to be honest.. bcuz only then.. I wl get right advice.. he is on my mind all the time.. praying and...

Understood.. thanx a ton.will update u soon.

Ok.. so should tell him that I'm going to end this and go.. or should I move without letting him know about this?

Hi..
In the end of May.. I received a call from an unknown no.. and it was him.. I had nothing to say.. so I just hanged it up.. later he texted me with many messages saying only and only want to...

Understood what you tried to convey to me.. will try doing it.. in fact have started already.. thanx..

I don't think.. staying in touch with him on friendly basis is possible for me.. may be after 10-20 years.. it would be.. when feelings subside.. but not now.. I have given up all the expectations...

Thanks to you all... I never realized this.. that I'm breaking the NC... its true I haven't seen him.. heard him from 9 months.. no chat.. no messages.. nothing at all... but looking him in my list...

Hi Friends..

Its in continuation to my all previous threads... the same guy.. I was involved with... thanx to all of you.. for helping me out for so long... after making so many mistakes......

I'm doing it Tal... Blocking him...

I thought of blocking him... and did it too... but for 5 minutes only... then I unblocked him... I don't know what it was which made me do that... but I simply couldn't and I myself went offline and...

Hi Friends

Something strange is going on... as I told you earlier too... he tried to contact late at night few days back... but I ignored his calls... now... he came up online... but didn't say a...

Bunnnymck- can you suggest which author is best for the said book?

Is this the book written by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo... the one you talked about..? I m ready to do anything to get over...

Thanks to all of you for giving your support... the urge is really strong... couldn't sleep from past few days... still I haven't give in... I m still on NC... 9 years is a big time... which I have...