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Okay, I feel the need to answer this one from the female perspective of having been where your wife is. And, Let me preface this by saying I DO NOT HAVE THE ANSWER, but maybe some insight. I am...

You need to cut all ties with her until she lives by the rules. Make the rules livable with her. Let her have time with those kids but demand that she stop with all the intolerable activity. When...

He told you because he want you to make it better or make it go away. He is not used to having to clean up his own messes and he needs a safe mental place. As long as you have feelings for him and...

Remember family is thicker than most anything else. Your son may remain with this woman for the rest of his life and it will be his loss as his loss of a healthy good relationship with you.

I...

You can't convince her and why should you try? You are an adult and should stand up proud behind all your decisions. Trying to make decisions to make other people happy is fruitless and will make...

Okay, there are so many books out there for premature ejaculation. Go to Amazon. There are step by step books to help with this. Once my husband and I found them, it was amazing. Took a few...

Some parents/people are just crazy. They are control freaks. The fact that they have always had a negative opinion about whomever your friend was dating is evidence they do not want to give up...

I think maybe you are too accessible for her. You are there all the time, you cater to all she needs, and you love her. She probably does not feel worthy.

This as I see it is all on her. You...

Be strong. I have no experience with ODD but with add children, and if he is on medication, the medicine if not administered at the right doses makes you crazy.

Seek help, support, and...

All the advice here is good and I just want to add, as I found out, that it is not easier to give in than to hear the tantrum.

A quick fix is to give in and forgo the tantrum, but your child needs...

Sounds like both of you like the cat and mouse game of chase more than you like being in love. I would at least think about this as a possibility.

He is comfortable. Nothing is going to change for him unless he is uncomfortable. Either patiently wait for what may or may not come or pursue your happiness elsewhere. There is a chance if you do...

He is a bully but here is the deal. The whole family knows and will blow him off. They will not disown you because he sent some racy text messages. But at some point, I would let it be known you...

To add to this, study groups are a GREAT place to break the ice. Talk about their majors and yours or lack of one. Join the clubs in your discipline. Seize all opotunities you are interested in,...

Winding, I am not sure I totally agree with you. Your thoughts are valid, but not applicable to everyone. My parents have been married for over 50 years and are closer now more than ever. My...

Handle it the same way you handled your engagement. Take charge and tell them what your plans are. If they are "man" enough to pony up with suggestions, ideas, and/or money, let them at least be...

Not to be the person always looking in corners for creeps, but this is also a sign of molestation and sexual abuse. Does not necessarily have to be a creepy adult, could be an older curious child...

Okay, maybe your friend had lost sensitivity, but you know, what if all your friends knew and you bumped into her not knowing? You would have been just as mad. It was a damned if you do and damned...

Okay not to add to the others blanket interpretations of being with a married man, which I do agree with but when you are already there it is hard to see how to get out. Kind of like telling a poor...

Yeah I know and he addresses them somewhat, more than most men I know. Keep us in your prayers

Thanks, I am going to order that book. It is getting better, but it sure would have been easy to stray. I almost did and am glad I did not go through with it. The more I read and learn here, the...

Good show. Put a period. Retrain yourself now. WHen you think of her name, do something... for me it is say a hail mary... but I am catholic. But you can think of something. When you think of...

I think it is you who was given a red flag. I so totally agree with I WISH and would strongly encourage you to run and thank your lucky stars he made the break first.

Best case scenario is he is...

If this is that abrupt of a personality change, I am thinking drugs or brain tumor. Either way, good for you that you don't have to clean up the mess.

I really feel for you. Good luck and keep...

I have been reading this and keeping up to date as it all goes on. I think we are all giving you advice based on our experiences and want to offer you support in this difficult time. If our advice...

You are treated the way you allow yourself to be treated. DO NOT ACCEPT THIS ANYMORE!! Easier said than done. But I support you is ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. Don't buy into it. Take the steam out of his...

This is not new, but it has escalated.

New things at home are he is going to kindergarten. He is five.

Yes, I think the parenting could be better but on the same note, both me and my husband...

My son keeps saying things when he gets mad to shock people. He is a sweet loving little boy who just gets so mad. He is in a daycare situation and has been labeled a "troubled" child from early on...

Just my two cents... I always felt that being friends was always a consolation prise. Akin to you can never go back. I felt if I am not good enough to date, then you must feel I am not good enough...

I agree with all that is said above... and so do you, from the way you posted. Which makes it really easy to answer and you agreeable to the solution.

But here is the real crux of this situation....

You should always trust your intuition. From our intuition, we learn to look deeper. Just because he does not have a bad boy reputation does not mean he does not do bad things. Maybe he did not...

She really sounds as if she is bipolar. Leave now while you can get out. It won't get any easier as you have found out.

Okay... no contact. It will get easier. Go the high road on this one. He is like a bad drug. You feel better for a while after a hit but then you come down from the high and feel worse.

Have...

Yes it is possible that she loves him and you. Yes it is possible that she loves the just dating him and making a life with you. But the question is do you like this? Is she worth sacraficing what...

While lying is never the answer as you have found out, you can either come clean or hold your head up high, say nothing and when confronted just stop them by saying something like you have already...

You are doing the right thing. Be cautious. Type out what is happening and post here. Re-read and see if it seems you are being a fool.

Good luck, you never know but I would be soooooo...

Good Lawyers involved. Remember get what is yours, not even. I am so sorry. I remember the one big breakup where it did seem like a divorce. I hated that.

The fact she is over it so fast is acutally good. She is not dwelling on it or trying to justify it or any of a number of things which really would be worse.

Getting over it is just part of the...

Really, what happened while you two were broke up is not your business.

But lets disect this. She did not tell you about it. Was she embarrassed? Did she know how you would react? Why should...

Okay, look at it this way. You got all the control and she got the s*** from you. You got to think about someone else (she did not do this) while in the relationship. You got to let those feelings...

Some up to date statistics are needed. But infection rates in America are 3 times (male to male sexual transmission) than that of heterosexual transmission. Given that only 10% of the population is...

This advice is from a BIG outsider as I am not divorced and I do not come from a divorced family. But I have known my share of friends from divorced families and have many nieces and nephews in...

I am not sure you can ever get the friendship back with the husband. You see you have betrayed him by not letting him know. Knowing you are in a tough spot, there is not an easy answer. But if...

I am sorry for what you are going through and that no one has posted to you as of yet. You need to get out of that house and the sooner the better!

Leave, don't look back and go on to be happy...

Get yourself checked for disease right away.

Same problem but I am right there with you sister. I do not know what has worked or not worked for me and my husband. It is getting better after 13 years.

Surely he has time to Masturbate in...

Actually, ask your church and priest. And if you do not like that answer, ask another priest somewhere else. While the answers are supposed to be the same and the rules straight forward, each...

You know I was you and sort of still am. But you know what... I have more "friends" from high school than I ever did (thanks to facebook) because now I try. I did not then because I was too...

Okay, the board is testy this week. Fr. Chuck only chose one point to illustrate, wearing black, but the sentiment was... parent the 14 yo. If she is going out with someone you don't like, remove...

Oh no, just keep reminding her loudly and often that she should not enter people's personal space. This girl is going to have social problems unless she combats this issue. It would be nice if your...