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The inappropriate conversations were much more than I thought. My wife was actually masturbating to him and telling him about it, and vice versa. They made out in the car, and, as she said, they...

Take it someone who betrayed his own wife by having an emotional affair, then was immediately betrayed her own emotional affair with a coworker.
If I was a betting man, I would put all my money on...

Thanks for the quick responses. I don't think that my wife is just living her life. She was very upset last night, and begging me not to leave.
It's her inability to open up to me and tell me...

Back to the problem. It's been a few months, and my wife's reactions to this guy just didn't make sense to me. She originally told me that "maybe" she had feelings for this guy, she had never...

Well, I'm going my wife's office tomorrow. They're having Santa Claus there and my wife asked me to meet her and the kids there after work. There's my face-to-face opportunity.
I feel fortunate to...

Again, thank you for the responses.

You guys put the onus on me to look inside myself, and you're probably right. I know I have issues in this respect.

And Ber, I'm very happy that my wife...

Thank you all for your responses. This is a situation that has somewhat been taken care of, but still lays heavily on my mind.

My indescretions caused my wife to read my text messsages, and she...

Another problem. My wife works mostly with men. She has told me that the conversational boundaries are pretty much nonexistent, but I think it got carried away. While reading her phone messages,...

I met with my therapist last night. He suggested that, because of the difficulties we've been having, and because I truly believe that my wife has no romantic interest in this guy, I should just let...

I said that, if he had at least met me at some point, just enough so I could say hi if I see him, it would be a start to a resolution. Kind of like having a date meet your parents first, it puts...

It had already run its course. It never got beyond the texting (most of the texting was just mindless banter) and it got kind of tiring. What my wife saw was enough to show intent, though, and...

Jakester,
Thank you very much for your response. I had an inappropriate text messaging relationship with someone at work. My wife generously worked through it with me, and we both seek...

I was recently your husband. I had a relationship with a coworker (nothing physical, but the texting was numerous). My wife found out and the thought of losing her completely overwhelmed any...

My wife is friends with a guy. They met about 10 years ago at the gym, he's from our area, and have friends in common. I never met him, though he knows of me. He is also married.

My issues...