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Just be honest & tell her how it feels for you. Tell her that you KNOW she's a sexy beast, & you understand that other people would tell her how beautiful she is, but that it makes you uncomfortable...

Nah, you're not crazy. You're human.

I had a relationship end over a year ago, & when it did, I felt like I crawled into a hole & died. I barely slept, & when I did, I had horrible nightmares. I...

If someone wrote to me, "How could you do THIS to me?! $$$$$!" as if they were high & mighty, I'd cut him loose faster than a... than a... well, than a something that's really fast.

Well, clearly you weren't ready for another relationship. How long ago did you & your ex break up?

Rushing into new relationships after heartbreak only kills it. Keep yourself busy & go out with...

Aw, Ashley, don't be hurt.

It's just the way your question was worded was extremely confusing.

Honestly, I would walk away from Joe. Joe is a complete douchebag that cares about no one but...

Have you ever been driving your car, knowing that your fuel tank is empty, but you really think you can drive at least 2 more miles? And then you break down?

No?

Well, with relationship, that's...

I think Joe needs to go to Europe, Stacy to the Bahamas, & Ashley to Asia.

That way, this situation of gooberness never happens again.

I re-read the question, just to make sure I didn't misread...

You're lucky she even has considered taking time to actually date you, considering how busy she is!

I can understand where your frustration would come from: you really like her, she really likes...

First off, DELETE HER FROM FACEBOOK.
Keeping her on Facebook & looking at her status updates is like shooting yourself in the face every time you go on the computer. Trust me, deleting her will make...

I know that sometimes when I get angry (and I really don't get angry often) I can say some of the most hurtful things, just so I can prove a point.

I've gotten A LOT better, but I care deeply...

Get out of there lickity-split!

I don't know what rock he crawled out from under, but he can go back, baggage & all!

I'm not an expert, nor do I pretend to be, but if you suffered from something that painful, I would ease slowly back into things.

Does your doctor know about this?

If a guy wants to text you, talk to you, take you to the movies, by God, he'll do his best to make it happen.

This is not the case for you, unfortunately, & I know it hurts.

My general rule of...

About the 3 strikes, I was just referring to the issues that jumped out most to me, not that he deserved 3 chances or just made only 3 mistakes.

Everyone needs a friend, whether they're kind, a douchebag, claustrophobic, bald, hairy, etc. You are no different!

I think it's great you've found a good friend! But I can definitely understand...

I'm glad you didn't contact the girl: things would have gotten super ugly, super fast.

Look, cheating is cheating, no matter what form it takes. Not only is this guy an immature douche that thinks...

The biggest red flag I see when reading this is the whole thing of him telling you he loved you in the beginning.

He set you up, Darlin'. Plain & simple. He saw you wanting to be "just friends"...

I'm glad you mentioned this, JM.

Everyone has feelings like this at one time or another. I think you're being way too hard on yourself. Do you have a wonderful guy? I would say YES! But also like...

I'm sorry you've had to experience this kind of pain, but the good thing is that now you know what kind of a woman she is.

She's a Slutty McSlutterson, & she played you because it was convenient...

If it was her old apartment, it's not like the region is unfamiliar to her. Maybe she was reminiscing or felt attached to the area. There's no reason to get upset over that. You're not her dad....

It's OK, I get that line all the time.

Lol, kidding. It's fine, I knew what you meant. :)

I try to add some humor to my responses. Keeps people on their toes. >:)

Trust is not stalking your wife. Trust is not needing to know every. Single. Thing. She does throughout the day. Plans change. Things happen.

You can either trust her, or this will destroy your...

Every week, me & my boyfriend try at least two new positions. Some nights he'll pick the two, & some nights I'll pick them.

Sometimes the positions are awkward, but it's always a great learning...

Bouncing off what Wondergirl said:

I would choose a stable, loving relationship with a man that I KNOW would take care of me over a couple months of mind-blowing sex with a guy who doesn't care...

You're right, that's probably the herpes.

Because I prefer to not let everyone see my lady parts & stylish underwear.

You should explain to her that there's "something in your heart" that's telling you to not be a doormat for a manipulative succubus. As your running away, of course.

Run awwwaaaaayyyyyy~!

I'm sorry about the pain you've been experiencing lately.

And as an answer to your first question... yes, the majority of relationships end on terms completely unfair to at least one of the...

First of all, suicide is never the answer. It won't solve anything. If you're feeling deeply suicidal, you need to go to a pscyhologist & get help.

Now. I think this would be a good time to have a...

I find it ironic he calls you lazy but you support him financially.

Cut this sucker loose.

You don't need a "man" that expects you to take care of him like a mother, and you certainly don't...

I understand. I do know that he went on a few dates here & there before he met me, but he didn't feel any connection with them.

I'm trying to find that balance between being completely negative &...

I'm confused. Were they courting during that 2 weeks AFTER they broke up, or during that 2 weeks she wasn't talking to him?

I think we fit, too, that's why I don't want to give up on this. I'm myself with him, goofy, giddy, & all... and dangit, he's pretty okay about it. :)

Dinner was lovely, & tasty. I was having a...

I would move on & find someone else. She obviously has no idea what she wants, & I personally think that she used the whole "Oh I love my ex even though we've been broken up a year" because she knew...

First of all, you made a rash decision without knowing the facts. When you accused her of cheating & broke up with her, you shattered her confidence in you! I'm pretty sure I would be VERY hesitant...

Tell her that you don't want to talk with her, and if that's too hard for you, just flat out avoid her & don't return her calls. It's not rude. It's self preservation. I know I had to do it, because...

Lol, well the first song we danced to was... lol... "I Know You Want Me" by Pitbull. Not very romantic, but we like to dance goofy to it in the car with the windows rolled down. :D

Talaniman: I've definitely been thinking about just facts & trying to get control over my emotions. It can be difficult when you're excited, for sure! And thank you for what you said about how you...

You WILL find a better, loving, more faithful girl in the future. That I can guarantee. You'll find her when you least expect it. :)

And suicide is never the answer. It breaks the heart of...

That's very common, especially considering that the wounds are still fresh. I went through the same thing, & most of the people on here went through the same thing. I loved someone with my entire...

Keeping busy is the best way to help you cope with loss and memories of that loss. Sitting alone in a room thinking about the situation over and over does nothing. Get busy. Stay busy.

Yeah, KitKat, it's really exciting! I'm trying to keep my wits about me & be smart, & that's the hardest part.


Talaniman,
You're right: I DO know it's way too early. I know that I tend to let...

Thank you guys for all of your help! I appreciate all the support & good advice.

I was so bothered & confused with all of this that I... well, I called him & flat-out asked him what we're doing....

Keep yourself busy. Delete Facebook or MySpace. Get a workout buddy. Find a hobby, join a book club.

And remember, she didn't stand next to you. Her then fiancee'. You don't need such a wishy...

That's what I'm wondering, if I am a rebound. I have talked to him about it, & he says that I'm not, he just would like to move slow, & would like me to finish my degree (I'm over halfway done). He...

It's been a long time, AMHD! So much has happened since the last school session started.

Last November, I was out with friends at a club, & this very nice man asked me to dance. I left in a hurry...

You need to (and I say this with a lot of love) get a life.

One that doesn't include him every. Single. Second. Of. The. Day. Go eat lunch with your friends, join a book club, work out, do...

Kudos to you for recognizing you were being a ClingyMonster for a little while after the break-up, & for going NC. Cutting off ties is usually the hardest thing for most people, because they feel...