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Well, I think the above advice is good, but there are some realities to face as well. Discrimination based on sexual orientation has no place in the courtroom, or anywhere else for that matter.
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Oh you think my comment was directed at you... I can see how that could be seen as such with my quote. My comments were directed towards the OP, using your quote as a reference... The OP needs to...

So, from what I'm hearing in this thread, it sounds to me like you should be asking a few more questions, specifically about how you got to where you are in your relationship, and how to understand...

Yes, I agree, this type of attitude represents a great deal of immaturity.. Whatever you do about a divorce, my advice would be to seek some advice from a therapist about how you should handle these...

Well, it would depend in your definition of infidelity. To me, yes - it is. Even if there is no sex involved, they are cheating on you at an emotional level. And that can hurt just as bad as...

Well, first off. Don't let the kids see you sweat this. You should also refrain from involving the children in the debate in any way shape or form. Unfortunately, your children are in another...

I appreciate the comments thus far. I think listening to her is probably my best bet. Sometimes people just have to go through these emotions. It's kind of like breaking up with someone; you have...

I've been dating this gal for about a 1.5 years, and I moved into her house recently. We're doing really well, and She has a 3 year old son. The father was out of the picture for a while, but...

I agree, I chuckled at the title as well. Man that age is so hard. They have all these new things going on in their heads and not all the tools to express it... AHHHH!! As posted before, stick to...

Kids at this age are listening. But they listen more when you allow them to be totally open. Many times this means just asking questions and never being judgemental. I'm almost 30 now, and I...

So bascally sue him in small claims with whatever evidence I have and hope it works? Should the letter from my ex and some rent reciepts be enough evidence?

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I was living month to month (12 month lease had expired) at a home in Lansing, MI. I gave my landlord 6 weeks notice that I was moving. He aknowledged this, and I had given him over 30...

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Probably the fastest way is to use a crossover cable or hub and set the network configuratiosn properly on the laptops :)

It would be helpful to know the type of router to be more specific. Once you get into the router you just need to change the WAN interface settings from "obtain an ip" or "DHCP" to the static...

Anything below 1500 can "potentially" cause problems, but for the mostpart 1364 should be fine. Advanced properties for your network card under device manager will give you what you need.

Well it could be a network problem, but if you are using Vista it could also be a bug that has been known to cause this issue. You can get information here. Speed up slow file transfers on Windows...

Well, I'd start with basics, can you ping the default gateway from the IP address you have been assigned? If you can, are you able to ping ip addresses outside of your network? If not, I'd make...

Just to elaborate a bit.

Your compute is connected to 2 networks. Lets say network a is 10.0.0.0 255.255.255.0 with a default route of 10.0.0.1 and network b is 192.168.0.0 255.255.255.0 with a...

It's a small word, isn't it? As for the advice on creating a relationship via the phone. You are absolutely correct. I never was under the impression that that's how the relationship would...

Hello,

I've posted here before when I was going through a divorce. It was an utterly horrible time in my life. I received a lot of advice, and a lot of support from the people who fequent these...

Well, the truth is quite familiar to the old proverb "if you love something, let it go - if it was meant to be it will come back to you". No contact is more about you than anything else. If the...

Step back, take a deep breath, and stop being jealous bro. She's not going to want that man. She want's a man who's exciting, challenging, and not putting her in akward places. You want her to...

Ok, this is day number 8 of no contact. Removed everything in my life that reminded me of her. All the pictures, all the stuff on the web, even the stuff we had saved in the basement from the...

So, please send me to the corner with the dunce cap. She asked for help fixing her laptop, because it had a virus. Virus turned out to be a keylogger. Unfortunately for me, I found the log...

cmr, your woman may think you are unnaproachable about this situation. Or she may be cheating, or she may no longer find you exciting. It's a real toss up man.

In this situation, I recommend a...

So, she came on Saturday and took all her things... "our things". Whatever you want to call it. We split things up pretty well. I had organized some things the night before, but I made sure to be...

Thanks, just got back from the couselor. Helped a bit. She's coming over to get her things on Saturday. I won't be here. Her reason for not going to counseling was that she had a date with...

Yea, I wish there was something anyone could say to remove the pain. This kind of pain is like a prison sentence. You do your time, and then it's over. Just make sure you keep to your guns and not...

Still pretty depressed, but things are getting better I suppose. Until her things are out of my house I don't have much of a choice but to talk to her now and again. I was stupid the other night...

It must be a terrible pain you are feeling right now. Hard times sometimes just overwhelm people. Do yourself a big favor here. Don't try to find out what's going on in his life, and don't keep...

Yea, sounds like you're a rebound relationship... as twink said, it's a hard place to be, and I personally don't hold much hope for the future of a relationship that includes three people. You're...

MLB,

She will decide on her own if she wants you back. She will call. No Contact is appropriate here. You do the no contact for yourself, so you can move on. If she isn't calling you, she's...

Nahh, no kids, and no house... Everyone says that makes it easier... They are probably right, but I tell you what... my heart is still incredibly broken right now. We do still have to talk about...

Well, to all of you who have taken the time out to respond to me, I appreciate it. It's of course been a tough time. I've pretty much been spending most of my time cleaning up, working out, etc. ...

Homegirl 50:

Well, yea things have sucked for about 6 months, this is true. The relationship before we were married was awesome. I would have never asked her to marry me after 5 years of dating...

Yea... by the way I'm going to stick to no contact again, obviously the bills have to be paid etc, and will require some contact... but I'm going to try and keep it as little as possible until I can...

Well, she came over last night after I hadn't talked to her for 5 days. She seemed to listed a bit more about some of the realizations that I've come to about the relationship, and how much I know...

If she's not going to take this time and miss me, then there isn't anything I'm going to be able to do.

My friend talked to her today, and he basically said to me she's hopeless. She otld him...

Whoa... I only needed to read about half this post to have some serious advice for you here...

He gets upset when you go to see your family??

Uhm, this is not good. I can understand him not...

Lost your dignity... you are FAR from that sister. I wish I was so strong during my relationship!! Crying is normal and expected... and DIGNIFIED. Did either of you honestly believe this wasn't...

I'm so glad to hear you can laugh a bit about the good times, and you are remembering positive things. Because you know what? You've got the key to it right there. You've got those good things to...

You don't have to be without him. He's still with you. That love, everything. Your heart still beats, and that's where his love is. Don't lose your heart, and don't lose yourself. Keep going. ...

There's a lot of different views on this. I found a neigthbor, and good friend, dead in his garage. He looked very peaceful. He had going to jogging, and then sat down, and died in a chair. I got...

Wow, these kind of posts really hit home for me. Choked me up reading it and all of the replies.

I lost my father when I was 11. It's so strange because when you are young the grieving process...

My biggest pet peeve is when they say "I dont know" when your trying to talk to them about their feelings. It drives me mad.

Sometimes people really are confused, but I know many times a woman...

Yea I sure do. I think you're in a good place right now. I like the fact that you are able to say what was wrong with the relationship, and admit that it just may not be a good time for her to...

Well, today is my first day of no contact... man it was hard. I did go to my parents house, then went to some friends to hang out. I've been watching movies, and trying to keep myself occupied with...

Well, if you're really OK with it, then good for you brother. You seem to be mentioning the possibility of being back with her, so I don't know if your heart is totally ready to let go. These...

I hope not...