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    Have done all of the above.

    Have done all of the above.
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    Catching a cheat!

    Does anyone know anything about spyware for monotoring mobile phones.
    Do these work and what are the laws around this?
    I suspect infidelity!!
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    This looks very much like you are already...

    This looks very much like you are already involved in an emotional affair.
    let me put words onto this for you!
    1. This X makes you feel good.
    2. I have never felt like this with my husband
    3. No...
  4. You said that you broke up because he was...

    You said that you broke up because he was immature. Sounds to me like he still has problems growing up. Take care of your own marriage first. This one has cheated 3 times. How do you put up with...
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    What does your best friend say? What do you put...

    What does your best friend say?
    What do you put into the word best?
    I feel for you, this is a horrible situation.
    It is even harder to mke a decision when feeling like this s you should maybe take...
  6. In one instance you are asking for help. The next...

    In one instance you are asking for help. The next you are telling how you left home which was difficult to marry a saviour!
    You are cheating on the one person that has ever given you any respect....
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    I think this is awful and have to say that if you...

    I think this is awful and have to say that if you are old enough to react then there is life in you yet!
    Send him a picture of clean underwear ( no body inside of course ) and title it " I believe...
  8. The affair is over am I being held responsible or paranoid?

    First of all I have to say thank you to the many who have helped me so far with coping with my problem. I really appreciate this.
    For those who don't know my story it is that my husband had an...
  9. I don't altogether agree with the above comments....

    I don't altogether agree with the above comments. The communication sounds like it was made in secrecy. A wife can tolerate this behaviour if she is involved. Smoke can often lead to fire... if it...
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    From what you write I don't think that it is the...

    From what you write I don't think that it is the marriage that is your problem.
    You say you bring home the paycheck and that your wife is fat going towards ugly in your eyes. Your wife has never...
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    The man you have been cheating with for 5...

    The man you have been cheating with for 5 years... he has used you enough and you are fed up with him.
    The flame has gone out. Send the sh!thead back to his wife with an explanation that you are...
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    I believe that the clue to your hurt is in your...

    I believe that the clue to your hurt is in your statement. Quite often we say things reflecting our innermost feelings.
    You say that you did not tell her your feelings for fear of rejection.
    This...
  13. I agree with the others this does ot sound good....

    I agree with the others this does ot sound good. Your gut feeling is telling you something.
    How long do the calls last for?
    How many calls are initiated by your husband?
    How can this affect his...
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    Hi Xo You have good experience with this and I...

    Hi Xo
    You have good experience with this and I do appreciate your help. The others too ( Now I sound a little like Bridget Jones with her thank you speech! )
    I found out quite easily, suddenly the...
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    Not only will it take over but it will preside...

    Not only will it take over but it will preside over other emotions as you mentioned. It takes a lot to admit that you are a jealous person. Know you need to work on that but I don't think you are to...
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    Hi JB Thank you for your time. He doesn't go...

    Hi JB

    Thank you for your time.
    He doesn't go out so much on his own except occasionally with work things. I am never invited on any of these dinners. Admittedly this has upset me in the past as I...
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    Hi Xo... Great honest reply and also helpful. It...

    Hi Xo... Great honest reply and also helpful. It is pretty amazing this jealous feeling. I didn't know I had that. What a relief when you can actually put words onto it. I guess I feel this as I...
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    Thank you for this kind comment. After many years...

    Thank you for this kind comment. After many years together I know that his biggest fear is having to discuss everything. Talking is not his strongpoint and is something I have actually learned to...
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    After the affair insecurity

    It is now 1 mont since my husband told me that that the contact with his affair was over.
    I believed this and the festive season has been nice. Now after 3 weeks of pretty good contact I feel he...
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    ITS NOT HIS WIFE HE LOVES ITS HIS LIFE HE...

    ITS NOT HIS WIFE HE LOVES ITS HIS LIFE HE LOVES...

    Answering your answer.
    You are trying to hold onto anything that will let you keep him. Your friend is trying to console you and give you what...
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    Hi! First of all I would like to say that I...

    Hi!
    First of all I would like to say that I don't think there are too many haters on this site.
    Just a whole load of human beings wondering what the hell happened in their lives. Trying to get it...
  22. He left you once, He is doing the same to his...

    He left you once,
    He is doing the same to his wife to protect a child.
    He didn't want a child with you, have you asked yourself why?
    You are also showing a very selfish side, I want I must get......
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    I think that you should be honest and tell him...

    I think that you should be honest and tell him you read his messages ! Hard , yes but the only way to remain 100% real. Let him then have the chance to tell you about it. See if he remembers it...
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    Brilliant, inspirational, great strength. I will...

    Brilliant, inspirational, great strength. I will keep this to remind me of how you coped.
  25. So many questions so little sleep. If you cheat shame on you.

    1. Why do men cheat emotionally with other women ( texting in secret ) but stay in their relationship if they are not happy?
    2. Why ? When caught cheating, they say that this is your fault for not...
  26. You say she is thinking about breaking up. Well...

    You say she is thinking about breaking up. Well then there is still room for improvement. She is warning you not threatening you. Talk to her in a calm manner and tell he what you are worried about....
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    My husband wandered back to his X after 22 years....

    My husband wandered back to his X after 22 years. Boy that stank! It threw me into psychological chaos. If your partner is not finished with the relationship then you should tread with caution....
  28. Hei Dragonfly. Wow! Let me see... well first of...

    Hei Dragonfly. Wow! Let me see... well first of all we have to admit that the fact that they are still around is very important. With all of the bad feelings, tears, arguments etc etc, he should have...
  29. Hei Noodles, thank you for your comment it is...

    Hei Noodles, thank you for your comment it is really comforting to hear that others are also going through this.( Although I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy )
    Your question : "How do i deal with...
  30. After the affair getting on with life.

    People often write in when they are hurt by someone else's actions towards them. Myself included. When I actally took the time to sit down and reflect over why my husband approached his X after so...
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    Thank you for the responses I reallly appreciate...

    Thank you for the responses I reallly appreciate them.
    I tried to talk about the relationship but that was a no go area. I have to be satisfied with the fact that he is still " here" and sure things...
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    X returns after 22 years

    My husband took contact with his X after 22 years of marriage. We were having some isues but never discussed these. I was stupid enough to believe that thingds would blow over as normal and all would...
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    I am trying so hard... my husband of over 20...

    I am trying so hard... my husband of over 20 years started to text his x from all those years ago when we were going through some what stale times. Total neglect on both parts. This emotional affair...
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    Remember, the grass is always greener on the...

    Remember, the grass is always greener on the other side! Your side is less green because it is getting less manure! Think about it. Why do you want to hurt so many people. Look after what you have it...
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